Ok im 16 and ithink my gurl might be pregnant....but the only reason im thinking that is cause we did it but only for like 3 seconds cause she was worried about getting that way but it was unprotected so give me your opinion....please
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Ok im 16 and ithink my gurl might be pregnant....but the only reason im thinking that is cause we did it but only for like 3 seconds cause she was worried about getting that way but it was unprotected so give me your opinion....please
Im thinking no if you didnt cum and it was only for 3 sec.
if you didn't come obviously she's not pregnant
That's not entirely accurate. Pre-ejaculate fluid can contain motile sperm and the possiblility, however small, exists to get get pregnant from it. I agree that it is unlikely, but it has been known to happen.Quote:
Originally Posted by kaela
I read an article on a pregnancy forum that precum doesnt have sperm unless the guy had masterbated or had sex earlier that day. I can't say, however, if the article is accurate or not...any opinion?Quote:
Originally Posted by Beeblebrox.420
Well the only thing you can do is wait to see if she has her period and if she doesn't, have her get tested for pregnancy. Good luck!
the worries of a pre pubescent 16 year old,takes me back to the good old days.dont worry i doubt shes up the pole but youd wana practice on ur own or something coz u dont want word gettin out and the other lads at school callin u 3 second tom,wear a jimmy next time and you wont have any worries or else just ask her to let u use the back door
There most absolutely IS sperm in precum! Not as much as in cum, but haven't we all seen the movie in health class about pregnancy? Remember, one egg, one sperm?? Maybe you missed it... ONE sperm, lol! It only takes one for a pregnancy to occur.
The last time this topic came up, a few people talked about their children who were conceived from precum. So I'm inclined to say that the 'pulling out' method might not be a good idea if you're trying to avoid offspring. Just be safe, geez! :)
I have friends who used to bitch about condoms & how it just didn't feel the same, wahwahwah. I was always arguing with them that I'd rather be safe than sorry. Now they're chasing around after kids all day, & some of them are 'stuck' with partners they're not totally happy with... but they stay together for the kids' sake. Or some of them are single parents, which makes it a bit difficult to date like they used to. On the other hand, I've played it safe & as a result had no surprises. Now I'm still footloose & fancy free. Who do ya think had more fun in the long run? :)
Perhaps a 1/10,000 chance, if it was for 3 seconds...but it sure wasn't worth it, eh? I knew a girl that had gotten knocked-up five times from the 'pull out' method. Some people never learn. Embrace the fear and worry...maybe it'll keep your pecker covered next round. Good luck.
Highly doubtful. Next time just buy a pack of condoms, jesus.
Honey! Go get tested and next time protect yourself. Or being pregnant is the LAST thing you'll be worrying about.
Incidentally, even in the absence of a significant pregnancy risk, the simple act of penetration is sufficient to spread any number or venereal diseases, including HIV and syphylis. Females are more at risk than males in this regard. A condom is the single most effective prevention you can use against this risk. Each time, every time.
preach beebz preach! lol
I won't preach but I will tell you a nice little bed time story.
A long time ago, in a far far away land, I fucked this really hot chick. It was so awesome, she was on the pill so I didn't need a condom. She was also a total nympho and was into just really hot nasty sex. I was in heaven.
About a week later I woke up one morning and proceded to take my morning piss. Instead of the usual pleasure that comes from emptying a full bladder, however, I was greeted by a sensation that I can only describe as having flaming sterno coming out of my cock. Later that day I noticed a nasty, funky, pussy goo leaking from the tip of my dick. Every time I pissed I'd get the flamin sterno and it got to the point where I became dehydrated because I was afraid to drink anything and have to piss it out.
Well, this simply wouldn't do so I went to the doc. He told me I probably had Chlamydia but wanted to take a swab to be sure. Let me tell you folks, this was really the best part. He took a long fuckin q-tip and then shoves the god damn thing like 2 inches up into my dick. Yes that's right, a q-tip up that little hole I'd been pissing the flamin sterno out of. Sound like fun yet?
Turns out the doc was right, I had Chlamydia. Fortunately this was before AIDS was really prevelant so that's all I got. Anyhow, he gave me some medication and it cleared up after a bit. After that I always wore condoms and lived happily ever after.
The End
Man, if she gets pregnant after three seconds of sex you're really gonna wish you just finished her off.
why...the...FUCK aren't you wearing a condom kid?
dude she aint gona get pregnet......at least i dont think she willl
welll its not like i came that fast just we stopped lol
Did anyone say they thought you did?Quote:
Originally Posted by s2headhunter
Oh. Professor evil did. But, he's an idiot, so don't worry about it. Everyone else figured it out.
haha FENGZI HAD CHLYMIDIA
thats funny shit,ive never known anyone with that
i aint no idiot beeblebrox.420 it would be possible for guys to cum after 3 seconds
been there done that, you forgot to mention the head of the qtip is about twice the size of a normal one, or maybe i just got fucked cuz the doc didn't like meQuote:
Originally Posted by Fengzi
I'm kinda waiting to hear if s2headhunter's chick got her period.
I say July 20th, 8am, Eastern US time.
well you guys have been making me feel alot better...ok and just a quick outlook on our relationship becuase people were talking about diseases ok well we have been together since we were 14 i had no prior sexual relations with anyone and neither did she of any kind...and now we are both 16 and only have been with each other but she is supposed to start tomorrow but im not going to freak out if she doesnt tomorrow cause she always seems to start late....and if shes stressed well that could make it later ....but if she is ....what should i do..i mean theres no doubt in my mind that i would take complete care in anyway i could of the kid because i love her to death and wouldnt ever do anything like that to her ill always be there but like how hard is it to make enough money to support a kid ect.....thanks everyone for everything by the way.
abortions are cheap, save up your lawn mowing money and fry that nightmare :rolleyes:
same shizzit happend to be like a few months ago cuz at the time i was a fucking IDIOT i guess cept it wasnt juss for 3 seconds and i did it multiple (stressing the multiple) times so im fucking lucky thats for sure... you should be fine tho dont worry about it.... always use a condom no matter what
don't be a fool, wrap your tool.
Lucky you...get her on the pill and you don't have to use rubbers. Then again, if she IS pregnant, you don't have to use them anyway.Quote:
Originally Posted by s2headhunter
Well yeah i know that they are not that expensive...but if she woulndt want to have one then by no means would i try to talk her into it i dont want her living with that for the rest of her life....if she would want one i would pay for it but if she didnt want one then i would never have her go threw that....but thanks for another opinion
:p Lol, you smartass.Quote:
Originally Posted by 9ski9
The stupid shit we pull in our youth....if I got pregnant everytime I had unprotected sex in high school.... Anyway, banish that thought!! Yikes. Yeah, she should be on the pill by now, not that that's 100%, but, it's better than worrying about a baby every waking moment until your girl gets her period.
...my wife busted out hysterically laughing at this....lets just say....you better hope she isn't cuz you seriously have no life when you have a baby around...unless, of course...you have someone to pawn him off on.Quote:
Originally Posted by s2headhunter
lol yeah i mean i dont think she is but if she is im not worried about giving up on things for it im willing to do that it will suck yeah but i will do it.....so do you think she is....
and just also to let people know ok....well we just broke up like 1 month ago and she was on the patch but quit using it seeing that we broke up and then on the 4th we hung out again and this led to THAT lol and now were about to date again which is great because i was stupid and made a big mistake by breaking up with her ...lol so just letting you know i wasnt all that stupid she was on the patch lol ....
this is his wife again lol....ok lemme just say that after the hell of a 27 hr. labor with basicly no meds....i'm PARANOID AS FUCK and i dont' ever wanna go thru that shit again. i'm talkin birth control, condoms...everything lol.
WEll i understand what you mean im just saying about the money thing is it hard to get enough money to support one and ect ...and how do yhou rthink my rents would take it ect .....just wondering......
(wife still lmao)
ok...i was working flipping burgers when i found out i was pregnant. i stayed there till i was about 7 months along, then i quit because my belly was getting too far out there. anyways...making 5.15 an hour, and having to buy diapers, wipes, clothing, bibs, formula, etc etc adds up. plus needing stuff for us like toilet paper, food, clothes, toothpaste and stuff like that. also we were given a beat up (piece of shit!) car by his family and we're trying to fix it up so we can move outta his grandparents house (gag)...so its gonna take ...um....years? lol
but just to give you an idea...my son (7 mos) goes thru at least 13 or so of the smaller Enfamil cans of formula powder a month. WIC only pays for 9 of them....that 9 that are basicly free=about 125 bucks or so. so if you can't get on WIC or something else happens...thats AT LEAST 125...just for food. then add all the other stuff. right now we're barely scraping by. he can't work because we have no body to watch the baby, so i have to work and try to save a few dollars at a time back so we can get outta this situation.
i hope she isn't pregnant dude...i really do. for both yalls sakes. its a lotta responsibility and it costs a fuckload....anything else you wanna know your free to ask...i could go on for hours bout this type of thing.
well one good thing is my family have alot of money ..not a shit load but my dad makes a good 80 grand plus a year and im not saying by any means that your family doesnt im just saying that i know my mom would help me out...just becuase shes that kinda person loves me to death and just worries about me but i was just wondering around what it costs or so month and how old were you ect when you got pregnant...understand family and shit..or what....not tryng to get real personal with you just wondering....and how did they take it and how do you think mine would my mom and dad are both very understanding...but hes always telling me no babys lol but thanks alot
ok well i was 23 when i got pregnant....and scared shitless. as for about how much it'd cost a month for a baby....*thinks* about 150/mo. for formula, then money each time they get shots (every coupla months), about 35 or so a month for diapers and wipes (we can only get the walmart brand ones ><) then add in clothes cuz they grow like crazy...at walmart baby outfits aren't expensive...but we haven't had to buy any yet cuz my husbands mom gave us a buttload of stuff.
the crib itself cost us around 100 dollars, the mattress was 30, then we have a swing thats around 40 bucks, and believe me you'll need one when your kid wont stop shrieking at 3 am. lol. every time they get shots they need infant medicine to make the pain and swelling go away (about 7 bucks a pop), then you gadda buy like 30 bucks worth of batteries lol...cuz everything a baby likes runs on batteries.
i'mma go out on a limb and say that pretty much 300-400 bucks a month.
and thats if you can even afford everything...its nice that your family would help you out. but are you sure they would? i mean, just cuz they have all that money doesn't mean they will help you a bunch. they might end up saying that they want you to learn responsibility and they'll only help you minimally and you gadda work your ass off.
either way dont tell em till your sure she's pregnant. and if she is...make sure she gets herself on WIC and Medicaid...
Too bad the day after pill is not more readily available in the US
You can get it through planned parenthood. DON'T WAIT. Good luck.
read about it here
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relat...gafterpill.htm
contact PPH
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2...traception.xml
Well thanks everyone for everything.....and yeah im not thinking she is ......but its been way to long for the day after pill anyway..this happend on the 4th and the bad part is she was supposed to start yesterday and i wont even know if she has started at all for another like 7 days or more cause shes at her dads and she cant talk cause its long distance...