Question for y'all about my situation...

Okay, so I met 2 guys last week and they're pretty good friends. The first night I met them I flirted with one of them a little bit. I hung out with him a couple times, but now the other guy is calling me and I think I want him instead of the first guy. A guy friend of mine told me that I'll probably ruin their friendship. I don't know if they have realized the situation yet. This really sucks because I've been single for awhile and it seems as though I either have no guy or too many.

Please y'all, I just need some help with this shit.

You go for the guy you want, let them sort out their problems if it causes any. life is to short to not go for what you want.

peace
pp69

That's so true, thanks. I just hate feeling guilty...

I really couldnt see that ruining any friendships i have with my friends..........espeically if its not even a girlfriend, just a girl they recently met...

do what you gotta do. i don't think a chick should ever come between to guys friendships, but that's not something YOU can control, it's how mature they are about the situation and how THEY deal with it. just atleast don't lure the other one forever cuz you don't want to tell him you are intrested in his friend, and no him....cuz that is fucked up. just be flat out and honest with both of them.

Ya just do what makes you happy, you may feel guilty for a bit but if its worth it then go for it ;)

I think y'all are right. It's not really my fault that they're both stuck on my awesomeness...

shit the same fuckin shit happened to me and now my "friend" wont talk to me anymore coz im sleepin with his ex-girlfriend but he still love her.

i think the best that you could do is talk to them both about the sit. tell guy one that you like guy to, and ask him, if you and guy 2 got together if he would have beef with guy 2. just talk it out with them, its the best you can do. hope i could help.

If you're awesome then find someone awesome enough to blow away the confusion.

Alright, so now the first guy left town so I don't have to worry about that anymore. But, now there's a new problem evolving. The second guy has another friend and all 3 of us chill sometimes. Well, tonight the second guy got drunk and left, so it was just me and the other guy and some friends of mine. The 3rd guy starting taking it upon himself to "warn" me about his friend. Plus, I was getting weird vibes from him all night, and it seems like the first situation all over again. So, basically I am giving up on guys for right now. Why does it have to be so difficult. I mean I consider myself to be down-to-earth, fun to hang out with, and pretty, so what's the problem?