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Ok listen this is a very delicate situation...me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and 4 months...im 16 by the way....and im wanting to just break up with her and have some fun...and ive broke up with her before but just quick little break ups and ive swore up and down to her that i would never hurt her again....what should i do..any suggestions or help would be awsome ...i just dont wanna hurt her to bad well at all but i dont think that can happen but just please help
There is no way around it youâ??re going to rip her fucking heart out. I know thatâ??s tough, first love breakups are the worst. The most you can do is be honest without being cruel. Whatever you do think long and hard about it and once you break up and realize that the grass isnâ??t so green on the other side DO NOT go back to her and try and make up. That would be mean to toy with her. I wish you luckâ?¦
Hmmm, but I think it would be more hurtful if you stay in the relationship and fake your feelings about the relationship. Soon or later, things could get very ugly (if you stay) and she'll dislike you for life. If you care about her, be honest with her. You owe her at least that. And like likemclever said, if you don't find someone right away or even for a long time, don't go back out with your girlfriend to fill a void or to satisfy your sexual needs.
It might be best after you talk/break-up with her, stay away from her for a while so you can both adjust to being single.
Good luck to ya!
just tell her straight out, youve enjoyed the years youve been together, but you want your freedom and you want to experience the world while your still in your prime. but tell her youll see her down the road....
Breaking up with a first love has happened to everyone, except ppl who actually marry their gf. Be as honest and caring as you can. It won't be easy, but in the long run she will get over it.
I've always thought that there should be a law against love before age 21. Maybe a maximum time limit (like 1 year) for ppl in relationships. This girl may be the right person for you, but both of you need the opportunity to explore other relationships to know for sure.
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Originally Posted by justinsane
Just be honest. You will hurt her more if you lie. And once it is over, she does not become a screw buddy. She will regret that now and you will regret it later in life. Good luck.
I read that too and thought holy shit man...lol. DO NOT say that unless you want your eyes clawed out with her bare hands.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lulu
the only way your going to be able to get rid of your girl for good is to hack her head off with a blunt mallet and eat it
Better get used to masturbating, buddy.Quote:
Originally Posted by professer evil
say what ur feeling
thats all u can do.. ppl cry, get upset and angry, its all part of life
sure being dumped hurts but we all get over it eventually and ur both only 16 u have plenty of time to find the right person
goodluck
later
Well one easy way out is to give up your need for new experiences with new women and marry her and live happily ever after. This way no one gets hurt, you'll be miserable but at least you spared her.
Please tell me you don't actually think its that simple.Quote:
Originally Posted by MisstreeNny
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Originally Posted by Stedric
It was a joke.
For crying out loud he's only 16, it's hard to believe he was even in a relationship for 2 years. Although I believe him.
That just sounds funny to me... :pQuote:
Originally Posted by MisstreeNny
It will soften the blow if you tell her positive things about herself, what you like about her, what was awesome when you where together and that this hurts you to do. You like her obviously, you just don't want to spend the rest of your life with her. Both of you need some more experiences before you know what you do and don't want in a life partner, she was there for some of the discovery part. Take what you learned together and remember it, remember her and how this felt to do.
Your very empathetic, don't lose that.
just tell her your both too young and you need to try other people and make mistakes and fuk around and have wild orgies and shit and you cant do that with her
hahahaha.Quote:
Originally Posted by professer evil
dude there ain't no easy way around it.....you just have to be flat out and honest.....simple as that.
I'm a terrible person. I dumped my last girlfriend by disappearing off the face of the earth. I just made myself unreachable. I don't know what kind of shape she's in but it made it easy for me. Actually, I feel terrible about it, and I actually wanted to try to find her and apoligize, but what if she thinks I'm dead or something, that might freak her out. Or even worse, she might make me dead with a knife or something.
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Originally Posted by Satovan
Wow, thats pretty fucked up dude....like schizo style man lol.....
But hey man like many people have said, be honest, honesty is always key.
Listen dude you need to be upfront with her no mucking around,tell her the truth like the old saying goes "the truth hurts".And the longer you leave it the harder it will be for both you and her. And just remember if you think there is a perfect time to tell her ......guess what there is no perfect time.But good luck with everything. :o
just rape her to death with the fat end of a snooker cue and burn the corpse
problem sorted