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If you google "marijuana" and "libido" you get a zillion references to dope being a depressant and a libido-killer. well, it makes me horny as hell. My current job-search is forcing me to stay clean and sober, and my sex-drive has gone out the window. Anyone else find pot makes them hot?
yo.. kind of an old thread here but no replies so..
im a guy and ive been with my GF bout 3 years now.. we've been smoking it up as we go and its been a nice bumpy long ride lol
in the first year together, we smoked ALOT alot! too much to be honest but anyways, the weed made her really horny, even the smallest touch would feel awsome (to her and for me) .. sadly after 3 years lol things become somewhat "slower" .. anyone who has had a relationship for 2++ years knows this..
you used to have sex 20 times a day, then 20 times a month..
for all the people who havnt been a relationship for 2 years++ <-- YES it will happen to 99% of u lol..
now now, dont get all cranky, the sex is still really nice and we still got it going on but things changes frmo that puppy love state and sex is "new" and crazy with ur new partner!
anyways, back to the topic: As i said, at first weed was really really nice and made us both horny i guess, but now as the relationship has smoothly passed over to the "20 times a month" state, i gotta say weed still makes me horny but only make her tired and "not in the mood" basicly..
and because of that im starting to freak somewhat out, because we rarle have sex if she's high / been high at that day basicly cus she becomes somewhat lazy when she smokes, as do we all, but when it comes to sex.. man.. that suxxx
so.. to sum it all up, weed was NICE in the begining (when it comes to sex) but now it seems she's become a lazy stoner and when she's tokin' i aint gettin no pokin' (lol just made that up)
alcohol gets me going. I haven't noticed any increase/decrease with mj.
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Originally Posted by AngelFish
With the exception of couch lock products, I love having sex when I am stoned! This seems to be the case for my partner too, so I tend to link that late evening toke with things that will inevitably happen, and yes, my libido meter goes nuts about that time because of it. :D
not sure if this would be the case with a new partner though. I tend to overthink things in that situation and the high might be a little distracting. I guess it would depend entirely on the circumstances and how comfortable I was in it.
I find this dual reaction happens elsewhere too... If I am trying to study, pot is very distracting. But if I am writing or trying to create, the dope seems to supercharge things. ;)
Emmie
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Originally Posted by Dutch Pimp
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might not get you going at first but once going at it, the ganja will definately be having an effect !!!
bah, when I'm :stoned: the only things that interest me are pizza and ice cream ;)
Rum on the other hand, :dance: makes the mister a happy boy.
give it a go and it may change your mind..thats all im saying :)
I thought that it was commonly known that pot somewhat increased libido/sex drive.. I remember in high school, I'd enjoy getting high with a girl then doin things rather than getting drunk. It seemed to me that it significantly made them more easily turned on. Of course alcohol does the same, but I was just really not into that kind of thing.
I'm with AngelFish when i get stonned i just think about food and watch trippy movies. But watching my partner smoke is quite the turn on. Nothing is as sexy as a girl smoking a blunt :jointsmile:
Well, speaking for the "aged" (50's - female) and "infirm" (I qualify for that label with the MS), I gotta tell you - a bud that has some Sativa in it is fabulous! Not just for desire, but for sensitivity and power of orgasm! I joke with my (non-smoking) partner that men should bring woman weed, not chocolate or liquor! Though, we will accept those, too!
Bear in mind, that decreased libido and anorgasmia are very typical in Multiple Sclerosis (especially in females). I've even tried Viagra, and nothing, nothing works like weed!
It's not an aphrodisiac like...I smoke and every time I smoke I'm horny. But if the idea occurs it helps me to get lost in the moment. Sometimes I'm too aware of everything and can't just relax, so it helps with that. And sensations are much more wonderful stoned. Longer orgasm for me, generally (I really think it's a mental thing).
And some good music in the background couldn't hurt. :)