Grow up already

So yesterday I went to my homies house (he's also registered mmj) because he called for an emergency smoke down. Now, normally I wouldn't just up and go over there without my boyfriend, but he was gone and I'm grown. Plus my homie (well just call him tom) looked out for me when my b.f. was in jail and I was having pain, by smoking me down. So I packed up my vape and some papers, and of course my bud, and I headed over there. My b.f. had No problem with my descision( I called and told him what I was going to go do) so I figured I was in the clear.
Half an hour later were talking and discussing my dwc vs his bubbleponics, you know how it goes.
Now, I don't like for there to be opportunities for rumors to be started, so I watch my body language around other guys. I don't wanna unintentionally give off any "sighns" that might give off the wrong impression. So I'm sitting in the lazy boy and he's on the couch, which kinda sux cuz we had to keep standing up to pass the joint, but it semester like he was getting the hint about the personal space so I was fine with standing up.
Just as I sat back down, his wife walks in.
(Such shouldn't be an issue cuz me and her are friends and I've caregiven for her hubby for some 2 yrs now, and weve been friends for four)
Needless to say, I don't need to be told when a female is pissed, I can smell that shit.
And she was pissed. But for what? She's been there with my b.f. by herself before and I didn't get an attitude about it.
Is she untrustworthy so she thinks I am too?
Because she was acting too funny, like she walked in on us kissing or something.
I don't get it.
Be mature girl, you don't smoke and you know he does. I've dropped off his "meds" to him when he was by himself and I stayed and we burned one, she came home and was perfectly happy..." Hey what's up?" All that good shit.
She said "how long have you been here" when she walked in so I knew me being there had upset her.
I don't wanna sit down with her and be like, yo, what was ur problem yesterday? And make it worse, but how do I find out what I did wrong?

:stoned:....

Bahahah! Love that pic dutch, very nice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...;v=WLbPDcJrpkU

Seriously though, weed and females causes some controversy around here. Especially if your a girl that grows, because then you have something in common (everybody grows around here). There like "oh she smokes, she must be gay or something," or "she smokes, she's a tomboy"
I don't understand it, its just weed ladies. They don't understand how I can "play in dirt" and be ok with it under my nails. It's actually relaxing. They're just mad cuz the boys think I'm a cool chick, which I dont understand. It sux though, I've even lost a few friends. But if they don't like me for me then whatever right?
You really know how to lighten the mood huh dutch? ;)

My PGS420, you change avatars like, well, I have seen your shoe collection!

My experience with people. :rastasmoke:They will accuse you of what they are doing! None of your business! Stay outta it and :jointsmile:, you don't have to live with it, thank God!

Hey there D:pimp:, I couldn't get sound, wanted to put it on my ipod! But, I know the tune! My kinda classic! miss the sign. of U tube psycho colors!:thumbsup:pr

I think you hit it on the head along with painretreat! A woman scorrned,watch the hell out! She evidently was up to no good herself that evening! Just let it ride until something comes of it. You'll be able to show your BF the post as to what has gone down.. I'm thinkn' he would be more than understanding. I don't sweat my wife doing crazy shit! I know how to settle those actions as does she.. We would split up,for sure! If it were true.Love is Love!

Ga.

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Originally Posted by painretreat

My PGS420, you change avatars like, well, I have seen your shoe collection!

My experience with people. :rastasmoke:They will accuse you of what they are doing! None of your business! Stay outta it and :jointsmile:, you don't have to live with it, thank God!

Hey there D:pimp:, I couldn't get sound, wanted to put it on my ipod! But, I know the tune! My kinda classic! miss the sign. of U tube psycho colors!:thumbsup:pr

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Chicks a shoes.......Hmmmmm? My wife has more shoes than you can imagine..

Ga.

:rasta:Of course, I'd hate to be the 1 that would say-'Ugh, that time of month!' pr

You haven't done anything wrong and like the others have said she is obviously up to no good!! As long as your bf is cool then you shouldn't feel bad you haven't done anything. people get jealous, let them get on with it I say, we should be able to do what we want and not be judged :-)

Nice! Well I really appreciate everybody's imput! I found out this morning why she was so upset. She called me for en "emergency smoke down" which I knew was bad cuz she don't smoke. So i figured id better go talk her out of it (if someone smokes it should be for the right reasons, not cuz there trying to make thee man mad. Plus ages got a great job and I just didn't want my friend to do anythin rash.) So I get thee and shes crying, saying tom had just moved In a long time friend from childhood...Candy. (I made her fake name kind skeezy cuz she isn't the type you want living with your husband) But let me explain further, Candy is short, thick, with jet blonde hair and ocean blue eyes, very pretty. She's doubly and likes to overstep her bounderies and invade personal space (especially boy). She's the girl at the party who's sat on everybody's lap at least once, and is probly sitting on some girls boyfriend puffing his cig. And asking for a shot. Ugh. I can see why my poor friend was upset. I kindly told her she needs to tell her hubby how this is making her feel. And I just left to Candy coming home from work and asking " can I call some friends over?"
Heehee, It's cool cuz me and my friend call the girls, and well be having an "extraction" later tonight!!
"Extraction" is when there is an unruly female who's breaks the female guidlines and needs to be removed from the scenario. ;)
Let's just say she called the hubby and he said he needed to talk to her about Candy too....uh oh!
He said he came home from work one night when she was gone and found Candy passed out on the couch with his other married best friend and she had drunk dialed his wife and everything....bad bad Candy.
Tom said sge needs to go.
He said that she told him to "make me leave" what?!?!
So later tonight we will all have to find a way to make her leave.
We cant drop her off somewhere cuz she's always drunk, and not quite 19 yet. We don't want her to go to jail, but it sounds like maybe that's where she should spend a night or two.
Idk, but she has to go before she tries to get my b.f. next (he would laugh at her and then go tell me) and she's gonna meet the wrong chick one day.....
Then she's gonna have a fat lip...
Untill then she needs to know that what shes doing is not ok.

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Originally Posted by prettygirlsmokes420

Nice! Well I really appreciate everybody's imput! I found out this morning why she was so upset. She called me for en "emergency smoke down" which I knew was bad cuz she don't smoke. So i figured id better go talk her out of it (if someone smokes it should be for the right reasons, not cuz there trying to make thee man mad. Plus ages got a great job and I just didn't want my friend to do anythin rash.) So I get thee and shes crying, saying tom had just moved In a long time friend from childhood...Candy. (I made her fake name kind skeezy cuz she isn't the type you want living with your husband) But let me explain further, Candy is short, thick, with jet blonde hair and ocean blue eyes, very pretty. She's doubly and likes to overstep her bounderies and invade personal space (especially boy). She's the girl at the party who's sat on everybody's lap at least once, and is probly sitting on some girls boyfriend puffing his cig. And asking for a shot. Ugh. I can see why my poor friend was upset. I kindly told her she needs to tell her hubby how this is making her feel. And I just left to Candy coming home from work and asking " can I call some friends over?"
Heehee, It's cool cuz me and my friend call the girls, and well be having an "extraction" later tonight!!
"Extraction" is when there is an unruly female who's breaks the female guidlines and needs to be removed from the scenario. ;)
Let's just say she called the hubby and he said he needed to talk to her about Candy too....uh oh!
He said he came home from work one night when she was gone and found Candy passed out on the couch with his other married best friend and she had drunk dialed his wife and everything....bad bad Candy.
Tom said sge needs to go.
He said that she told him to "make me leave" what?!?!
So later tonight we will all have to find a way to make her leave.
We cant drop her off somewhere cuz she's always drunk, and not quite 19 yet. We don't want her to go to jail, but it sounds like maybe that's where she should spend a night or two.
Idk, but she has to go before she tries to get my b.f. next (he would laugh at her and then go tell me) and she's gonna meet the wrong chick one day.....
Then she's gonna have a fat lip...
Untill then she needs to know that what shes doing is not ok.

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Awwww Hell! Whats her address? I'll take her for a night! Sit in Daddy's lap and puff on my cigar! playin'... She sounds like a guedogirl,from jersey shore! Go on and bust that ass and get it over with! She won't be husband hunting no more! Had a girl just like that get me in a world of shit with my wife.. I won't got there again! That's that woman scorned thing! OMG! It was not good at all!

Ga.

Now this is the making of a show......"stoners....and their females".......hey if dog the bounty hunter can get a show....so can "stoners"

Like to see the party.....

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Originally Posted by prettygirlsmokes420

So later tonight we will all have to find a way to make her leave.

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Invite her to a fake party at a random hotel.... Then toss all her shit outside and tell her she was asked nicely.... Some people are leaches who need to be removed by force....

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Originally Posted by GaGrown

Awwww Hell! Whats her address? I'll take her for a night! Sit in Daddy's lap and puff on my cigar!

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BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH... .........

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Originally Posted by weeddaddy50

Now this is the making of a show......"stoners....and their females".......hey if dog the bounty hunter can get a show....so can "stoners"

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They can call the show "Best Buds"....

CGI::::::

uh... ok we all know a "candy" and she's fucked up and all but she isn't the issue really; she's just a symptom of a deeper problem. Husband needs to get priorities in order.

This is really screwed-up! I don't think any of us guys are allowed in this forum.. After all... This is the Women's Issues,forum... I guess all of us gotta get in touch with our feminine side,huh? I don't even know which side of me that is! I thought both sides,back and front of me was guy!

Ga.

Bitch better recognize!!!

Is a blanket party in order????

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This is really screwed-up! I don't think any of us guys are allowed in this forum.. After all... This is the Women's Issues,forum...

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No dude - I think you're reading it wrong. It's women issues - we all have issues with women, no? It's a joke. No offense meant if any wymyn are reading this. Just offering some perspective is all. OK, we'll go now...

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Originally Posted by bigsby

No dude - I think you're reading it wrong. It's women issues - we all have issues with women, no? It's a joke. No offense meant if any wymyn are reading this. Just offering some perspective is all. OK, we'll go now...

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bigs,

Can you tell me why I want to reply to this so bad? I love Women! Lets end this on a serious note! I wrote a poem..Here it is..

Woman

How beautiful,an instrument is woman!

When artfully played upon!

Me!!! Ga.:stoned:

Not sure how well that's going to play here... but I totally agree. To be 22 again... we really should start our own thread though...

Awww naw! Yesss! If I was 22 again? OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! Esspecially knowing what I know now? Scares me to think! But........ 22 again! Dayam! Hell I might have 10 wives!

Ga!!!!!!!

Wives? Oh shit no. There's a reason I didn't marry until age 38...

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Wives? Oh shit no. There's a reason I didn't marry until age 38...

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I know! Right? Funny shit!

Ga.

Bigs.....me too.....I waited till I was 33.....

and my wife is a pistol..........just stay out the line of fire....and you will be fine.......problem is.....every once and a while.....i get in the line......and all hell breaks loose........Ya.....to be young again......I lived a whole life time those 5 years in college......there was always a candy....at most every party.....funny...I always avoided them......looking for the Judy...brunette.....with the green eyes...with the nice legs, rack....and smile......most of the time they were there...but not flashy.

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Wives? Oh shit no. There's a reason I didn't marry until age 38...

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I been to them parties! UGA! Hell Yeah! Candy is a STALKER,fer sure!

Ga!

Lol brunette, green eyes. I have green eyes, part Irish from my grammas side. And brown hair... But I'm taken lol.
Update fer Yall:
Candy was very easily persuaded to leave actually. She said as soon as she walled in and saw all us other girls "well if this ain't tension..."
Tee hee ;)
Um ya you shoulda seen this one coming hunny.

Dudes wife was there and we had to hold her back (don't know how she got the memo...well....oops ;) )
Anyways she packed up her things and called her mom.
She came home crying already though cuz her "b.f." left her for a college senior with a career.
;)
So I'm just sitting back now, enjoyin my doobie of g.d.p.
Funny how shit works out huh?
Karma...

I told you! Bust that ass! She ain't huntin' no mo! With a Rebel Yell! Hell yeah! Diamonds ain't forever!

Ga.

Oh my gosh Gg, ur so crazy! I'm so over all this drama shit... Ugh.
That dudes wife was crazy!
I hope I have more self controll during a situation like that IF I ever.get married.
I'm starting to think mine can't commit, its been almost four years, whatever tho, id say no if he asked me
;)
I'm just not ready for a commitment like that, its a lifelong thing.
Yall dudes are married, when did you know she was the one?

????? :):jointsmile:

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Originally Posted by prettygirlsmokes420

Oh my gosh Gg, ur so crazy! I'm so over all this drama shit... Ugh.
That dudes wife was crazy!
I hope I have more self controll during a situation like that IF I ever.get married.
I'm starting to think mine can't commit, its been almost four years, whatever tho, id say no if he asked me
;)
I'm just not ready for a commitment like that, its a lifelong thing.
Yall dudes are married, when did you know she was the one?

????? :):jointsmile:

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I'm just gonna ask a simple question... Ok? Where the hell were all ya'll when we were growing up? Psssssssssttt!

Ga.

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Originally Posted by GaGrown

I'm just gonna ask a simple question... Ok? Where the hell were all ya'll when we were growing up? Psssssssssttt!

Ga.

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:pBlue eyed shy sunshine brunette in the corner!:lookat: lol, funny thread here.

The fellows are very well know to stumble in this area it is not women only-women issues! Some threads in here by some kind fellows!

Candyass--RIP! Good work. But, PGS be careful for your pals sake and your friendship! :rasta: pr Is anyone brave enough to answer--When did you knos she was the one???

When she told me... no seriously I don't know. For a guy I think it has more to do with where you are as an individual. I waited to get married because I realized that as a youth I was too wild and stupid (in the moment) and like anything else worth keeping I would have screwed it up. I was traveling the world and was determined to stay single although a few tried to get a ring on me. Once I got older it became more of a rational decision. We, too, have biological clocks. I didn't want newborns in my 50s! Then I met this girl, 12 yrs. my junior, beautiful, smarter than me (almost), funny as shit, and full of direction. And I just knew. We spent three years together before getting engaged. It was just the right fit. 10 years, 2 kids and going strong. There - hows that?

:kisslove: Bigsby-Very nice, thanks for sharing your answer! :cool:

Yes bigs, thank you for your sharing. That was what I was looking for.
What if I get asked and I'm not ready still?

Any married females?
When did Yall know you were ready?

That whole Candy scenario got me thinking.
I havnt even really lived my life yet.
I was so worried about other prioritys when I turned seventeen and moved out.
I was seventeen with a job, taking college classes, and making house payments on a three bedroom house.
I didn't have much time to party or what not.

So much to think about... About what age do most females do most of their maturing, cuz I mighta caught the memo a bit early. ;)

17 with a mortgage? Good for you. I did college from home and then hit the road. Got rid of everything except what fit in a backpack and went to Europe and then the Middle East. Took me 15 years to get home on any permanent basis. I did manage to fit in grad school but there was no time for commitment beyond the semi-serious GF thing.

No one can give you the answer on this. My only comment would be that there should be no question marks in the margins if you know what I mean.

Well, I figured that if I'm questioning it, its probly not right.
If I feel I'm not being supported enough emotuonally or mantally, than its probly not right.
Ya know ;)
I shouldn't be arguing about a silly post just hecause he has a diff. Opinion about curing, I shouldn't have to build my own space to grow just because he's stubborn and wants to grow his way in his space.
I'm thinkin maybe its time for me to become independant once again....

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Well, I figured that if I'm questioning it, its probly not right.
If I feel I'm not being supported enough emotuonally or mantally, than its probly not right.
Ya know ;)
I shouldn't be arguing about a silly post just hecause he has a diff. Opinion about curing, I shouldn't have to build my own space to grow just because he's stubborn and wants to grow his way in his space.
I'm thinkin maybe its time for me to become independant once again....

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Daddys here for ya,Boo!

Ga.:)

I agree with all of that except the grow space bit. Every man needs his own grow space!

:joint1:Come on now fellows, if it isn't the garage for a Man Cave, it should be 'game on!'

I know men that have a very nice grow in garage and have 'their' space in it for watching football, phone calls, grazing all the different strains of seeds they've collected, porn collection of trichome pictures and every tool for ingesting pot known to man (woman). And they are allowed in the kitchen to bake, as well. Seems, a lot of men are better bakers than a lot of us women! If the space is limited though, sharing works. Sometimes, we can be too independent. I can't stand the 'dah, I dunno women' that depend on men to survive. But, we do love their company--the vibrater can wear out, ya know!

We base our realtionships on 'compatability.' If we get along with them, that is all that matters. No fighting over dumb ass stuff. If it is peaceful - that can be great. Do a lot of things while you can, with him. Between grows, go camping, hiking and all the things you seem drawn too. Check out your inner self. Make a list of all the things you want to do and start going all out now. Cause, wez all going to wanna do more before we cannot!

PGS420, take a lot of time to stop and smell the Rose's. Men do take 'grooming' and time to realize things. You did read Bigsby Post to Kayla. He is so right on!

I too was on my own at 17 and going to college. But, I did do a party thing, every other week-end (due to work reqs) and I had a fng ball in college. I love to party and life should be a party. But, I take my responsiblities very seriously and have owned my own home since college! "Girl Cave-with menables in it!" You can be too independent from that kind of responsibility, too young.

It takes some very good weed and a lot of introspection to really get in touch with what you really want for yourself. And that is what we all want for you! Decide your future now. Set goals. You met most goals expected of you by 17. Its downhill from there for responsibility you met those requirements don't cage yourself into it.

These men carefully selected their wifes here. Many just get married because the sex was good and then after the "honeymoon" phase want to move on. And oops, now there are children and 'we have to stay together for the kids! Which is total bullshit! Nothing worse! Always Plan your escape. You are entitled to a good time, even when in a committed relationship. Pot makes that even more fun!

You live your life too adult and one day, you will be that adult and miss your childhood. I say take in a lot of Sativa and It's Never Too Late to Have a Happy Childhood! Get started now! We are waiting to hear about it. You can be responsible and enjoy and milk the sap outta life! Cause, I expect you to leave this planet, kicking and screaming-I am still having fun at the age of 114! One more:bigsmoke: please?? I am not done yet. . . Your assignment for this week is. . .on your day of rest from work, just go somewhere and join with some others and start meeting new people! Expand your options! :rasta: pr

oh and one tip for you...closed minded--closed heart!