Delima, can you help?

Okay HEY GUYS, hows it going? Well thats good lol. ANyways heres my delima.
OKay well i told some drinking friends they could come over tonight and we would drink and shit.Specifcally two dudes(maybe 3) and one chick. Plus me and sasha. Well heres the problem i did this a few nights ago(more ppl tho) and sasha didnt want to have ppl over in the first place but i did anyways, she had a shitty time the whole night and just kinda sat on the computer by herself. Now she still says she doesnt want people over....errr She doesnt really want people over, but she'll just be the same way if they do come over.
So now im not sure what to do? Should i just tell everyone i cant hang out?(since its only a few people?) or have them over and just deal with sasha being upset/depressed? THANKS for any advice......damn it

:rolleyes: MATE..........you need to sit down and have a talk to her about why she feels this way to start with???? :( The way I see it is at least your staying at home with your friends and having drinks, you could be out aye? Talk to her mate.............. :D

Hey penguin...i think Sashas being unfair...dont you two see eachother everyday? And how many times do you have a bunch of people over to hang out? I dont understand why she doesent want people around...perhaps she has her reasons. *shrug* I think you should talk to her more about the subject and work out a solution. Good luck!

You should of course not try to upset anyone, but you already told people that they could come over, did you ask her before inviting them? If not, i suggest doing that next time, other than that just make an early night of it, to keep her from being upset. Just make sure you spend alot of alone time with her tonight regardless.

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Originally Posted by kiwi

:rolleyes: MATE..........you need to sit down and have a talk to her about why she feels this way to start with???? :( The way I see it is at least your staying at home with your friends and having drinks, you could be out aye? Talk to her mate.............. :D

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I tried! i really did! Probably not as much as i could, but i mean i asked why and she just says she doesnt know, and thats the same thing she said last time. Grrrr damn it.

:( Hmmmmmmmmmmm........ok so the talking thing didn't work!!!!! Maybe she just doesn't like having to share your attention with other ppl? I don't think you should cancel your night with your friends, but perhaps you just need to involve her with conversation etc? :confused:

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Originally Posted by kiwi

:( Hmmmmmmmmmmm........ok so the talking thing didn't work!!!!! Maybe she just doesn't like having to share your attention with other ppl? I don't think you should cancel your night with your friends, but perhaps you just need to involve her with conversation etc? :confused:

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Yeah thats what im gonna do, or something like that, just spend more time with her then i did last time, Cuz last time i just followed the people around(there was like 5 people over last time) Cuz i wanted to make sure they werent breaking shit and what not, so i will just make sure to spend more time with her, cuz this time there will be less people.

;) Good move m8.....but its not that you want to go though this every time you want your m8z over, so you still need to get to the bottom of why she is like this? I hope things work out for you m8? ;)

man just have them come over

She is depressed because you're paying attention to your friends and not her.
If you have your friends over she'll get pissed about it, but not tell you.

Girls are very complex, sinister, and fucked up. Learn to read them asap, and try to work them from an angle. Use their own tricks and traps against them, also don't try showing her the truth, or what's right by using logic. Logic goes out the window when dealing with most women.

Not that all women are this bad, just 98%. The other 2% are probably reading this forum.

I guess I'm in the 2%....but anyway, force her to have fun. Include her in the night. Dont just let her sit on the computer by herself. I think that you must care a lot about her or you wouldnt have posted this delima on the forum, so show her you care. If she doesn't have fun, try to not keep ppl there too long and whatever you do DON'T tell your friends you want them to leave because of her! Maybe she feels threatened by the girl?? Anyway, just pay a lot of attention to her....then tomorrow, get her some flowers. ;)

Good call, lilSmokie! Girls absolutely LOVE flowers on a random occasion.

Actually she said this thread made her feel like crap because like how some people said she was being unfair and what not. Anyways heres an update to what happened.

Okay so just my two guy friends come over(the chick didnt end up coming) So we just sit around doing nothing for awhile, then one friend, named C starts drinking and the other friend B just sits around. I take like 4 half shots of vodka(i dont need a lot and i hate full shots).Then sasha looks upset so we talk on the porch and i spend most my time being drunk with her. Then its like 2 in the morning, B is passed out(he had one shot and shared a bowl or two with me)(even more funny when he was asleep he was in his boxers cuz he was hot, he ate my hot pocket, so i got ice water and poured it onto his balls through the side of his boxers, it was hilarous.)C is done drinking after taking like 8 shots of rum. So then we just chill. Time passes we go for a walk around 3:30am. C rides the bike around drunk well me and sasha have a cigg. We come back me and C chill in the garage well sasha made us all top ramen. B is still passed out. So we smoke a bubbler and a lil mini bong in the garage well listneing to the fear and loathing soundtrack. Then we go downstairs. Its around 4-5 am now. We smoke some more and start playing connect four(god i love that game). THen we download like good older music and some irish shit that was really good along with some simon and garfunkel. Lord of the dance is such an awesome fucking song. So we played connect four, for like two hours, just taking turns between me, sasha, and C. Its probably like 6:45am, C has to get up at 11am so he passes out. Me and sasha play a few more games then its like 7:30. B wakes up and comes down and gets a blanket then goes back to sleep. I download a few more sleep type things(this really awesome amazon rain forest thing) me and sasha fall asleep around 8 or so. Get back up around 1:30pm. And yeah i picked up an oz and just chilled all day. :D Watching some cops shit, and CAPTURED, showed like what the cop car cameras catch. Overall prettty good, im burnt out now tho, need a lil pick me up bowl, just too lazy to load it.

Oh man the best anime show is on at 1am tonight on adult swim. Its called Paranoia Agent, god so good. Samurai champloo and futurama are good too. Hmm god i love tv :D

dude seems like you guys ahd a fun time i wish i could chill with you guys

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Originally Posted by rastabill89

dude seems like you guys ahd a fun time i wish i could chill with you guys

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