Just wondering....

If you're a closed minded person and you only want to cause problems please just leave this thread.



I'm wondering if there are any other gay people in this forum? I'm gay myself and I'm just wondering if I'm alone here.

I hope no one here doesn't want to talk to me or hates me because I'm gay. It was pretty hard for me growing up because everytime I'd try to hang out a bunch of immature people would cover up their asses and talk about how I was going to butt rape them. And I use to get my asskicked all the time just because of who I am. And I never understood it because I've never been attracted to a straight guy before in my life. They're not in any danger. Normal straight guys don't go around raping women unless theirs something wrong with them, so why would I go around raping guys? I have a few straight male friends who know I'm gay, and they're cool to be around but if I need a place to stay they'll never let me stay over at their houses and they get really uncomfortable being alone with me.

I don't know I'm just starting this thread because I've been kinda down lately because a friend of mine invited me to come party all night at this camp ground and shit and I throught it was all cool and I'd smoke a few and have a few drinks and just have fun, until I heard from some people that they were all making plans to lock their tents and were going to sleep "sunny side up" so I coulden't butt rape them when they're asleep.

I'm just like all of the other guys you know, I just wanna chill and have some fun. If I'm going to do something with another guy, it's going to be a gay guy of course, I'm not going to be going after straight guys. I just figured after everyone got out of high school for a few years and stuff and saw more of life they'd mature and stop being like this, but even as adult everyone is so cruel.

Hi Satovan! I think the men who are covering up their asses in fear of being raped (as silly as that sounds) are ignorant and insecure with themselves. It's not your problem that they can't handle it. I know that's not going to make you feel any better, but really, I have many gay friends and they have no problem here in NY. Is there a gay community in your town? Are there a lot of gay people in your area?

I'm sorry you had to deal with so much bullshit in your life. When people don't understand something or don't want to understand something, they fear it.

Be happy with yourself and don't let anyone bring you down.

No, I'm kinda in a really conservative area, and those who are gay I woulden't know because you kinda gotta keep it on the downlow. Who I'd like to thank though are all of the females in my area like yourself. Most girls I've met are so much more sensitive and open-minded, and I love them for the friendships and help they've given me. So thank god for girls like you.

yeah people can be real dicks sometimes sorry to hear about that stuff happing man

Its cool that you are gay it makes no difference to the kind of person you are inside.Thats pretty sad that they do that shit to you its not nice at all.I am not a lesbian but i gave it a go for a while because i was always curious and i stayed with her for about 8 mths and it was good while it lasted.If things dont work out with my life and the person that i am with i will never be with another man again and that is very honestly true.When i met my bf i was a little confused about what i wanted and i told him the truth and that i had a girl right before i met him.He was ok with that at the time but it bothers him now he always thinks i want sex with other girls and its not the case.Anyways i told my family about her and they had even met her and knew she was a lesbian and when i was having a psychosis i told them that i was with her.They have never ever mentioned it to me but my partner told me they asked him some stuff about it.If someone in my family asks me something i will tell the truth always and i think thats why they never say anything about it because they know i will tell them the truth and its not what they want to hear.Its very good that you dont try and hide the fact that you are gay.Just be proud and if you can make fun of being gay yourself u will get along easier they will think your the coolest.I know this massive fat guy who is always saying fat jokes it just makes me think he is great because he makes fun of himself and then nobody else would even think about making fun of him.

People are ignorant. i don't care that you're gay. If you are that's your thing. I don't see why people get "mad" at someone for being gay. It's really immature.

yea i'm not gay myself.....but one of my longest term friends (going on 10 or 11 years now, can't really remember anymore) is gay.....and i won't mention names but i know of a few people on here that are gay, or atleast let on like they are

and btw.....people hate what they don't understand....just the way things are...no one can really explain it

Some people are always gonna be ignorant and hatefull. You need to try to ignore them, or disassociate them from your life. What you should care about are your family, close friends, and maybe coworkers. The best way to promote gay acceptance, is be the best person that you can be.

I'm 48 years old (male), and I really didn't start to believe in and understand gay rights and equality, until some of my family members came out. That's when it hits home. So now I am a vocal supporter and defender of gay equality.

In the context of this message board, sexual preference really doesn't matter. Of course, if you can add a unique perspective in a sexuality thread, maybe we can learn from you.

The world is changing, but change is slow. There are lots of people on your side.

Hi, Satovan, it's nice to meet you. I bet all of those guys at the camp out got a good laugh at your expense, mostly because they felt like part of the group to make jokes about your sexuality. If any of them stood up and said, "Hey, what's the big deal? Why are you making fun of Satovan?" well, then they might be labeled gay, too, and wouldn't that just be the end of the world?

Congratulations on being open and living your life the way you are most comfortable and forget the ignorant ppl of this Earth. If you try to hide your sexuality and live a "straight" life it will ruin you, trust me. You might have to move away from your small town, if so, do it and be free to be yourself.

I don't know why some ppl think that all homosexual ppl are rapists, that's ridiculous. Do all straight men rape women? Of course not!! Another thing that irks me are those who say that homosexuality is a choice. What? A choice? Why would anyone make the choice to be ridiculed and stigmatised by insensitive, ignorant ppl?

Think of all of the food that tastes good to you. What if someone told you that those foods are "wrong" and you have to enjoy only the foods that taste really awful. How could you do that? We have no control over what tastes good to us, so how in the hell are we supposed to control who we find attractive? Just a generalization but maybe some ppl understand what I just said.

Keep your chin up, Satovan, I really do think that the world is becoming a better place. Don't be ashamed of who you are and be proud of the fact that you are "out" and not living a life of deceit.

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Originally Posted by maryjanemama

I don't know why some ppl think that all homosexual ppl are rapists, that's ridiculous. Do all straight men rape women? Of course not!!

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That made me think about when I told my (ex) girlfriend (she is straight) that I am bi-sexual. She thought I was going to be interested in her and maybe do something to her in the middle of the night...I took it as raping her. We are not friends anymore and although I miss her, she chose not to have me in her life anymore. She wasn't "mean" about it, but we just slowly stopped seeing each other :(. I guess she didn't understand that just because I like women doesn't mean I want to sleep with just any woman. I have my personal preference.

my brother is gay and hes major cool with me.

np here, dude.
:)

cherry damn im in the NY AREA (nJ) Can i get a IM???? AIM:MADDISMADD

i have no problems with some being gay.. were all people and we all deserve to be treated the same.. I respect gays life styles as long as the respect mine.. I do however dislike this one gay kid becuz he tries to hit on me and says some gross things.. Almost like sexual harrassment in a way.. But yea its your life you live it the way you want to..