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ok...so i was talking to a female friend of mine...and the subject of having a 3some came up...i think it would be fantastic, but i dont know how to bring it about to my girlfriend...shes sexually active and i love her to death, i just dont want her to think that shes not alone good enough...is there any way that any of you can think of to bring this thought to her without making her feel like shes less???
Watch some threesome porn with her and feel her out on the issue. Pun intended.
DANGER! DANGER!! First thing is the attitude of "what were you thinking, another girl or guy?" First sign of sure death! Say girl, your a perv looking for more action...say a guy, your gay! Lose, lose!! Get her drunk as a pig and then ask...maybe she won't remember if ya pissed her off.
ha, great pun...
yeah, its definantly with a girl...
drunk may work, she gets drunk extremely easy, so...
SEXUAL ABUSE!!
called it again.
just wondering, but if you love her, why would you want to have a threesome? I mean, isnt just having sex with her satisfying enough, or is it getting boring for you? And if it is boring, why not just try new things with her?
I like steak...love steak...ever have steak and lobster? MMMMMMMMMMM gooood! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Mojavpa
Well some people consider sex an act of intimacy and an expression of love, not just a way to get off.Quote:
Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud
Granted and I agree, but if two consenting adults decide to expand their relationship, what the hell! Set the guidelines and have fun.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mojavpa
Monagomy is a religious belief/ or personal preference.
Like I said, love steak...so do you...I love steak and lobster, maybe you don't. Don't know how it tastes until you try. :D
They can have threesomes, foursomes, fivessomes, whatever. Its their so-called relationship. I'm just saying that, to me, its hard to justify if you profess you love someone, unless you're prepared to have her pick the girl, or even bring a guy into the bedroom. And if you're not ok with another guy fucking your girlfriend in front of you, or having your girlfriend a pick a girl who you may not be that attracted to, why not? Because most of the time(I dont know if this is the case with famingskullballs) the guy just wants to fuck another girl who hes interested in, but doesnt want to seem like hes cheating.Quote:
Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud
if u love her and want a relationship with her think twice about doing it it can have really bad results
I get these conversations out of the way as soon as i meet a person that i really like.Just ask her has she ever tried it before even though you know that she has not.See how she reacts like if she seems to like the idea or if it makes her look disgusted then just talk about it with her and you will get an idea if she is interested in that kind of thing.You never know it may be something that she has always wanted to try.There are plenty of ways you could get into the subject of 3somes.
You never asked me about it Jacq?
And further more, I thought the first question you asked when you like someone was/is... "What kind of deoderant do you wear?"
: )
i just figured id try...
id be fine with a guy in the bedroom, a bit uneasy, but thats just because...
theres a difference in making love and having sex, wed be making love while the other person is just sex...
yeah, problems may come up...probably a bad idea
and what if the steak and the lobster are stuffed with whipped cream???
ha
do it with someone elses girlfriend(s)!
yeah, what he said : )
lol i mean like if i think i really like a person and think it will go further when you have seen them a few times or whatever.I like to know these things straight off the bat so i can work out what they really want lol.Hey Garden Knowm have you had a threesome? lol
I did ask now didnt iQuote:
Originally Posted by Garden Knowm
But really i have done a 3some a few times and it was ok with certain people actually it was quite fun because it was a new thing.Last time i did it things did fuck up.Did a 4 too but never more than that.You gotta be careful because you or the other person can get feelings for the one that they are not supposed to.If i ever do it again it will be on my terms and definatley myself and 2 men (sorry all if that sounds sick) just a change from the usual 2f 1m crap.
damn i got it easy my girl just brings home random women :D
A few times.. sometimes with an extra girl... sometimes with an extra guy.... very mellow.. just happened... I have not hooked up with the guy but we have been servicing or being serviced by the same girl at the same time... LOL
A good woman is kinda like a two car garage... sorry I couldn't resist...hehehee
WHile being with 2 girls, I have had some concerns that I am neglecting one of the girls or showing favortism...
smb
hmmmmmmmmmmmm-- i smell good today.. : )
i tired the whole drunk thing all i had was 2 girls fight and got ass from neither best way is have the other girl slowly talk about it but this might create problems cause she might think shes trying to just bone u
two guys is alright..but it kinda makes me sick if they are anywhere near eachother..done it a few times but like to stick my man by myself
i have decided against
wise choice
That is what always gets to be the issue, she wants a threesome to be two guys, you want it to be two girls, ummm, do both. But then probably the other guy/girl are gonna want to be with your girl...It gets complicated.