i kinda want to get caught

My dad and i get along really well. i found a j on him once so i know he smokes, maybe not every day but probably once in a while. anyway, i joke around alot about weed and me smoking...so i think he knows. but i kinda wanna just be smokin in my room and let him catch me. just so i can get it out there. hopefully he would sit down next to me and take a toke or two.
i am gonna wait till i have really good grades so i can show im responsible and just kinda talk to him about it so i dont have to be so stealth anymore.
what do you guys think?????

yea just tell him you smoke i used to have the same problem with my dad cause he smoked all the damn time but when he caught me he got mad at me. but now hes pretty much cool about it. he eventually came aropund and we smoked a few times but then he got arrested for drunk driving and he had to quit smoking. he still dont care that i smoke but his girlfriend is bitch about

Dont just let him catch you my friend or you will risk a trust/suspicion problem.
If you want him to know ( great )just sit down and tell him straight out. Any parent would respect the honesty and the courage that would take and that will build trust as opposed to killing it. Even if he's not cool with the idea he will no doubt respect that you took the initiative and shared it with him. He wont be wondering if youre honest if you prove you are before the doubts set in. It could be a building block for a great open relationship instead of the steroetypical parents vs teenagers scenerio.
I respect your balls and your desire to not be sneakin around behind his back.

Cheers!

Just say something like "I was thinking about trying pot." Something like that. See how he reacts. If he's like "Hello NO!" Then just keep it stealth.

dont say nothing if it happends it will happen but dont be stupid and tell him

I told my mom that i was gonna smoke weed when i got older and she was cool with it and im only 15 now so i dont know if she would think it was okay for me to be smoking at this age.

well i dont think hed get pissed and he told me when i am older
but i think if i told him he would be like oh ok have fun

just ask him. if he's cool, then y'all could probably toke and drink a few beers.

I think you should go for it, let him find you smokin dat shit and then let him join :D Haha, and then smoke together every week sumthin! Best of luck man!

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u said yourself he smokes too
so if u r old enough to smoke
u r old enough to have the balls to come out n tell him
if he starts having a go just tell u know he smokes n stop being a hypocrite

Man don't wait fro him to catch you. Then he'll think that you're not as open with him. He'd probably definitely rather have you tell him openly then him find you sneaking around smoking and shit. Don't take the advice of letting him catch you. Just bring it up in casual conversation. Maybe don't even tell him that you do but something like you are thinking about trying it. See how it goes. If he says no I don't want you trying it then I guess keep it secret but if not then you can go from there. Maybe he'll say well if you're going to the I want you to do it with me.

well my dad is the kind of person who wouldnt want me to try it but would be ok with it if i already have....he let me have amrgarita tonite so i dont think he could get to mad but i think that lily is right it might be better to let him join in

Don't get caught, just come out and tell him.

i got caught one day at skoo and my dads all like u gotta stop doin stupid shit and im thinkin 2 myself like wtf u smoke weed too but it didnt relly bother me bcuz at the time i was high lol i had to go to classes and well im still smokn heh even more actually

well tahnks for the votes but now i have a dilema. im gonna talk to him about it but how do you guys think would be a good way to ease into that conversation? vause its pretty akward ya know. i dont just wanna be like hey i smoke
thx

i think u shouldnt tell him, simply because trying to keep it a secret is half the fun! but it would make things easier for you to just admit you toke

this is what my sister did, even though she doesnt smoke, she told my parents about some of her friends smoking and she saw the reactions of them, they really didnt care, even when they found out her room mate smoked they said i hope she doesnt get caaught, they didnt say i hope your not doing that, i guess there cool with weed

i know my dad is, but not sure about my mom, she once said she wont care if i were to drink, because she knows ill do it any ways, but i dont drink, hate being drunk.

roll a spliff and ask him if he wants to smoke

I think i would tell him, just be like look pops, i got sumthin i wanna get off my chest, pull out the hooter and spark that bitch up..

man i got caught today.. it was wonderful
6 people were all chilling a tmy friends house. smoking a bowl. and his mom walks right in and starts talking.. we were like uhhhh?
and she didnt care at all!
But then again.. she smokes it too