Thinking of giving weed up for good!

Hi guys

Well last few weeks ive been thinking of giving this shit up,, have done for years really but never had the will power to do it(same goes for ciggs) According to my mrs ive become a moody,lazy,selfish and difficult to live with,,we found this out as i smoke more amd more weed a day,,,now im thinking why should i let my mrs live like this she done fuck all wrong to deserve to live this way. As when we get dry periods when theres no weed about for a few days even a week im a better person when im not stonned or been heavily stonned night before.Plus ive started weight tranning with a mate,just few weights and a bench in his spare bedroom,but yesturday i went to a real gym,,,man it was awsome feel like shit atm but like they say "no pain no gain" Anyways im really thinking of joining this gym but i will not be able to smoke weed and join the gym at the same time as my wallet cant afford it.

So the big question is....is my family and my body worth it??? HELL YEH!! i say ,,,if it comes to giving up this 10 yr habbit to make my family happy then i'd do anything for them,,just need lil will power and mind over matter :P

Well wish me luck ive got 1oz left to smoke then im knocking it on the ed for the rest of my life...aaarrrggghhhhhh am i crazy?! lol

peace :D

There aren't many better excuses to give up m8,
I wish i could give up sometimes for pretty much the same reasons - it makes me lazy, moody, and i care less about the way i look etc....
although i am single, so i don't have anyone badgering me about it,
but i do really enjoy being stoned, there's nothing better than a saturday night getting drunk with my headphones on, listening to my favorite tunes with a dirty big spliff in my gob :cool:
though this probably explains why i'm single :mad:

good luck

yeh i know what u mean m8,,,,thx

peace

just wait until you are done working out and done doing the important things of your day until u light up. You get alot higher if u only do it like once a day at night.

Man, you know that when you give it up cold turkey, it will feel good for a while, and it is a good thing to do, given the situation. But, if you are able to, without relapsing into heavy smokin, hang out wit all de smoke buddys maybe once or twice a month for a nite out and enjoy a few spliffs, you will get soooooo stoned and not need to buy a stash. Good luck with life dude.

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Originally Posted by dog420

Hi guys

Well last few weeks ive been thinking of giving this shit up,, have done for years really but never had the will power to do it(same goes for ciggs) According to my mrs ive become a moody,lazy,selfish and difficult to live with,,we found this out as i smoke more amd more weed a day,,,now im thinking why should i let my mrs live like this she done fuck all wrong to deserve to live this way. As when we get dry periods when theres no weed about for a few days even a week im a better person when im not stonned or been heavily stonned night before.Plus ive started weight tranning with a mate,just few weights and a bench in his spare bedroom,but yesturday i went to a real gym,,,man it was awsome feel like shit atm but like they say "no pain no gain" Anyways im really thinking of joining this gym but i will not be able to smoke weed and join the gym at the same time as my wallet cant afford it.

So the big question is....is my family and my body worth it??? HELL YEH!! i say ,,,if it comes to giving up this 10 yr habbit to make my family happy then i'd do anything for them,,just need lil will power and mind over matter :P

Well wish me luck ive got 1oz left to smoke then im knocking it on the ed for the rest of my life...aaarrrggghhhhhh am i crazy?! lol

peace :D

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well doggy sweets....all the best ...*i remember a time ya said to me ud never give it up to ....but hey ..ur choice m8y :cool: :D

yeah im thinking of cutting back a lot as well. Im starting to become fed up with being tired all the time and lazy and when it comes to studying i can hardly concentrate.

lol hun thats true but i dont wanna be like in my 40s still feeling fed up about everything and cant be asked to do anything lol,,,im not saying everyone is like this but i sure am lol

peace

oi the fuck oi m8y :).
what can i say, apart from you are a lazy bunt (heheheheheheh)
if you can do it m8 go for it. you neaver know you might get of your ass and makes the teas now bicth:). just remb the 1st 2 or 3 days are going to be hell m8. make sure you have something to do, only to keep your mind of the weed. paint the house, do the shopping for lyn, take the dog for a walk, take the kids to the park, but do not take it out on lyn m8, cause we both know if you did she would KICK your ass all over the place(heheh).
anyway m8 hope you give up, if you can see that it is makin you a lazy bunt (but we both you have always been a lazy bunt lmfao) then its best for you and lyn and the kids to give up m8. hope you can do m8. will be thinkin of you m8 as i light my J's from now on lmao.
tray said "good luck baby face"
talk to you soon m8

and more power to you
you can do it if you wish dog,if you have a reason too that is
but stopping just to stop
would be brutal i think
i wish you best of luck and
G was right
stay busy and dont get ya ass beat up by ya lady,.:)

lmao u guys,,,,thx for the support like i said ill be concentrating on the gym work so ill be busy @ least 3/4 days of the week.And yeh it can be hard not to take out my anger/frustration on the family as they an easy target,,but will power all da way :D should be just fine...lol i took a pic of my self and in 6 mths time im gunna take another pic to see how much i've grown(thats if i do grow :P) should be a laugh.

Anyways hope yall ok out there and ill talk to yas soon

Peace

I never thought about quitting....I usually get loaded during my lunchbreak.

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well doggy sweets....all the best ...*i remember a time ya said to me ud never give it up to ....but hey ..ur choice m8y :cool: :D

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do ya always have to be negative? :P

Don't listen to the rabblerousers...why don't you quit for a short period of time completely and see how you feel? Maybe 3 months...work out...hang wit yer honey...stay busy. See how you feel at the end of 3 months. But during that 3 months don't smoke at ALL. You may be able to just start smoking again for recreation again. It's a very positive thing that you want to quit, though. Just don't feel like you CAN'T bc that's just the weed talking (and yer own internal monologue saying it's too hard). You CAN stop smoking pot and take care of yourself more.

I'm one of those stoner moms that absolutely must keep on top of things (I work too), so going to work stoned is not an option, and I don't get stoned around my kid bc I want to enjoy him and not divert my attention from him. This is a big change from before I had kids when I just sparked up any and all times of day.

So what I'm trying to tell you is that you can make a life-change, you just have to be able to see clearly what you're trying to do and commit to it. Is it just getting into better shape? Clearing your head?

Good luck. You can do it. The shit is mentally addictive, not physically, and while it's hard to realize that when youre in the middle of it, remember it's something you can overcome by sheer will power.

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Originally Posted by dog420

do ya always have to be negative? :P

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ermm look at my post i said " all the best "

:P

k dog


i wish ya all the best in ur quest to give up the weed...i hope ya do it for u an ur family ...i didnt mean nuthin negative in my reply..i did say all the best ...that not enough ??

:)

im sry m8 thought u was giving me a lil dig.....my bad,,,hope to talk to ya soon

peace :P

all the best in ya quest m8.........good luck too u will need it :D

It has been over one year that I have quit smoking ciggs (after smoking for 30 years) and I will admit it was the hardest thing I have ever done. I haven't had one since March 13, 2003. I will say that MJ did help me get through the worst of THAT. I will never smoke ciggs again. MJ not only calmed me down through that transition, but helped with the oral fixation as well...

As a daily stoner, I am now on DAY forty-six (yes I am counting) of abstinence for the purpose of cleaning up to find a job. This country has become ridiculous, and I was all prepared to go with substitution until I found out there are no doors and the tester is standing right there. (bastards) As a wake and bake person I knew it would take the maximum time for me to fully clean up. I once went 36 days and was still testing positive. My only withdrawal symptom was an upset stomach, which only lasted two days, but may have been due to nerves. Having the vivid dreams are a reality and I still haven't gotten used to them!

One thing I found that having ciggs in the drawer instead of NOT having any available, seemed to help. Feeling as though I CAN'T and don't have any, was no longer a concern. I knew I could, and had some in a drawer if I wanted some. They are still there !!!

Same with the MJ. I have some if I want some.

Both cases, having the option and availabilty and still choosing not to indulge made me stronger.

Good luck to all stoners that are quitting to find a job or for whatever reason. You can do ANYTHING you set your mind to, you have the power WITHIN. peace. xoxoxo

This is just my opinion. If you smoke pot, and don't have a job or any kind of life but smoking and it's what you live for, there's something really really wrong with that. But if after a hard day of work to pay bills, you sit down and smoke out, yo, that's the best stuff right there. Or whenever you're bored and just have nothing to do, kewl. I just don't like the smokers that smoke 24/7 and never do anything with themselves or their lives, they give all smokers a bad name. People tend to generalize us.... <<sigh>> Lol!

pmsl that cant be u m8, thought u was in your 20s,,, hehehehehe that person in pic has a baby face,, ha ha ha ha so stoned :) talk to u soon m8

ok G id not like to see a lancky streek of piss with his top off,,so dont go there lmao!!!!!!

Peace

i have heard this many times... they never quit tho!

am i the only one wanting to smoke more? hehe

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am i the only one wanting to smoke more? hehe

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:D

erm no something i want to smoke more too :p

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Originally Posted by hunny

:D

erm no something i want to smoke more too :p

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i need to smoke alot more

this morning,i got up and first thing i did was toke up
i dont feel so bad now
my bones dont hurt as much and my stomach aint a churning mess


not smoking one is no option for me
the buzz is just nice SIDE effect
peace

tis all in da mind!!!!!

Peace

dog ,,,,u was in chat last night ,,an u aint stopped smokin yet sooo ssshhhhh

:P
still half ounce to smoke yet
ill have it hehhe

:cool:

hehehe tis going down slowly but surely wont be long b4 i smoke my last joint :o

its on e bay if ya wanting it :P

Peace

Well guys im just about to roll my last joint eva!!!!! god help me on this road im taking the date....26/5/04 the day the dog give WEED up!

Peace

Goooooood luck. You're a stronger person than me but I don't want to give it up, I'm bitchier unstoned, that's for sure.

for sure maryjanemama. i am way more bitchy when i ain't high.

i cant wait :l ill be putting the "B" in bitchy in a few days :P

hey dog you'll be alright. just stand strong and you can kick it

you can do it. here's a nice pic for ya to take your mind off it:D

lol thx guys im sure i can do this....hehehe nice pic ;)

peace

why Dog ...it keeps you real'' no need for all the highs in the world today its man made.... toke and Chill PEACE....Dog

oi oi m8y,
all the best on you giving up, sorry i int been on l8y, been workin like fuck :)
hope all the kids r ok and just remb LYN will kick your ass if u piss her off to much.(hehehehe). see u soon
G man

Sometimes I think about giving it up, just cus yes i have been smoking for years now to. But I love it so much. So i just tell myself i will quit untill i light up again! :p

But goodluck man i know weed is so impossible to stay away from, well in my shoes it is.. :o

for the rest of the day
i too will be FORCED to give it up

cuase im out

some of us have no chioce, i must smoke or i dont eat or sleep well at all
medical use First,but i love the buzz,the thoughts are slow enough for me to get ahold of,(im manic depressive/bi polar dis-order),
without a jiont
im feeling sick,and have racing thoughts that i cant even keep up with

so stopping is not a option,the pills they pass out dont help,and Cant
so ill toke right up to the day my lips fall off
then ill i be injecting it,,,,,,,,,,joking
peace