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i'm attracted to my supervisor at work. she's roughly eight years older than me, but gives me a promising look of relations. i need some help. i don't know how i should approach her and maybe i shouldn't, but it's just so tempting to have sex with an older lady. any suggestions will be appreciated.
well if any are appreciated dont' flame me for what i'm about to say.
i don't think you should honestly, cuz if it does work out then goes to hell she could fire you out of spite (just by waiting for you to screw up and using it to fire you and not getting in trouble) and if it doesn't there will be alot of weird tension. (i'm not christian this just is how i think) temptation is usually against you. most of mankind covet something they can't have, or don't have the means to gain. it's just human nature.
on the other hand if you really want to get to know her, then first be sure she's not already seeing someone or intrested and talk to her in the office or whatever, get to know her a bit.... maybe drop a hint or two you wanna get with her. after a couple of weeks invite her out to coffee or something of the like, nothing that could signify an actual date, rather a 'get to know each other better' meeting. drop stronger hints there, let her know you don't want there to be any tension between the two of you in work but you do like her and want to know her alot more, maybe get together offically down the road. job and personal relations have to be handeled more cautiously then everyday relationships, especially when one person has power over another.
Like psycho said, I wouldn't. There are too many cool females out there to risk losing your job for one. ((Or risking your peace of mind at your job.))
Work is generally considered a no-no for dating.
Just my opinion. Good luck on whatever you decide. ^^
dont get your meat where you make your dough
i mean becareful cause u might think shes thinking a certain way but shes probally not so u dont want to make a move and her be shocked but if she makes it then go for it. my manager wanted to fuck me lol she grabbed my dick a few times but she said never to let anything change
be like "lets fuck"
just wait and see if she makes a move first
lol girlz usually dont makes moves first. **sigh**
id say first how old r u. if your 17 and shes 25 its a lil bit different than if u were 25 and her 33.
anyway if u have the feeling she may be attracted, or anything related to this, by you, well make a move. slowly. just talk a lot to her. but seriously if i were you id just try to get someone younger. loads and loads of nice girlz are everywhere
company christmas party! that's where the hookinup happens, can you wait three months?
If your work relationship can remain the same business only then go for it...I was in a similar circumstance yrs ago my boss was 13 yrs older than me,,,I didnt regret it one bit have some pretty awesome enjoyable memories of it. Of course always be discreet in your relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ganj
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thanks, guys. i had an insightful dream that determined my course of action, or lack therof.
a brief description would be: i rescued her from a haunted house and she turned into my mom. i thought things through and your right, "don't get your meat where you get your dough". nicely put by the way.
thanks again.