"Dad, you wanna hit this?"

Ok, so everybody thinks that I am this sweet, innocent little girl (at least when it comes to "drugs"-D.A.R.E. really messed me up for a few years) I've been smoking for almost 2 years now, and love it. I also know for a fact that my Dad is a major pothead. He smokes with his girlfriend all the time, and I'm pretty sure he smokes with my brother (at least thats what my mom told me) I don't want to be stupid and hide the fact that I smoke, but I don't want to make a big deal out of it, call him up and say "dad, i smoke pot".
Anyways, I was thinking that the next time he visits me, Him, my fiance, and myself should all smoke some from the peace pipe. My problem is how to go about it. "hey dad, wanna hit this?" or smoke in the backyard, where I know he'll find us so it will look like an accident, ask him directly, or what? We both have a really good sense of humor, so I'd like to do something funny. Especially if I had already smoked a joint or something. Lol. I can see it now :D What do you guys/gals think?

hell YEAA

My pops lets me drink w/ him, when I go to see him in San Diego. He lets me, b/c he knows my mom is the toalitarian fascist neo nazi bitch type of parent, so he tries to balance it all out. We smoke pot to gether once when we were drunk. I jsut flat out asked him about pot, and he said, "well come here, and we'll try it."

I'd reccomend maybe asking your bro aboot how he went aboot it, or just going up to your dad and jsut asking him. DOesn't sound like he shit his pants or anything, so why be afraid?

ask him directly it will be the best way i think :D

yeah, alot of my friends get high with their dads. i know that my dad used to smoke likein high school alot, but only does occasionlay now. I just couldnt see myself smoking with my dad, or anyone that disiplines me in any way, just would feel weird. But yeah, if i were in your case, i would ask him straight up, dad, lets go spark the bong.
-gs

I've smoked for about 4 years now and my dad is a smoker too. I didn't know how to tell him either. What I did was I told my sister to tell that I smoked if he ever asked her. He did and we have smoked together ever since. I suggest going about telling him however you feel the most comfortable doing it, if that is what you decide to do.

HAH! got my straight laced mother to smoke all those years ago...im 23 now so theres no question of anything glad im not 17 again......peace

when he comes over leave your weed or pipe out or something and make sure he will see it then tell him i know you smoke so do you want to smoke

Oh this is so funny. I had a friend in high school whos parents were closet hippies. Like they did the whole woodstock stuff back in the day but the got married got careers had a kid and cleaned up. But they still smoked pot. But no one really knew. Well we were over there alone and were smoking up in her back yard. When we get done her dad comes home. And we are so baked. Her dad is baked as well. And it was one of those things where we all looked at eachother and we knew. It was so candid. We all three busted out laughing uncontrollably. And after that her parents were like yeah we smoke. We have for years. We know you smoke. But were waiting for you to get older to let you know. It was great.

Just pull out the bag and ask him if he wants some. If you have a fiancee you're obviously old enough for him not to be mad.

Wish I was lucky enough to have parents like that, man that would be cool. Chill out, sit back in a lawn chair take a hit off the bong and pass it to pop's, sit and laugh at all the funny shit people do in there lives and generally enjoy ourselves. My dad used to smoke when he was younger, joined the military and he was never the same.

dont ask him, what if the reaction is negative. why do you want to go through that shit.

acctualy in in the same dillema exept im 14 and live with him...he probly would smoke with me but i dont really want to take the chance incase he freaks about it

I'm lucky that my mum is cool and laid back when it comes to drugs, so I can be completely honest with her. I smoke ganja take a few other drugs with her and some family friends on the weekend-aslong as I save the drugs for the weekend to do in moderation, its cool. And I don't feel inclined to take any chemicals during the week, except for the odd joint or a psychedelic on wednesdays to help break the week up a bit.

I'm probably in a minority, but you know your dad better than anyone else-he sounds quite laid back to me so it might be worth a try.

i remember when i was little and my mother was so upfront about everything, i'd ask her about everything, sex, drugs, whatever. i remember i was in the sixth grade when she told me she had smoked pot... a lot. it wasn't until after my father passed away i found out he used to traffic acid thru canada and new england. the first time i smoked i told my parents, i thought my father's jaw had disconnected from his skull. my mom acctually taught me how to roll a joint. she hadn't smoked for years, and was complaining about it one day so i pulled out a joint and we smoked. it was the weirdest thing i'd ever done. we smoke together fairly regularly now. i got her an 1/8 for her birthday this year. my father died before i got the chance to smoke with him. such is life i suppose.

From Smoking Parent, with Smoking children.
I know this sucks but there are some legal aspects to consider. If you are under 18 a parent can get into a lot of very heavy trouble. Over 18? have the "heavy talk" most of us (smoking parents) want to share but we don't know how to approach the subject. Me? I took my kids to Amsterdam and stoned the woopies out of them, hey it's almost legal there. It's the damn age thing, I really did not want to go to jail for "corrupting the morals of a minor" anywhere in the 'States. Call me a wimp but I had shoes to buy and kids to feed. Oh yea the "leave it out ploy" ...bad idea, you never know who else is coming in the door. Talk first, respect the parents opinion, and live your own life.

"Talk first, respect the parents opinion, and live your own life."

Coming from a smoking kid with a smoking parent, I agree with this.

I had some extra weed one day and I asked my mom if she wanted any of it (I knew she smoked...she knew I smoked...just never got around to smoking together) and she said, and I quote, "is it dro?"

After that, we lit up a bowl...got stoned...and the rest is history.

I love smoking with my mom...it puts us on another level than just parent/child, ya know?

i love smoking with my grandma it puts us on another level than just grandparent/child, ya know? like seriously im stoned and i think i just copied some shit but right on \m/