I'm not attracted to...

Girls who everybody else is. Anybody else feel that way? I actually sort of despise them in a way, since I hate following trends and other things like that. There's nothing worse then a girl with a whole bunch of guys kissing her ass.

Um ok the question is what sort of girls ARE you attracted to? Then we might be able to understand a little more.

Oh I'm attracted to good looking girls just not ones who the rest of the world are.

Who's good looking? Yeah, I know what you mean...I feel that way sometimes about the guys I am attracted to. Although, speaking as a girl who's ass may have been kissed in the past, if you are not a nice person, that attention quickly fades.:)

Good looking, cool, intelligent women. I don't care about their style or what they are into. You shouldn't stereotype people, give everyone a chance. You'd be suprised, there are some very cool trendy people out there! :)

well i think that things were a bit different in the school i just graduated from. Thank god I don't have to go there anymore next year I am gonna get me some real women.

Hmm. Let me get this straight. The average "hot" chick or what society deems as hot is usually preppy, skinny, and trendy. So the normal "hot" chick is what you aren't attracted to. I take it you don't like preppy girls that dress in all the latest fashions etc. Well I have to break it to you. I dress preppy. I wear the latest fashion trends. I love shopping, doing my hair, getting my nails done. I have a closet the size of someones bed room. But just because I'm a "trendy" girl doesn't mean im a fake. So you wouldn't be attracted to me because I don't look like i fit your criteria for hot chicks. But what you don't know about me is that I have a dark side that I don't show to everyone. Maybe a lot of "trendy" girls can be cool if you get to know them. You shouldn't label people like that. Most of my friends are punks. They skateboard and do BMX.

i hate being stereotyped by people, its well bad, u should get to kno a lady before u judge her, it sounds likeu jus cant be hassled wit all the competition from the other guys, which os fair enough, but jus dont judge so early

I know that it's easy to say not to stereotype people, but I feel that people express themselves by the way that they look. I do, anyway. I feel that having things in common outweighs most other things. I could definitely fall in love with someone that I maybe wasn't attracted to physically at first but became more and more attracted to just because we like the same things. Does that make sense? In other words, if someone looks like me, chances are they are like me. I don't mean physically, I mean style wise.

I hold a lot of measure in style and it doesn't mean how much something costs, I mean, do they look artistic and free and not like every other schmo... I think that if you follow trends, then you have no personal style. No sense of who you are. You just look like what you see. You are not reflecting yourself, you are reflecting what you see in a magazine or what's on TV. I am on the outside how I am on the inside. If I meet someone that is not that way, then I will not be attracted to them.

Hmm, I find myself attracted more towards a goth like setting, but then again it just could be a quirk. The thing is, looks count, but personality gets you there.

I know where your coming from man. If a girl is attractive and everyone knows it then SHE usually knows it and that's never a good thing.
I find myself more attracted to girls that are something like 7 or 8 on the fine scale rather then 9 or 10. :rolleyes:

I understand what everyone is saying about all the styles and stuff but I have learned a lot recently even more than usual that it doesnt really have anything to do with their personality. I am starting to date this girl now that is on the dance team at school and is a prep but smokes with me and my friends all the time and is a metal head just like a lot of us. She comes to all the concerts with my friends and me and is just like all of us even though she dresses like a prep.

the only kinda gurl i dont like are the conseided ones. u know the ones that are mean to everyone an talk shit bout all the guys who flirt wit her but u can tell she lives fer the attention. i like quiet gurls, u know the ones that if u tell em to shut up they do (that was a joke ladies so dont get heated).


i actually love all females. i respect a gurl if she respects me. an i never hit a gurl but i wont second think it if she a bitch.

i love women i dont care what they look like as long as they have a kick ass personality im good, men too the sexiest thing is when a man is sweet funny and considerite. ;)

I try not to judge people, even the trendy ones. I don't care if I am judging wrongly or not, because often your first instinct is the right one. I met this man recently who I totally fell for, but he lives in another state. I was talking to a girl who works at the coffee shop about him and she KNEW who I was talking about, just from serving him coffee. She was like, "Oh that hot guy with the blue eyes?" It actually kinda sucks, because I thought that maybe I just thought he was hot because I love his personality. But if other chics totally dig him some bitch might snatch him up and I won't ever see him again. Anyways I guess what I am saying is stop deciding who you like based on what they look like, if you look in their eyes and you can't take your gaze away I say thats a real thing and go for it.

if you look into someones eyes an they look into yours an their pupils get bigger that means they love you. i heard that somewhere, dun know if its true or not but jus thought id put it up here

I don't really count looks as the number 1 factor of liking some chick. If i did a stoner like me with the average looks and sh*t wouldn't go to far. Alot of kids don't think my girlfriend is hot but i don't give a shit she looks good to me and atleast has a cool personality and shares the same interest and most of all doesn't bitch when i decide to hang out with friends or go toke whenever i want. Seriously most of the chicks at my school who are part of the preppy crew and is considered the hottest chicks at school are really conceded assholes. Not all of them are like that but from my experiences they mostly are. Good looks yea, Good personality? HELL NO

Lol. Everyone keeps bringing up school. High school, and ever college can be a bitch because people still tend to stereo type and can't look beneath the surface. I've been told guys change their attitudes after high school, but I've yet to notice a change. I don't know man, Maybe my area jsut sucks in the way of guys.... lol

SMOKEY :D:D enuff said :p