I must be the only gay male on this website, or at least openly...all the other ones must be on gay.com, whorin' around as usual...lol...they set such a bad name for people like me
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I must be the only gay male on this website, or at least openly...all the other ones must be on gay.com, whorin' around as usual...lol...they set such a bad name for people like me
Lol, that makes your location more funny lol.(didnt mean that in an offensive way) ANyways, i dont got a problem with gay guys, as long as they arent hitting on me. Shit i would have never even guessed if you wouldnt have told me! lol
well honestly i thought you were a woman, but i guess that had to do with your location too....oh well rock on.
Doesn't make a difference to me.
yeah just thought i'd clear up that confusion, all my local friends know, and i don't hide it or anything, so hell, why not
steer clear from torog tho man. im sure you know why.
lol...well he's entitled to his opinion...and i'm beyond that point in my life anyways
yeah i dont have ne problems with that man
It's cool it really doesn't make a difference to me, unless you hit on me, which then I'll feel kinda quezzy. It's happened quite a number of times when I use to roll at clubs, it's flattering but at the same time sad, cuz I wish that many woman would hit on me. LOL.
I second that! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by naturalmystic
And now I have a question........
I have noticed (on the boards) when some people, think a thread is stupid, they call it gay, now it bothers me and I know damn well it would bother most if not all of my gay friends.
Does it bother you?
I guess I am asking, so I can point out, what I think is a thoughtless comment.
WDYT?
Please delete me :confused: (double post)
My mum's boss is gay, and his boyfriend is the nicest guy i have ever met, he's really generous to everyone at work, like always going in giving cakes, sandwiches, chocolate and a good laugh to everyone there.
He's cool, and i have no problem with anybody, that doesn't have a problem with me (i'm not gay by the way)
I also used to say "ahh that's gay!" when something didn't go how i wanted it to, but i grew out of it :)
I can say I'm one of those guilty of that, but it's from a bad habit since elementary school. When I say it, I intend to use it in an aspect where a thread is lame. Obviously I could've used better choice of words, but all degoratory terms have multiple meanings. However not until you raise awareness that I realized the term offends people. People use it so casually you don't really think twice.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilRedDevil
I agree with that.;)Quote:
Originally Posted by naturalmystic
actually, nothing really bothers me anymore...i went through that phase in high school, and i'm way past it really, i catch myself calling stuff gay sometimes...Quote:
Originally Posted by LilRedDevil
i'm a rather unusual little queer boy though, i like heavy metal as much as i like the dance music, and i used to be the most gothic person i know of...i don't too much like clubs, i don't do crystal meth, i'm not a whore, and to be honest, there's a whole lot of gay people out there that i don't agree with myself, but hey, their lifestyle, their business...
you see, gay people have set their own stereotypes, and i can't feel bad for them when they are exactly what people shun them for
and y'alls crazy asses thought i was a woman, HAH! i'd make one aggressive lil' redneck woman!
I have no problem with gay people. I've worked with a ton of gay men, all as different as snowflakes. Some likable, some not. IMO anyone is capable of being gay if they found the right person, its not just about sex, though preference generally is the ultimate deciding factor. There are obnoxious gay people just as there are obnoxious straight, what they like to do in the bedroom has nothing to do with them as a person or how they do and/or should interact with other people.
What I dont like is "cliche gay". If I may explain - men and women who follow the stereotypes (mainly from the media) to a tee, compromising any and all characteristics that makes them unique, interesting, and an individual. And its not just "cliche gay", it could be "cliche punk" or "cliche goth" or "cliche rebel", even "cliche pothead", any form of conforming in the name of being a non-conformist. I like people who are individuals, who are true to their character and self. Whether or not they have sex with members of the same sex or simply have body piercing or smoke weed shouldn't effect their personality to such a degree that it seems they no longer have one. When people fall into stereotypical behavior it makes me feel as though they are dishonest and lack interesting personality and character.
I hope that makes sense.
Jadeius, though Ive only seen your posts in this thread it seems to me you seem pretty true to self, and are dimensional. I really admire that. Cuz it really could be so easy to fall into the stereotypes given the enormous amount of pressure and expectation to do so. Bravo. :)
no biggie, i toke with a bisexual guy and a gay guy frequently
To quote the great Billy Bob Thorton
"Haha, gay queer, gay gay gay"
something like that.
It doesn't bother me
my brother's gay and he used to be my best freind...our not talking has nothing to do with him being gay,but him being selfish,arrogant and ungratefull :( ,but oh well,i find that when people call things gay,or use it as a derogitory remark i get much much more offended than my brother,i guess some people are to stupid to realize that there are well over 6 billion other people on this earth too...
i know some gay people that dont mind it, i dont know any that do mind it, unless they are immature, then who wants to hang with em newayz, still akward when i let it fly though. its like droppin f bombs around parents who just recently stopped caring.
sry that was me on my bros account.
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Originally Posted by jadeius
you smoke weed, that makes you righteous in my book. i admire your ability to come out and say that, but you can't expect much bashing from a board of stoners.
stoned.
haha....thx guys for the kind words....yeah i find that most stoners don't really care anyways....don't worry i won't hit on ya lol...i have a "husband" whom i love very much and i wouldn't stray anyways....just lookin for something to do to pass the time like everyone else...yeah i just didn't want everyone to think i was a woman anymore lol...i can see why you'd think that
quite frankly i wouldn't care if some gay basher did have something bad to say...let 'em get it out they might feel better about their own inner homosexual tendencies....you'll find that when someone hates on you for something, that usually means they just wish they could be brave enough to be like that themselves...people that hate on stoners secretly admire that lifestyle and wish that their social barriers would allow for that in their life...same with gays, african-americans (their lifestyle is pretty damn appealing if you ask me), whatever you might be....
i always say, if you can't be proud of it, then you're probably not happy with it...
lurve u guys it's been real so far :p
this thread is way too gay...
gay is as gay says lol
haha,i'm glad you can stand up for whats good :),dooman,even if jadeius doesn't mind i have to say grow up.if you can't deal with the fact that people are gay and that they are normal people too(sometimes better people because of the ridicule and scorn they take just for likeing someone of the same sex)i would much rather have a joint with jadeius than with some little kid who can't handle his own issues,grow up and get a life stop pestering the good people in the world....
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huh???.......sarcasm my friend
ehhh what the hell...he might have just been making a joke, after all, we have been talking a lot about how people say threads and such are gay...
for the record, yeah i'm as gay as i can be, i'm one happy mo'fo'
yeah it bothers me ALOT but i just tend to ignore it cause what can you do.....Quote:
Originally Posted by LilRedDevil
exactly....i thought all those years in high school i could do something to stop the prejudice, and i did actually do a few things, i had a speech read over the intercom to the whole student body, by the principal, and it hit everybody hard, but what does that kind of blow do to an ignoramus? just makes them that much more hardcore...they realized how dumb they were for their stupid comments, and they just made more comments...so yeah, it made me feel good for making them feel dumb, but it didn't by any means stop anything, just earned me more respect from the people that DID like me...Quote:
Originally Posted by Az.
i'm all about human rights, and that's a result of what i've been through i guess, living in a small redneck town, coming out to the public, funny thing it is...half those people that had something to say about it in high school came back to be my good friends after it was all over
Hey man I totally got your jokeâ?¦I laughed actually. You were using sarcasm.Quote:
Originally Posted by dooman
Hell, Jadeius himself said that he calls things gay sometimes and I though that was funny too (that would be whatâ??s called irony.) The guy was making a joke.
sorry dooman :) i didn't detect it,and this is something i get really heated over,it's good to see jadeius knows he's ten times the person they are and is smarter than each and every one of them too,so sorry that was a little rude on my part ;) no hard feelings eh?Quote:
Originally Posted by dooman
Right on Bro!!!!!!
I have 2 friends that are a gay couple, they have been the ABSOLUTE best friends i could ever have to me and my girl..
I dont get to see them much as they live 5 hours from me but we talk everyday,"Mary" as he calls his BF dooesnt know he chiefs, so whenever i go up there, i always make sure we have soewhere to go and do some thing and i get him lifted...lol
i laughed my ass off when i saw this .. poor torog he cant catch a break ..you would think some one who smoked pot on a regular basis would be more worried about waffen ss type police than what 2 people do in the privacy of thier own homeQuote:
Originally Posted by makor01
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Originally Posted by Da1lungwonder
that's funny because my man knows i smoke and drink and even knows i do pills once in a while, but i do them behind his back sometimes because he gives me hell about it, and godDAMN what a buzzkill that is
my sister is a receptionist at a GreatClips and theres 2 gay guys that work in there. basically they are just like will and jack in will&grace (the tv show). i dont have anything wrong with them. they're actually really funny
more power to ya for comin out. word up, mang! stay strong, and don't let anyone give you shit
grow upQuote:
Originally Posted by jadeius