Girl Drama

This guy has been asking my friend out forever so eventually she said ok and went out with him they have been on tike 4 or 5 dates since then. Last night she finds out he already has A girlfriend that he has been living with for the past four months. This makes my friend even more attracted to the guy and she is going to keep him around for something to â??do.â?� The guy is like 24 and she is like 30 so I think she is gonna teach him a few things before she releases him back into the wild. Naturally I gave her a big thumbs upâ?¦â?¦if you were me what advice would you give to my friend what should she do with this young man.

What are you men thinking half the time, I swear.

fuck him and leave him

then fuck him again :)

i think just about covers what men are thinking about if u exclude drugs and alchole

u should tell her if he is already living with someone to back the fuck up, thats just wrong!! cheating pisses me off so fuckin bad and if she knows that hes taken,and still wants to be with him, then shes not any better then the cheater himself! And he needs a bat to the head :)

What she said.

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Tell her you have Ghonnerea and u fucked him about a month ago unprotected.

thats should stop her.

I'm mostly disturbed by the general lack of morals in your friends yo. That whole situation is just so wrong on so many levels and I would not trust either of them to be a good friend, since they obviously can't be good to the people they are with. I don't know, deception just isn't a good personality trait, and also the bat to the head solution seems to be the best one, other than just walking away.
I would SO be telling dudes girl.

In regards to your friend:

What.A.Bitch.


In regards to the guy who's getting with your friend:

What.A.Shithead.

I feel bad for her because she got burnt pretty bad in a relationship and then she didn't date anyone for like a year and a half and then the first guy she decides to give a chance to ends up to be this dirt bad. She quit smoking like three months ago then she calls me up and tells me the story about this guy and wants to know if I can get her a bag. She is normally a very decent chick and I'd trust her whith just about anything. It's just that she is tired of being alone and she kinda figures that all guys are like this and this duble wammy with relationships hasn't given her a lot of self-confidense. I questioned her about it this afternoon and she said "Well, it's not like he was obligated to tell me." I almost lept out of my fucking skin and I tried explaining to her how irrational that statement was. I think she understands but she feeling a little beet down.

If they wanna fuck each other let em. I'd give em a thumbs up too :D

i dont think that her past is any kind of excuse for that behavior. She is still goin to end up hurt by this in the end or hurting someone else! she needs to remember how it felt like to get fucked over and remember that is what shes doin to this dudes poor girlfriend. Tell her she needs to SNAP! ;)

First of all my friend is not doing a damn thing....this dirt bag man is the one who fucking pestered her for a month asking her out while at the same time living with this other chick..she didn't even find out till she had already been on like 4 or 5 dates with him. And someones past is ALWAYS the excuse for their present behavior (be it good or bad) Belive me I hate lying cheating basterds just as much as anyone else. My friend is not doing anything to this other woman she has not been out with the prick since she found out. She was just making an observation on her present situation. My friend in fact is very kind (more kind than I would be) and holds no responsibility in this. He is the one who has made a comitment to this other woman and he is the one who should have his balls removed. Women are more quick to judge and blame other women than they are to blame the men because they think men are unable to control themselves and "cheating is in their nature".....bullshit. If I had a man and he were fucking arround like this he would be.....gone "the end." I'm not gonna hold some other woman responsible that didn't even know I existed and even if she did know (i don't care) I was in a relationship with him not her. If he can't be a man and say no than fuck him I don't need his sorry ass.

well u said it made her more attracted to him and made her want it more so there for its ur fault that we all thought that way! if she hasnt gone out with him since she found out ur right she is doin nothing wrong! if she continues to see him knowing that hes living with someone else then they are both wrong! so hes a pig bottom line and she needs to move on and find better!


The End!

It did make her more attracted how is that my fault......lol

I can't be held responsible for her shity taste in men

look babe im not tryin to have a go at u.. i was just responding my opnions to what u asked!! if u were offened im sry! that was just how i felt about the situation. as someone thats been cheated on its a very sore subject! just tell her its better for her to stay away in the end! because like u said the women always blaims the other women and not the man thats at fault! im sure if ur friend is as nice and u say she can do so much better! good luck to her!

Hey Ammie I'm not offended at all I'm glad you responded to my post and told me whats on you mind. Guys just piss me off sometimes and I get a little riled up I was actually enjoying our little back and forth...... (and yes guys I know girls do the same thing.)

Ammie thanks again

yeah gurls can be just as fucked up as men, and sometime worse !! I have a few that i could slap up a few good times myself:). i just dont like people that plan on and feed off the emotional distress of others! or them stupid head games :S argh! just be stright up and honest and if u feel like u want to be with someone else how fuckin hard is it to just leave the relationship!! if u want to cheat then u must not be that happy and leaving shouldnt be that hard! u know :rolleyes:



anyways have a good one sweets and i hope all works out for ur girl. If she needs me to take a bat to his head just let know know :D

100% agree....

The bat Idea is a good one I was think of something a little more slow and a lot more painful...I don't know I'll have to think about this one.

hmmmmm maybe tie him down and slowly cut mister happy down cm by cm til theres nothing left but a lil nub :D then u can move to fingers and whatever else ur lil heart desires :D how about that, sound like a plan?

yeah sounds like were getting closer....his penius is proubally so small this could be taken care of in just a matter of minutes.

<<goes and gets robe and a knife!!! lets party :D

whoa whoa whoa ladies play nice that hurts us guys just thinkin about that........ :eek:

All I have to say is that emotions and feeling are for pussy-shits!!!!

i think ur friend should go for some one else and forget about him y wast your life

i think u shouldnt get involved and let ppl live thier lives

how does that sound?

later

LOL