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Unfortunately for me, my dad isn't a retard, and figured out I smoke. He had justifiable concerns like depression, school work, bad habits etc, and I explained to him that my life was fine. He seems pretty OK with it, which he should be, since his two brothers both use it medicinally.
My problem is that he told my mom, and she is on her way home, and she is "freaking out". How do I calm her down and bring her to my side without coming off as an arrogant asshole?
tell her its medically used..so it shouldnt be anything wrong with and you keep up with your school work and dont smoke evry chance you get just when you have nothing to do and finsihed all your work..tell her you know its bad to smoke if you are being asked to complete some sort of assignment...but when ur free of worries it alright
hey man
Getting caught happens to 99% of people who smoke weed recreationally. Dont worry about it I guess. Theyre probably going to yell at you just go with it. play the game.
talk it out with her.. you know your own mother better than we do. If you can reason with her then go for it.
haha my mom talked to me about smoking pot yesterday haha
My mom thinks I've died and I'll never come back, and my dad is just like "don't smoke in your room".
Can't these people agree on something? :p
I'd ask your dad to talk to your mom.. your mom would be a lot more likely to listen to an "equal" instead of her kid.
Honestly, I would lie and say that you'll keep it for the weekends.
Already got that one covered ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by GARN
I was about to go downtown and get some seeds so I could start growing and stop wasting my money. But my dad found out about my weed because I kept running out of money without much explanation. If I were to go and buy seeds and a grow system, he would think I'm still wasting money again.
I just got caught, but i have been doing it for about a year and my grades and what not have been great and my personality became uplifted so they dont really care, as long as i cheat on the drug tests that is.
I just got a talk about it too. My mom knows i've done it a few times but she doesn't know i still do it every weekend. She just told me i should wait until i'm older (i'm 15).
Well I gave up on my mom. She said that I could give all the facts people think they know, but people used to praise cigarettes and then they turned out to kill people.
She thinks that if I keep smoking weed, I will never be able to go to university, get a job, live a life. She thinks that smoking weed is what makes people get bored with life, do nothing, and start living on the streets. Its so fucking funny, she even thinks that my siblings have never smoked weed. All my siblings have tried it, two of them went to university and have kickass lives, one of them is a single mother without a job. They've all given the biggest hints about smoking weed to her, and she still doesn't believe it. She still thinks i'm the first one and I'm her big failiure.
Ultimately, she has no capacity to do any research, no trust or respect to me or the researchers that have studied the effects of weed, and no faith in me. She convinced me that her views will never change.
I never really liked her, but that just set me off. Fuck it all man, my life has never been better since i started weed, I'm gonna show her my best fucking grades ever, I'm gonna show her how i participate in more clubs than before, and I'm gonna hopefully fucking get some sense into her.
Thats a very good idea. Always good to get your shit handled. Its not the grades for me, but still shit has to be handled.
Proving her wrong is the best thing to do, even if she never openly admits it.
My dad, on the other hand, is fucking awesome. He's always been a left wing, open minded activist, and he always listens and considers what I have to say. He always sides with cannabis info sources that have research info to back their facts up (erowid) and not just a bunch of random crap thrown together (facts for teens).
deny ... deny.... deny
no but she might not be as understanding as some people think, so dont say nutin stupid
sort of the same way with me... and my dad said since my weed is costs so much compared to his he told me to just grow... and the only problem i have is i live with my mom... althu i have heard from here brother that she would rather me smoke a bowl the drink a 40ty OZ
Nice lie partyguy.
thats no fucking lie man... she would rather me smoke weed then drink if i want any mind altering effects in my life, althu she would rather me not smoke pot or anything. and my dad did tell me to just grow my ownQuote:
Originally Posted by tylerkane
do you mean ALTHOUGH not althu