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Isnt it funny how when you start a relationship, you go at it night and day, all the time, like bunnies. BUT, after awhile its not so often and well you know how it goes. I believe the more you get to know the person the more meaningful the sex is, like when you DO have sex its more intense and now that you know the person better and what they like. So does it even out? Cause im pissed that this has to happen, its like you cant control it. God i hope its not just me who realizes this.
CjL
thts how relationships go man its fact of life
I disagree. It doesn't have to be like that. My hubbie and I are together 14yrs, sure we've had our bad times but thankfully the sex is still great!
In the beginning you go outta your way to make each other happy, brekkie in bed, days spent in bed actually - but a relationship is like everything else it requires love and time spent on it to keep it alive.
Try not to say horrible shit to each other when you're arguing. When those words are out there you can't ever take them back and they'll stay in your and your partner's minds for a very long time.
But most of all keep it fun, surprise each other with nice stuff. Make time for each other away from everyone else. And try new stuff ;) use your imagination............
I agree with Lulu, sex in a relationship should only get better. I think a lot people expect sex to get dull and don't do anything about it when it starts to and pretty soon it's...yawn... There are endless ways to do everything, just keep an open mind.
My husband and I have been together for 9 years and I can't wait for him to get home every night. If you can't look forward to being with your partner every night, then why bother being in an adult relationship. There's a rule in our house: Sex at least every 2 days, everyday preferably.
P.S. Some people are just boring in bed. If it's not getting better after the first 2 or 3 times (No one should be judged by the first time!), then it probably won't be very good at all. This is the sad truth unfortunatley.
Of course this is my own personal opinion!
i never said anything about bad sex, i mean you just dont do it as much.
crazy stoners, you better just about not do that again. haha
CjL
What's the difference? Bad = not as much = bad. You can control it.
Never-fucking-mind, you people just dont get it.
CjL
Yes, Lit Up, the depths of your teenage mind are obviously so beyond us all. You need to find a new/different girl to relieve some stress cuz you are REALLY tense for a pot smoker.
I think you're right Lit Up. You DO slow down and not have sex as often(not 4 all ppl just most) and it does make it just that much better when you do have sex, the longer you r 2gether...but i think that the newness of the person u r with also starts to wear off the longer u r 2gether and I'm not saying that like its a bad thing it just means u know eachother better. :)
i have to agree with lulu sex is great but its not all there is relationships are so much more then that its on a deeper leavel then sex.
but smokey dont worry baby are sex will never be boring and the same ;)
i had a g/f fer about 2.5 years an the sex never slowed down. if anything she was gettin more comfertable an wanting sex more than me. which is AMAZING lol
Yes lite it up you are right.
From 20 to 30 if things are all right , you,ll have it once in the morning and twice at night.
From 30 to 40 if things are all right you,ll miss the odd morning and somtimes a night.
From 40 to 50 it now and again .
And from 50 to 60 it,s god knows when.
From 70 on your sporting days are over , your little lights gone out.
From what used to be your sex appeal is now you water spout .
It used to be embaressing to make that thing behave .
It would standup in the morning to whatch him have a shave.
But now those days are over , it sure gives him the blues.
Coz now it hangs between his leg to wach him clean his shoes. :(
hmmmmmm i have to disagree with u tech i know ill be fuckin til i cant move anymore ever if im 90 my hubby better love my saggy titties ;) haahahahahah