O GOD I FUCKED UP

:(

well i have no one esle to go to to talk about this. and all of ur opinions r valuable to me so here goes.

i think i got my gf pregnant :eek: :(

and theres a good chance because during sex after i cummed in a condom i took it off and she put my cock in without a condom.

i dont no what to think or say right now i just dont no what to do. im so worried about this. she told me not to worry cuz well know for sure when her period comes around, but HOW THE FUCK CANT I WORRY, i mean i could have a kid at 16 for christ sake. like im not rdy for this, im still a fuckin kid.

blah, i guess if worse comes to worse im gonna have to suck it up and be a man. i love this girl so much but the thought of all this is just to mind blowing.

if any of u have anything to say plz plz say it

thx very much

later

Hey was happenin man, damn man that does suk, but yea if shes pregnant take your own advice and take it like a man, im 17 goin on 18 and thats happened twice :eek: and they werent my gf but i was willin to handle my biz an u should be 2, hope everything turns out well man, lata

Man thats gotta suck majorly, im 15 and i got a gf too man if i got her pregnant i would flip out so bad, i mean yeah i love her to death, but like fuck i really dont want a kid till im like around my mid/later 20's(that may change tho) Yeah and well id say abortion but i dont know your views, i think if you made a mistake an abortion is an ok situation, just imo tho and dont no one flame me for that or call me a w/e blah blah blah. Good Luck tho i hope everything works out...

If so, check out the link

http://www.morningafterpill.org/

OH, and goodluck ;)

Thats happened twice to my girlfriend and I. I finally convinced her to go on the pill because it is much safer than just condoms. There really is nothing you can do, depending on how long its been since conception you may be able to get her a morning after pill. Under 72 hours since and the morning after pill is a good choice.

Where was she in her cycle? (How close to her next period), because if you know that you can have a rough estimate of when she'd be ovulating?

Just take it easy man (I know, easier said than done) and I'd suggest that if this boils over you immediately talk her into taking the pill. It is the safest option if your going to be having sex, 100% effective if used correctly. It'll make her feel like shit for a while but eventually she'll get used to them and its for her own good as well as yours.

Maybe this will make you feel better. Me and my gf have been having sex without condoms for like 2 yrs and she isn't on anything (birth control) i know it might sound stupid but girls can really only get pregnanat like 3 days after 2 weeks after there last peridod when they release an egg and shit. Don't be too perionoid b/c I know it only takes once but a lot depends on the time of the month or how long it has been since her last period. Don't worry it only makes things worse it and if she is worried and stressed it can actually make her period come later. Peace

Tell your gf to get on the pill. She doesent even need her mom there. Just take her to get it, talk to the docter and he'll see wat pill is right for her. Peace and good luck.

So you have no clue except that your sperm might have gotten in her? I seriously doubt it would happen from a medical view.
1. What time in relation to her period was this
2. Sperm was on your penus, not being "shot" out like in sex, so it would be very hard for it to even reach the uterus.
blah blah blah, don't start anticipating anything untill her period comes around and it ain't there

Abortion is the easy way out. So what if you made a mistake by not using a condom. Is that really the babies fault? Don't abort a child just because you were the one who fucked up and went unprotected. The best thing you can do if you are not ready to be a parent is put the kid up for adoption. 5 years down the road, you will be thankful you had because that abortion will really weigh on your conscience. Just my outlook on the situation.

So ur fucking this girl? is this the same girl u posted about like a month ago? Well
anyway that SUCKS but dont worry til she gets her period, but that wasnt the smartest thing to do. Just wait cause the craziest things can happen good or bad, ive had a condom break a couple times and i hated that shit id be sooo worried like u. Just dont stress it until the deed has been done and dont stress ur girl cause if u got her stressed that fucks up the girls cycle, girls r delicate(sp?) and the smallest things can mess there periods up

Do you properly need to cum like crazy to get a girl pregnant. On one occasion recently I finished too fast so kept going after without a condom (like 15 minutes later) after making sure I was "all clear". I didn't orgasm for shit but thought I felt a tiny something go up. Should I be worried too :eek: ?

u know people.....
i was on the pill and i got pregnant.....
that shows ya how good that works huh,,,,,,

peace

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHH YEEAAAH!!!
Let me tell you guys, after posting that message, I got fucking paranoid as hell, but now, IT'S AAAALL GOOD!! Wow, I didn't realise anything gave you a bigger feeling of satisfaction then securing a draw deal over the phone, BUT I JUST FOUND IT!!

Stay cool, and remember, it's not semen, IT'S BULBOURETHRAL! :D

I'm pregnant.

A few seconds of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of regret. If your not ready to have a kid, then use condoms, get some of the antisperm inserts for her, make sure she on the pill, the shot, the implant, or something and if all else fails use the morning after pill. She may not know about the morning after pill either so make sure she is aware. (also it doesn't hurt you, it just makes sure you release whatever eggs you may have and begin your period instead of those eggs staying inside fertilized and growing a baby)

good news....condoms have spermacide in them so if you came in the condom you likely had it all over you, and she had it all inside her, so your chances of pregnancy are slim. Next time use some forethought, you should not be inside her without a wrap unless you WANT a kid right now. (and if you have both been tested for everything)
after all, love is great, but vd sucks.

I think the chances that your girl's pregnant are next to none, for the reasons Scarlett stated. Worry only if she doesn't get her period...

It is called 'the miracle of childbirth' for a very good reason

exactly....
i was on the pill and i got pregnant.....
4 months pregnant now and happy as
can be...

my mom was really mad at first and then she siad
well if it was meant to be then it was meant
to be,,,,,

so if ya girl is pregnant...
be happy...u got blessed with gods gift...
thats the way i see it...

peace

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Originally Posted by tokinsmoke

u know people.....
i was on the pill and i got pregnant.....
that shows ya how good that works huh,,,,,,

peace

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You need to have a strict regimen about Birth Control. My last GF always took it every day at 3:00pm on the dot. She said if you don't then they might not work. Maybe you didn't take them at the same time every day? Just a thought...

Scarlett has the right idea. If you got lucky this time, at least take the precautions from now on. The Universal Will to Be is a powerful force, don't take it lightly.

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ya thx for ur opinions everyone. i dunno after talking with a few other ppl about it i highly doubt she is too. btw this was the girl i was talking about a month ago

and i usually use condoms but when we first start off i put it in for maybe a few minutes just to like get us both going. i dont cum so its really not a problem cuz i through on a rubber after a 2-3 minutes. ya and were both clean i hope, i know i am cuz ive only had one other partner and she was clean. and the girl im with had maybe like 2-3 other partners but she used condoms with them

ya im diffinately not gonna be a dumbass next time. keeping the rubber on matter what until she hopefully gets the pill

anyways thanks a lot for all of replies they gave me good insight im not gonna worry just chill out smoke a few bowls and not worry and enjoy myself when im with her

later

anyways

later

Hope all goes well for you man... but just a bit of advice. There is always a chance of getting your girl pregnant unless she has her tubes tied or unless you've been castrated. My parents had both me and one of my siblings while using birth control devices (more than one) so it's not always proven to work. Just make sure that you're ready for the possibility and the responsibility of a kid if you want to continue making intercourse. Hope all goes well for you man, good luck.

ya i know. im totally rdy to take responsibility if it happens. just hope it doesnt

thx for the advice

later