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My dad has no respect for my privacy
I'm always worrying about smoking in my room, in case my dad walks in while tokin', so last night i thought i might as well. Well i had a full bowl, smoked half of it, smoked the other half in one hit, just as i finished the hit i hear *knock knock* "Josh" and the door opening *creak* all in 2 seconds, it was my dad, just bursting into my room while i had a hit held in, i blew it out the window and he said "you seeing if it's raining?" so i said yeh as i had just come in from the window.
Then what does he do, except sit on my fuckin' bed behind me watching my tv, so i walked out and got a drink (stashed my pipe and lighter in the garage) and when i came back into my room he was just sitting on my bed, so i just watched tv ignoring him and he finally went away, but i know he must have smelt smoke as he wouldn't have just sat in here otherwise.
It pisses me off because every single night, at least twice he bursts in and i hear him sniffing the air, then just says "computer ok?" even though he knows there's nothing fuckin' wrong with it, what about if i was havin' a wank or something when he burst in? he has no respect for my privacy.
So today i'm kinda blanking him and just giving him short sharp answers, just to get the message across that he pissed me off last night, grr!
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
lmfao that was hilarorus to read! haha i loved "computer ok?" haha it was like a fucking tv show.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
It sucks that he comes in at least twice a night just to see if my room smells of weed, and the only thing he can think of saying to have a reason to come in is "computer ok?" It makes me really angry when he does it, so i'm pissed off all night 'cause he's been doing this for ages!
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
Buy a lock for your door! lol :D
haha if they break down the door thats there problem. :D
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
I did before, he took it down, there's no chance of him busting me if i have a lock, so he won't let me have it.. I really wish i was having a wank when he walked in, then i could have been really pissed off at him for a reason.
My mum bought me some new jeans yesterday, if i'd have thought quicker i could have dropped my trousers and said "what the hell! I'm getting changed, don't just walk in:mad:
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
My door doesn't shut anyway, it's already been broken down, it wasn't locked or anything my dad came up (after i slammed the door 'cause he pissed me off) and kicked it through, now the handle does nothing, the thing that holds the door shut is broken back :mad: x2
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by 3 Sheets To The Wind
My door doesn't shut anyway, it's already been broken down, it wasn't locked or anything my dad came up (after i slammed the door 'cause he pissed me off) and kicked it through, now the handle does nothing, the thing that holds the door shut is broken back :mad: x2
Damn your just fuckered, best solution.....smoke outside!
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
He proubaly is equaly as frustrated with you....
You say he doesn't respect your privacy........well you don't respect his rules.
If he says no smoking in the house....than no smoking in the fucking house.
Go for a walk outside.....but you canâ??t make a good argument for yourself when you do the same thing to him.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by likemclever
He proubaly is equaly as frustrated with you....
You say he doesn't respect your privacy........well you don't respect his rules.
If he says no smoking in the house....than no smoking in the fucking house.
Go for a walk outside.....but you canâ??t make a good argument for yourself when you do the same thing to him.
i agree, as long as your under his roof you should at least respect what he says. but it is some bullshit he does that to you though.
cody
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
I can't go outside, if i go out i'd have to be out until i'm sober, as when i come back from anywhere my dad seems to run to the front door to see me, and always turns the lights on so he can see my eyes (i know he tried to look at them, 'cause he keeps talking bullshit so i have to look at him at least once) and i have no reason to be going outside.. especially just for 5 minutes. And when he's in the house and when i smoke, it's usually dark so there's nowhere to walk, i live near a main road so i can't smoke on the streets.. the only solution is....... smoke in the house, but in the bathroom/small downstairs toilet.
I can't get around it whatever happens
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by jca11285
i agree, as long as your under his roof you should at least respect what he says. but it is some bullshit he does that to you though.
cody
Thanks, he just walks in all the time.. oh for fucks sake, guess who just came in? my dad, this is what happened
Dad: *sniff* your computer ok?
Me: Yeh.....
Dad: good:)
Me: ...
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
Josh, you should just smoke when no ones home. You will never get cought that way unless they come home when your totally ripped or your eyes r red.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
True, but they are always home and i like to be high in the evenings and at night when i can just chill and talk to people, when there's no one home it's always weeday daytime, and i just laze about watching tv and eating sooo much junk food, i don't like it, it's not as fun as being able to chat to people
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
Ok i see, well good luck with having a wank next time he comes in. May get you ur lock back.LOL
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
i dont have a door for my room...i live in the basement and i have a sheet put up...how ghetto, good thing i dont toke anymore, but i used to all the time,never had a problem
and btw ur dad seems like a nice guy compared to my step dad, he keeps threatening to send me to juvy because im disrespectful (im on house arrest, so all he has to do is call and say he wants me out of his house) my step dad goes around and picks fights with me saying im making his life a living hell, when i go out of my way to stay away from him
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by 3 Sheets To The Wind
I can't go outside, if i go out i'd have to be out until i'm sober, as when i come back from anywhere my dad seems to run to the front door to see me, and always turns the lights on so he can see my eyes (i know he tried to look at them, 'cause he keeps talking bullshit so i have to look at him at least once) and i have no reason to be going outside.. especially just for 5 minutes. And when he's in the house and when i smoke, it's usually dark so there's nowhere to walk, i live near a main road so i can't smoke on the streets.. the only solution is....... smoke in the house, but in the bathroom/small downstairs toilet.
I can't get around it whatever happens
LOL......dad meets you at the door huh....
To me it sounds like you have a great dad who is trying to protect his son...I understand your frustration but try and take it easy on him.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
I dont have a door either. My dad built the room specificly so it wouldnt have a door.
Also, my parents seem to love walking in to interrupt me for the stupidest reasons. I figured out recently that theyre just doing it for the hell of it.
My advice...find somewhere else to live. In the meantime, keep a supply of things to throw at people who walk in your room. AIM FOR THE HEAD
p.s. if youve got problems with folks trying to intimidate you, i'd suggest reading hand to hand combat manuals. Ive never broken my dad's limbs yet, but its very reassuring knowing you can. Hehe..if you decide to beat the shit out of your folks its even better knowing you have another place to live. Im moving next month! :)
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
LOL beating my folks into a pulp haha, and yeah i'm only 16 so i have nowhere to go or anything lol
If i wanted to hurt people who came into my room, i'll shoot them lol, but as i don't want to hurt them, then i do fuck all
About 1 minute ago my dad knocked my door once (quietly) and walked straight in, said "got the duster and polish?" i gave it to him and he said "ooh yeh, thanks" and walked off, still pissed me off that he just walked straight in, might as well not have knocked :mad:
Yeh he does care about me likemclever, but he should ease up on trying to bust me
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
making him smoke in the streets is protecting him? Look here, Sting, you dont know what youre talking about.
I THROW THE BABIES IN THE BARBED WIRE FOR PROTECTION
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
Haha Euporic, i like your style;)
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
if you have a window in your bathroom its great to smoke your bowls and say your taking a shower. if not then maybe a garage? at my house we have sheds out back and i go in there. or i go walk through the woods
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
Yeah i usually run the shower on hot, and smoke out the window, but usually i just want a quick smoke and talk on here, and i have to be in the bathroom, smoking then having a shower for at least 15 mins, i'd rather smoke a quick bowl and chill on the computer and shit, too much hassle always having to do that.
I used to smoke in the downstairs toilet/bathroom which has an extraction fan, but now just smoke in my room, out the window, with my pipe, and it's just easier and i like it more
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
dam man but hey always use the wank as a excuse
what you doing?
having a wank fcs please dad can u go
would work like a charm
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
I'll do it next time, really wish i'd just dropped my trousers and said i was trying my new jeans on lol i could have been pissed off at him and had a reason
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by Euphoric
I dont have a door either. My dad built the room specificly so it wouldnt have a door.
Also, my parents seem to love walking in to interrupt me for the stupidest reasons. I figured out recently that theyre just doing it for the hell of it.
My advice...find somewhere else to live. In the meantime, keep a supply of things to throw at people who walk in your room. AIM FOR THE HEAD
p.s. if youve got problems with folks trying to intimidate you, i'd suggest reading hand to hand combat manuals. Ive never broken my dad's limbs yet, but its very reassuring knowing you can. Hehe..if you decide to beat the shit out of your folks its even better knowing you have another place to live. Im moving next month! :)
Judging buy your attitudeâ?¦.I wouldnâ??t have given you a door either.
If your not paying rentâ?¦.than you have to respect their rules.
If you want to be an adult than go out and get a job and get your own place.
If you want to take the stance of an adultâ?¦
Than you also have to take on the responsibility of one.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
OOOOGOOD IDEA....
NEXT TIME U HEAR HIM COMING QUICKLY WANK AND WHEN HE OPENS THE DOOR CUM ON HIM
OOOOOOOO
BETTER YET LET HIM CATCH U FINGERING UR ARSE SO HE THINKS UR GAY AND 4GETS ANYTHING ABOTU WEED!!!!
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
hMm..well my parents used to walk in my room accusing me of smoking weed almost like a hobby!
Check it out though..next time they say..YOU LOOK HIGH :mad: ..say..YEA ITS FROM ALL THE POT IVE BEEN SMOKING!!! :rolleyes: after a few times of this, theyll stfu. Trust me :)
If they come in your room trying to find out if youve been smoking i have found that offering them a hit from your pipe or bong works great too.
Some people just want to intimidate you so they can feel important. Once you teach them that they cant push you around they will try different, less annoying strategies.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
Next time i hear him knock, i hope i have time to drop my trousers, but he just bursts straight in, so i don't know if i'll have time..
Grr it annoys me that he feels he has to just come into my room to see if i'm smoking, regardless of what i'm up to.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
just smoke with ur pants off then you will always be ready..lol...ever think of getting a vapo? then he wont smell smoke and maybe stop bothering you...thats why he does it he wants to catch you...btw reading ur post reminded me of an old friend i had he was from england and i loved talking to him high he would always make me laugh cuz he would get mad sometimes and say 'bloody asshole' bloody asshole..lmao...sorry read the 'havin' a wank' and it brought back good memories
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
Haha, wanking is pure goodness anyway haha, and yeah i am funny whilst high, fear not folks, i will smoke up tonight lol, later whilst having a shower, or when everyone's asleep
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
is it possible he just wantsd to join you?
if i were supposed to be responsible and have a family, i would need a fucking smoke.
meh, that's why god invented ciggarettes.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
You should move your computer next to your door. Not to block it, but make it so he could talk to you without going all the way into your room. Or at least, if he does come all the way in, it makes it more obvious that he's checking you out for the green.
OR
When you AREN'T high and he comes in, just be like, "It's okay, Dad, I'm not stoned right now. You don't have to pretend to care about my computer."
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
I know it may piss you off but you have to look at it from his point of view. So far as he's concerned he's looking out for you and stopping you from smoking that 'evil' drug.
May help to have a talk with him about respecting your privacy a bit more, but try not to just sit back and try to piss him off.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by 3 Sheets To The Wind
I'm always worrying about smoking in my room, in case my dad walks in while tokin', so last night i thought i might as well. Well i had a full bowl, smoked half of it, smoked the other half in one hit, just as i finished the hit i hear *knock knock* "Josh" and the door opening *creak* all in 2 seconds, it was my dad, just bursting into my room while i had a hit held in, i blew it out the window and he said "you seeing if it's raining?" so i said yeh as i had just come in from the window.
Then what does he do, except sit on my fuckin' bed behind me watching my tv, so i walked out and got a drink (stashed my pipe and lighter in the garage) and when i came back into my room he was just sitting on my bed, so i just watched tv ignoring him and he finally went away, but i know he must have smelt smoke as he wouldn't have just sat in here otherwise.
It pisses me off because every single night, at least twice he bursts in and i hear him sniffing the air, then just says "computer ok?" even though he knows there's nothing fuckin' wrong with it, what about if i was havin' a wank or something when he burst in? he has no respect for my privacy.
So today i'm kinda blanking him and just giving him short sharp answers, just to get the message across that he pissed me off last night, grr!
well before ya get all bent out of shape may i inject a few thoughts
what if he just wanted to spend a few minutes with his son becuase he feels he would like to be closer to you
what if he is cool enough to ignore the fact he cuaght you toking.he may not of wanted to raise any hell about it
did it cross your mind he might have something on his mind wanted to talk to you but you sat there like a cold fish,all into yourself to much to notice
or is it all about you,
dude thats ya dad i have no clue what kinda relationship ya have.
asking about the pc is trying to find COMMON GROUND with ya maybe
you call it nosy
to him its showing some interest in your life,
take him fishing or something see how much better yaw get along,
peace
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
We went to an uphill race a few weeks back, got on fine:)
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by 3 Sheets To The Wind
I'm always worrying about smoking in my room, in case my dad walks in while tokin', so last night i thought i might as well. Well i had a full bowl, smoked half of it, smoked the other half in one hit, just as i finished the hit i hear *knock knock* "Josh" and the door opening *creak* all in 2 seconds, it was my dad, just bursting into my room while i had a hit held in, i blew it out the window and he said "you seeing if it's raining?" so i said yeh as i had just come in from the window.
Then what does he do, except sit on my fuckin' bed behind me watching my tv, so i walked out and got a drink (stashed my pipe and lighter in the garage) and when i came back into my room he was just sitting on my bed, so i just watched tv ignoring him and he finally went away, but i know he must have smelt smoke as he wouldn't have just sat in here otherwise.
It pisses me off because every single night, at least twice he bursts in and i hear him sniffing the air, then just says "computer ok?" even though he knows there's nothing fuckin' wrong with it, what about if i was havin' a wank or something when he burst in? he has no respect for my privacy.
So today i'm kinda blanking him and just giving him short sharp answers, just to get the message across that he pissed me off last night, grr!
You know what, my dad used to walk in front of me when I was sitting down watching the news or whatever just coming in from a toke, just to look me in the eyes and say something inane he would have otherwise done from across the room.
Then hed go whipser with the step mothra, and theyd both laugh a bit...was so anoying.
I think parents are people, and when people get bored they bother other people by usuing social violence. Social violence, like making innocuous sittuations uncomfortable for others, but not for yourself, for any number of reasons to validate the psychic aggression.
Or maybe your dad just wanted you to offer him a hit, and hes to shy to say.
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
while youre taking nowheremans amazing advice, take a look at this website then judge for yourself if you should listen to him or me. BREAK HIS FUCKIN LEGS OFF WHEN HE KNOCKS
www.fishinghurts.com
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by Canadabis
You know what, my dad used to walk in front of me when I was sitting down watching the news or whatever just coming in from a toke, just to look me in the eyes and say something inane he would have otherwise done from across the room.
Then hed go whipser with the step mothra, and theyd both laugh a bit...was so anoying.
I think parents are people, and when people get bored they bother other people by usuing social violence. Social violence, like making innocuous sittuations uncomfortable for others, but not for yourself, for any number of reasons to validate the psychic aggression.
Or maybe your dad just wanted you to offer him a hit, and hes to shy to say.
Man, that just made so much sense, that's a cool explanation, showing from both points of view, i took my own advice and smoked a couple of bowls;)
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by Euphoric
while youre taking nowheremans amazing advice, take a look at this website then judge for yourself if you should listen to him or me. BREAK HIS FUCKIN LEGS OFF WHEN HE KNOCKS
www.fishinghurts.com
Breaking his legs off, what has that got to do with fishing *karate kick to the eyes* HAHA!!!
I took good advice from myself (^^^) woo
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My dad has no respect for my privacy
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Originally Posted by Lily420
Ok i see, well good luck with having a wank next time he comes in. May get you ur lock back.LOL
LMFAO..Lily420 that was gold..:D.