i got a big problem

so heres my problem, i am a recent convert to the lovely plant we so all adore. anyways it somehow got out and news travels very quickly in a christian high school. so it had gotten out among friends and they seemed to care and all some threatened to tell my parents but no one has yet. but one of my friends was talking on his phone about me and ym new hobbie and his mom was eavesdropping and overheard. she flipped out, another one of my friends intervened and might have calmed her down and stopped her from telling my parents. but i cant help but feel worried that they r gonna find out. i dont keep any shit at my house, its at a friends cuz his parents dont care, but does anyone have any suggestions for how to get out of it or maybe lighten my impending doom?? my parents r very anal and will freak out over this, any suggestions or solutions r greatly appreciated

how often do u smoke? tell ur friends u dont do it anymore they dont need to know



p.s. get new friends

Casually mention to your parents that Mrs. So-and-so is a crazy religious nut who thinks all these dern kids are high on dope, and casually give her a fake example of that and laugh. Then if Mrs. So-and-so calls your mom you can go "See? What'd I tell ya?? What a fruitcake!"

Ousted-- good idea!

If your friends insist on being ignorant fucks about the subject, there's little you can do to change them. They've been subconsciously conditioned from birth to believe the stupid shit they do; it's not like they're thinking it through and choosing a side.

Either get new friends (don't make a big deal about it or they might tell the 'rents as an issue of revenge) or talk to them about what you do. Who knows; maybe they will like it too!

However, consider this: your friend chose to defend you to his parents--even when it meant going against his parents and supporting weed-- rather than watching you get caught and not feeling guilt or taking any responsibility: that's something a good friend does. When I started smoking, all my non-stoner friends threatened to tell my parents, but eventually they realized that I wasn't addicted or a dope fiend, and could continue to lead a perfectly normal life while smoking, and the reefer madness died down. Wait it out before acting; it could be that the clouds have already passed and you're in the clear.

it sounds like you are in a very bad situation for a weed smoker ..most parents who send thier kids to a christian school.. are not going to understand that they have been lied to by the media and the govt about marijuana.. and the kids are going to be the same way..... but i would keep doing what you said about not keeping your stash in the house.... and if you get caught just tell them you were curious and wanted to try it.... and now you know so you wont do it again .. you will need to be carful until you are old enough to move out on your own..because fighting with your folks over weed use by a minor wont work .. but it's no reason to avoid your family so id say just bite the bullet till you can get out on your own good luck dude

ok ya i was thinkin all of that, the guy that first told me about all this said he would tell my other friends parents that it was a one time thing and that im done, this sounds like a good story, the only problem is that ya my parents r anal and im now a senior and my college of choice is CU Boulder, i want to go there cuz its got great programs in wut i wanna do but i know my parents r gonna go straight to the whole weed capital of america and then they might not let me go, but ya thanks for all the help, im very close to being an adult and gettin outta the house, i just hope i can hang on, but ya thnx guys

ya man in my case it spread to all the kids i wouldnt want it to spread to really fast.

fuck yer parents ur old enough to make ur own choices

haha nice dude. CU is the shit. I think the last thing your parents would do is not let you go there. Im 18 and had planned to go there myself now that im all done with HS, but It turns out im gonna be going to school in louisiana.


Do you go to CS christan school (CSCS or some shit.) ? I had a GF who went there. The school seems pretty lame.

I was in a similar situation back when I was in Catholic high school. After the friends I had initailly met learned that I smoked most avoided me like the plague. There were other tokers at the school, however, and gradually I ended up hanging out with them: the "wrong crowd". LOL. I eventually got kicked out of the school after two years, actually they asked me not to return after the end of the year, but I didn't care because we were moving anyway.

I ended up going to 3 different high schools(parents moved a lot) and each time pretty much the same thing happened. In my experience the stoners hung out with the stoners, jocks hung out with jocks, etc etc. That was nearly 20 years ago so things may be different now but I expect they aren't.

I hate to say this but my guess is that you'll need to make new friends. Now that you're smoking you'll want to hang out with others that smoke too. In the meantime, don't go advertising the fact that you smoke to those that don't. As your friends start to change the old friends that might have such a problem with it just won't pay attention anymore and there will be less chance that they'll call your parents.

If your folks do find out ezjim's "just curious" and Ousted's "religious nut" excuses are pretty good. I really don't have any other advice since I didnd't too very good in the area of handling the parents. I was always getting busted by my parents and even the police once. My smoking pot was a huge strain on my realtionship with my parents and we fought about it continuosly until I moved out. Now, however, I have a great relationship with them and its like all those bad times never happened. So just remember, even if they do find out and freak, they'll get over it eventually.

bolder isn't the weed capital of the world. The prices are too high. you should buy your weed in golden, its alot cheaper down there and its about a 10 minute drive

OK HERES THE FIX

Make a fake crack pipe leave it on your bed when they find it tell them its a crack pipe then say!

HEY ITS A JOKE I SMOKE POT NOT CRACK :)

And theyll be so relieved theyll 4get to be angry!

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bolder isn't the weed capital of the world. The prices are too high. you should buy your weed in golden, its alot cheaper down there and its about a 10 minute drive

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I live in golden :D . Weed is everywhere here. You could buy weed from my grandma.

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Originally Posted by robert42

OK HERES THE FIX

Make a fake crack pipe leave it on your bed when they find it tell them its a crack pipe then say!

HEY ITS A JOKE I SMOKE POT NOT CRACK :)

And theyll be so relieved theyll 4get to be angry!

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lol, good plan but remember these are christian fundies. weed, crack, it's all the same thing *dun dun dunnnn* DRUGS! :eek:

Don't even get me started on religion. Your friends and parents have fallen into the same old propaganda that freaked parents out in the 30's. "wild sex orgies", "fiends", "killers"...etc. Get new friends, trust me. Religious folks are so set in their ways, and yes, they know everything...:rolleyes:...it is impossible to change their minds, their brainwashed. Blow smoke in their face and tell them to beat it

"You get paid for serving God, then you're serving the Devil"

hey thanks guys sorry i kinda forgot i posted this after the first day, red king ive only been goin there since my freshmen yr so i probly wouldnt know her. but fengzi ya u seem to understand my plight, any how ive got a soccer tourney here tomorrow at the aif force academy and the mom thats gonna rat me out is really good friends w/ my mom so im hopin she will be workin cuz my parents r takin it off either way i feel im not gonna make it outta this one alive, mrdevious is right as soon as my parents here pot, its all over im hopin that my mom will listen to reason, i know my dad wont, so ill probly be on here alot more often instead of out there w/ my friends, but ya thnx again guys i always forget how much i love this site whenever i come ::::sigh:::: be talkin to u all soon :) from my cell, i mean bedroom

Well dude all you can really do is wait it out....start hanging out at your house alot and if they say somethnig be like when in the world would i have done it ive been here alsmot all of my free time...and i didnt want to tell you this but everynoe at school picks on me and then they kept sayng that they were going to get me in alot of trouble and they wouldnt tell me how much they kept bullying me ..."punch yourself in the arm a few times really hard to make bruises and be like look" lol well theres my input

lol thanks but i was thinkin my story was gonna go like this :well i only tried it once and it was with jon, about a month ago, it was my first time, and my last, i tried it and i know how bad it is so im going to avoid it, im sorry. its ok im not rattin jon out ive already talking to him about using him in my story and we decided it would be better if they knew i did it w/ a friend than some random guy on the street, plus his parents know he smokes and they dont care cuz his moms a nurse and she knows the truth, the real truth lol, but thanks anyways man

Dude dont rat me out man!!!....oh shit dude...haha i would just delte that but its funny cause my names jon and i thought for a mintue that you were ratting me haha im stoned right now..real stoned but haha sorry im being serious about that 2 i thought you were ratting me man..and i was kinda like bummed dude cause i gave you advice and shit and then you doing that to me hurt dude....haha but im cool now...just all i need are some sweet waves dude ...hahaa"spikoli"

haha man im so jealous its been like 3 weeks go hit another bowl for me man and live it up its probly gonna be awhile b4 i get to toke again

where are you from man
and ok since you nsist....sist dont people get those..? like and have to have them removedd? and i will rite now!!!

friends shouldnt let friends drive drunk

lol i live in colorado springs and ya ppl do get sists they r bad things, and thnx for the input synth?? lol i dont quite understand it

No shit no drunk driving...to many ppl die cause of that .....I LOVE SPIKOLI ...ALL I NEED ARE SOME SWEET WAVES DUDE>>>.. hahah

My family is christian.

My dad grows.

My mom was a hippie.

I smoke enuf to kill a horse daily.

Whatcha think?

lol im happy for u but my parents dont like listening to reason and any arguement i even start to win they just cut off and punish me, but i thikn ive made it through the first day of the tourney, my mom isnt there long and my friends mom who sposed to rat me out didnt show up today so im hopin for the same tomorrow. but ya u shouldnt smoke daily ur gonna build up a tolerance and then ull need more and more weed to get the same feeling, i like waiting for awhile cuz then the hits feel sooo much better, lol

all i can say is wow kids are douchbags

ok srry to bring this one up again guys, but my mom just found out, grounded me to keep me from getting out and shes on her way home, any quick advice would be greatly appreciated, im gonna stick to the only tried it once dint like the affect did it w/ a friend and wont do it again story but ya any help would be lovely thnx

You should just kill them, problem solved :D

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lol thnx man but ur alittle late, i got "The Talk" and i guess it went well, i cant work w/ my friends anymore i gotta get a normal full time job like everyone else fuck the corporate world beeotch!! lol and i got grounded for a little over a week, but i guess i got off pretty easy, and tip for anyone that might fall into my unfortunate situation later on, keep ur cool and be reasonable, it worked quite well for me anyways thnx for the help and concern guys it helped alot and ill stop bringin this post back up lol

wow this is like deja vu when i was a freshmen my friends and i started smokingbut they stopped and i didnt one of my friends got caught with shit he forgot about he blamed it on me and i had to go to bed wondering everynight when they would call my parents, so i came clean and they were like well we dont have a problem if ur safe and dont drink (alcohol problem in the family) and if u try to keep driving high to a minimum (my dad was a public defender had huge cases like that) they were suprisingly cool about it. even if ur family wont be that cool they will be happier to here it from u then another parent. getting that kinda info from another parent is like a slap in the face so if u have the balls u can stop the constant worry

o sorry thats late advice

here is some good covering ur shit if anything else comes up just say if they find out about more than one incident some how i never bought it and didnt own any paraphanalia so it was just experimentation. then say that ___ (who dropped the dime on u) was the one buying it

I go to a private christian school and I was really worried about getting found out, so I began to hang out with the black kids (I'm most certaintly not racist). It's great, they don't say shit to teachers, and now that i hang out with them they defend me like nothing else. It's sweet.