i need to unload **warning**

god damnit!!! >.< wtf is going on.. ok look everyone at cannabis.com i need to unload bare with me please.. and advice would be greatly appreciated... ty...

what the fuck is going on!???????? ok what im about to say is gonna sound pretty mean and probably make me sound like an asshole, but i just dont understand what i've done? my girlfriend her name is rebecca.. has been playing games and shit with me! and recently wanted time apart.. and has been fucking around with me.. we've been together 2 years right, well the thing is i live in california and she lives in north carolina and she really means something to me.. we've never actually meet, but i've planned on going to see her this christmas.. lately shes been kind of distance from me.. and getting all bitchy and snappy at me, and i didnt do anything to her at all, all i do is love her and be nice to her, i treat her like an angel and all she does it hurt me? i dunno what i do.. i mean obviously i really really.. love her.. and i wanna marry this girl for real, i'm 15 years old.. and the older people might say your 15.. you dont know about love.. or you don't understand... if this isn't love.. then wtf am i doing here... why does she mean so much to me... I REALLY REALLY LOVE HER... i dunno what to do.. i just wanna make her happy... =(.. *sigh*

Life's a bitch & then you die..So fuck it all and let's get high......


It won't be the end of the world, It'll just be a story in your book, you'll be fine, give her room to breathe, give yourself a chance to be a teen...And if at first you don't succeed...fuck it all dude and smoke some weed...

good luck..

Hope things work out good.

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Originally Posted by ImStonedNILikeIt

Life's a bitch & then you die..So fuck it all and let's get high......


It won't be the end of the world, It'll just be a story in your book, you'll be fine, give her room to breathe, give yourself a chance to be a teen...And if at first you don't succeed...fuck it all dude and smoke some weed...

good luck..

Hope things work out good.

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damn man.. you don't know what you just said.. i told her.. "All I ever was.. was just another chapter in your life.." I guess your right though thank you for your opinion... this shit gets to me though..

I understand that you're hurt, however the fact that you havent met, you live in different states (quite far apart from eachother as well), and you started your relationship 2 years ago when you were 13 (I imagine she's around the same age)...2 years is a looooooong time when you're that young - and people change A LOT in 2 years, especially in their early to mid-teens.

My personal opinion, based on the info you provided - this relationship is ultimately doomed. You have to be mature enough to understand that given your age and geography, it's really illogical that this relationship can last.

Best of luck to ya.

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Originally Posted by Ousted

I understand that you're hurt, however the fact that you havent met, you live in different states (quite far apart from eachother as well), and you started your relationship 2 years ago when you were 13 (I imagine she's around the same age)...2 years is a looooooong time when you're that young - and people change A LOT in 2 years, especially in their early to mid-teens.

My personal opinion, based on the info you provided - this relationship is ultimately doomed. You have to be mature enough to understand that given your age and geography, it's really illogical that this relationship can last.

Best of luck to ya.

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i mean i do understand actually the really funny creepy thing was... i knew this exact thing was gonna happen.. which is why im here now on these boards...

Very well said ousted.:)

:)..

I actually just got off the phone with her not 30 minutes ago.. she told me I wasn't gonna see her for a week because her parents are gonna take all her shit away because she didn't go to church.. XD

man.. females are fucked up... hopefully it was just her... =( god i hope it was.. shes a witch too.. no.. she really is...

lol, doesn't sound good, mate.. and getting her stuff taken off her for not going to church, anyone know how to say... :eek: ? lol

..Josh

yeah.. i dunno what to do.. im just sitting here high as fuck.. spacing out listening to "Bone Thugs N Harmony - Why Do I Stay High".... im feeling alright right now i guess.. =)

I just wish I could find a gurl that'll just love me for me... and stands up for me.. and that'll be my lil princess..

lol, sounds good, keep trying, you'll find someone, i'm also sitting here high as fuck, realising that i just ate a whole box of ice lollies (orange, mm-mmm-mmmmmmmm) and my mum only got them yesterday










shit :eek:



aww well,
...Josh

geta gun.

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Originally Posted by DjSkizzle

I just wish I could find a gurl that'll just love me for me... and stands up for me.. and that'll be my lil princess..

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Don't worry man, you will. When I was 15 me and my folks moved from Florida to California and I had to leave the girl I had been seeing for a little over a year. Even though we were only 15 we were in love and it just killed me to be seperated. We tried to do the long distance thing, actually lasted 2 years, but eventually it just didn't work. After that I went through a lot of girls. Always with the same frustrations your having. Finally, when I was 26 I met a wonderful woman who I married. We recently celebrated our 8th anniversary and our daugher will turn 2 next Saturday.

So don't worry dude, you'll find your princess. You'll probably find a lot of them. And, everytime you break up with them it will hurt. Just think of it as a learning experience. You're learning what you want in a woman and you'll also be learning what they want from you. Eventually you'll have learned enough that you meet one who you stay with forever.

And then a whole new sort of grief comes.....

this my suggestion to you,Go ahead & head over to the Cariousel mall & start looking for a girl you can touch b-4 you start screaming luv.I had the same thing in High School, but I saw my girl b-4 she went to mathews N.C. she was a great girl.Soon I relized that you can not have a viable relationship with 3000 miles in between,I know it sounds nice "I have a girlfriend" now listen to the rest of it "that lives In N.C. I have never met in person."Sounds to me that you are more in love with the idea of being in love.Hope I am not being to harsh DJSkizzle,I have been in your shoes b-4 so let me help you walk a lil better in them.This is California the place that all the hot chicks want to move to(if you are a shallow)Most of all there are some many beautiful souls here if you would just look out side your lil fish bowl.?Good luck & get off this computer &go find some ladies bro! Oh yea try some reggae,Bone Thugs rock,Check out some Wailers.Check out this song by Go Jimmy GO "Going solo" or" in between times"
Ontario Mills

yeah your in love with bein inlove, it happens to us all, transcontinental relationships at 15 dont work usually dude, hope you can find somethin to fix it but brace yourself, sorry to be harsh

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I just wish I could find a gurl that'll just love me for me... and stands up for me.. and that'll be my lil princess..

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that will never happen

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that will never happen

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yea, dont look for someone to love you,kinda selfish.
maybe you should look for someone to love LIFE with! :D

yea love is bullshit, love is because the other person does stuff for you, makes YOU happy, makes YOUR life happy, so if your gettin all these great feelings that means the other person is devoting their life to make you happy thus makin their life suck, love is one sided bullshit lets all get fucked up and laid

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yea love is bullshit, love is because the other person does stuff for you, makes YOU happy, makes YOUR life happy, so if your gettin all these great feelings that means the other person is devoting their life to make you happy thus makin their life suck, love is one sided bullshit lets all get fucked up and laid

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Thats not love, thats someone being your bitch. Im not going to try and argue about love with you. But yeah.

Anyways unmeg is the "Cariousel mall" the one that had that lil train that went around, and a small ferris wheel inside once? Cuz i remeber going there a lot when i was a little kid.

Wow!

Fuck!

Bitter much people?

Love can be a wonderful give and take thing. It is out there I have SEEN it! (says the single girl)

Now as for this situation, move on man! Find a girl who you can see in real life on a regular basis. Maybe you and the "far away" girl can be online friends.

Good luck, love can be a bitch, but it has to pay off one day.

Dude I didn't have to read past the part where you said that you've never met her. Forget about her RIGHT NOW as this is not going to go anywhere, it's only gonna bring you pain. Listen kid, you can't be going out with someone for 2 years without ever meeting them, that's totally absurd. Just drop her, she probably grew up and realized that there is no sense in what you two are doing and decided to move on. Now wake up, and do the same.

hey, i live in nc too. sweet. oh yea, about the post - yea, dont worry about it, im sure youll find someone that will take your mind off her. for now, i think that ill love mary jane