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I've just had the worst 3 weeks of my life.
I was sick for a week, wrecked my car, broke up with the guy I was dating, got in 2 fights, my friend passed away, I got dropped from 2 of my 3 classes, my parents want me out of the house, and I am completely broke.
I feel like things can't get much worse so they can only get better, right?
I really need some words of encouragement right now.
Keep the faith.
In what, that's up to you.
Things could be much worse and your house could fill up with water. Homeless shelters are the 'place to be at' this time of year. But, only bring one pair of shoes and sleep with them in your arms.
Why are your parents kicking you out?
dam man sucks
remmeber the drugs dont work
they just make things worse
lol
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Originally Posted by robert42
..but i know i'll see your face again;)
*hugs BlazinHaze*
Thanks y'all.
and my parents are kicking me out cause I'm almost 19 and they can.
They've already kicked me out 8 times this year just for bullshit reasons.
But you weren't even 19.
As soon as I turned 18 my parents have either threatened to kick me out or have kicked me out simply because the day I became an "adult" it was legal for them to do it.Quote:
Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs
That's not fair, they should be sending you away to college if they want you out so bad. It's fucked up that parents won't accept responsibility for their children, no matter how old they are. It's like planting a seed, watching the plant grow and mature, and then never watering it again.
It's definitely not their fault that I'm not in college, cause they would've paid my full tuition to where ever I went. I fucked up in high school, and now I fucked up my community college shit. I can't blame them though.Quote:
Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs
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I get your drift. You're still their fault. Talk with them at the dinner table, or wherever, about anything, ask them questions you know they can answer. Show them that you're life is in their hands and that you need them.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlazinHaze
Same goes for me that goes for hipE, I hpoe thngsi wkor otu rof you.
Parents just don't pay for their kids for 18 years by schooling, taking care of of you, feeding, birthdays, christmas, summer holidays, etc...then just say, "hey, you're 18, get the fuck out" :confused: You must have done something to piss them off.
None of our business, nor do I want it make mine, but things will get better. You're just having a bad week.
I had a shit week myself, but tonight was really nice. Just keep your head up and things will turn around bro
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Originally Posted by BlazinHaze
damn, girl. my parents say the same shit. "your eighteen now, either you pay rent or get out". luckily for me i've gotten my shit together and they don't feel like kicking me out is necessary for me to learn my lesson.
the last thing your parents want to do is hurt you. so you have to make decisions that don't conflict with your life at home. get a job or something, show them your responsible instead of going out and getting trashed. it's much easier said than done, but remember:
"the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do" - pertaining to the feeling that comes from inside.
good luck, babe. things get worse before they get better, and that means that there are life's downfalls, it just depends on how you decide to act on them. you can learn from everything.
peace.
Yeah, hope all goes wellfor you, get your parents to read this thread;) they should see how many other people feel about your situation..
Good luck:)
Thanks, but I don't think I should rub the fact that I smoke weed in their faces by showing them this. They know I do it, but I couldn't show them the fact that I even post here; I would feel bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by 3 Sheets To The Wind
I really do appreciate all of y'alls words of encouragement though. :)
i bet you joke about smoking marijuana all the time.
hope everything works out for ya Blazin
in same position myself :(
hope u can over come your probs
peace
Things will get better Blazin .... Every time you get through a difficult part of your life, you get stronger as a person. Just fight your way through it and things will get better.
This is the point in your life that you must transition from a child to an adult. You need to have a plan for yourself and your life .... to become a responsible, mature, independent, and happy adult. It won't be easy, but having control of your life is part of being an adult.
My guess is that your parents would be willing to help you out if they saw you progressing toward independence. I have 2 children the same age going through the same stress. I'm not throwing them out, and I am helping them get to where they want to be. But the responsibility is on THEM to have a plan for their lives.
Good Luck, and things WILL get better.
Well the last 2 days have been much better than my last 3 weeks. I moved out of my parents house. I am going back to school in January, and I'm going to work until then. My car is fixed, $4000 later.
So, I guess things are looking better in my world. Thanks for y'all's support.
Damn, I could've gotten you a nice car $4000, my Brother has 32 of them.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlazinHaze
My car is only worth about $6000 or $7000, but the accident I was in was the other person's fault and they claimed full liability, so we just got it fixed.Quote:
Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs
I really wanted a new car though because I'm sick of mine.
They have auctions for dealers and seperate auctions for the public, and dealers. Him and his friend own a car dealership and they buy a lot of cars from there. If they have them in N.C., you could go to one, preferably with a dealer. The 'dealers' auction, around here, is in the southern part of Chesapeake. So is the public auction, but at a different site.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlazinHaze
car not even on road and still payin for it :(
fines 2, court soon
I got a few suggestions:
1. Get a job
2. Stop crying
3. Stop depending on your parents
If all else fails
4. just KILL YOURSELF
1. I have a job.Quote:
Originally Posted by tylerkane
2. I don't cry.
3. I don't depend on my parents; they cut me off 3 years ago.
4. I don't even really know what to say to that one except FUCK YOU.
Karma's a bitch, and that'll come back to you one day.
nice one, well said ;)
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Originally Posted by tylerkane
I got a few suggestions:
1. Get a job
2. Stop crying
3. Stop depending on your parents
If all else fails
4. just KILL YOURSELF
You know Tylerkane all you ever do is bash people and incite anger amongst many users in this forum, ive been reading this forum oh..... since like 2001 and 95% of your posts are always trying to insite a flame war. Get a life man if you don't have something nice to say, then don't speak at all. I'm pretty sure people would agree with that. Well cept for the other haters on the forum that might side with you.. Enough said. :mad:
P.S. Glad to hear things are working out for you Blazin.. and yeah car's can be a bitch to pay for not to mention damn insurance prices. :eek:
5. penisesQuote:
Originally Posted by tylerkane
Finally, someone noticed me.Quote:
You know Tylerkane all you ever do is bash people and incite anger amongst many users in this forum
Sorry I don't give everyone pity that seeks it on a messege board.
http://media.skoopy.com/vids/vid_00353.wmv
atleast your not the girl in the purple here :-(