Just lost my job today, dont know what to do,have two kiddies to look after. Feel like ending it, had all the usual its not the end of the world blah blah. just need someone to listen to me. Bye.
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Just lost my job today, dont know what to do,have two kiddies to look after. Feel like ending it, had all the usual its not the end of the world blah blah. just need someone to listen to me. Bye.
Dundee I tried to PM you i dunno if you got it or whatever but keep your head up man, sorry to hear about that but you'll get past it.
I actually think there is some truth to the saying "Everything happens for a reason."
Cheers mate my girl says the same thing. its just a bit of a fuker havin the kids and no money.
Hope you get things sorted Dundee Ganjaman
Keep you chin up n things'll b alright soon :)
Cheers. Its just hard to accept but maybe RIP ODB was rite things happen for a reason.
I know this may not seem like a great deal off help at the moment I have found if you try to remain in a positive mode that old saying when one door closes another one opens,,,,,,has been true for me I have gone from a care manager to unemployed to taking up chiropody I don't know what age group your in but im in the 50s group which im sure you'll agree if your younger! it would be easier for you than me to start afresh,,,so keep the chin up bro...now is the time for you to do what you always wanted to do....set your plan in action
Good luck Dundee, don't give up. You're among friends here.
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Life's a bitch, man. Smack her down.
Now that I sound like a 14 year old jock trying to be hard, I'm a go pretend I go money to pick up some bud... Maybe finish off this last bit of whiskey and start working on calc.
I've contemplated suicide in the past during the down times and have come to the conclusion that if things really got that bad, instead of killing myself I'd rather fake my own death, travel to some foreign country and start my life anew with a new identity.
hey dont know your situation but heres mine may of 04 told my boss hurt myself,next day called in to go to dr. boss call me 3 hrs later & fires me.I was working 6days a week 12to 16 hrs aday pumping poti poties.Ihave a 16yr,3yr,& 2yr olds.There's other jobs probaly a job you will like more.Just slow down a min,take puff & look at it a differnt way.Things always seem to work out,may be very hard at times but always works out
im listening
Thanks for all your advice, but I'm just fucked up at the moment. Hopefully something is around the corner, the kids no there is something wrong haven't had the heart to tell them yet.
Hey Dundee, Lots of people giving u good advice here. I hope its helping :)
A thought that crossed my mind when reading ur last post was that, as im sure u agree, better to tell ur kids sooner rather than later. They'v worked out somethings wrong, they're probably worried! Your a family unit, right? You wont let anything destroy that so let your kids know that too! Sit them down, hv a chat and maybe being strong for your kids will help you feel strong within yourself? I dont know if that makes sense...im high a fuck. Just an idea. Tk Care hun xxx
Find a new job, don't let a job loss slow you down, because that shit happens for one reason or another probably not under your control, most likely from consolidation, I know job insecurity better than anyone. It's tough losing your job, but you can't let that shit snowball into despair, just start looking, and submitting your resume everywhere. Gotta network bro. Think this of a way to think of something fresh and new, and hope that inspires you to ponder what you want to do!Quote:
Originally Posted by Dundee Ganjaman