What do you think of cheating? (men input okay)

I have always cheated on everyone iv been with..

and i have been honest about it to my lovers.. Most dont like the idea and most wont put up with it and i dont blame em..

the girl i am with now i have yet to cheat on and its been over a year. I love her to death but she works so much and i don't get enough booty. i have tried talking to her and asking if i could find a booty call but she says the minute i do shes walkin out the door.. its not worth it to lose her.. i can stick it out.. buy a dildo or something ..

But what are your thoughts on cheating? or open relationships?

cheating in my opinion is not okay. i mean once you commit to that person than that is it. will there be temptation, always!

i am married. i thought i wanted to cheat once. i "looked" into it. i never went further than that. sidenote, i did have a bunch of gay dudes offer to take care of me though, lol. shortly after i did a little stint in jail over some b.s. that happend like 5 years ago. then i realized how stupid it was to even think about cheating.

my wife takes care of me. i don't work, because she doesn't want me to. sounds similar in your situation. you've also posted a thread about marriage. if you love your women, and are willing to marry her then you have to fight the urge to cheat. if you can't then don't worry about marrying her! truly. it's not just about you once you take it to that level. it is about ya'll!

who's gonna be writing you while you are in jail, holding it down for you, that booty call or your woman?! that was a metaphor, i don't expect nor do i want you to go to jail!

cheating is not cool. an open marriage or relationship is something that is agreed upon in advance.

fighting the urge you have to cheat is a step in the right direction of putting america back where it needs to be. i know it sounds stupid, but it's true. we have no morals or values anymore. we will sell our soul for a quick buck.

it's not always easy, sometimes it's damn hard, but it has to and must be done. you can satisfy your own urges, or wait.

just curious as to how she would feel if it was a male booty call though?

glad you found the boards!

-shake

Whoops, wrong post. Sorry.

Wazzup, Shake?

what's good dh?!

lmao!

-shake

This is the best way I can put it.... Relationships and commitment once your in a relationship...Its ok to look at the catalog, just dont place a order!!:D:hippy:

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just curious as to how she would feel if it was a male booty call though?

-shake

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Well it wouldnt be a male booty call :upsidedow and i just dont think i have it in me to cheat on this one.. I just have this problem i feel like a nympho sometimes.. if their not able to perform i just move on.. But with this girl She can perform just not as often as id like.. so it makes it challenging for me..

But i stay strong because like iv stated before in another thread i am completely in love..

I dont believe in cheating either.. so dont get the wrong idea about me people.. It just happens..

i understand wite. i don't judge. it's not my place. that's call experience.

maybe you can do different things to spice up the sex part, or to make her more of a nympho. use your imagination and make it fun and different.

i'm glad that you haven't cheated and i'm glad that you are in love!

and i was only asking about the male booty call to see her point of view. would someone that she knows you wouldn't leave her for appease her mind or no?

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would someone that she knows you wouldn't leave her for appease her mind or no?

-shake

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for some reason i didnt understand this question its not clicking...


But im going to go out on a limb and say no never lol... :stoned:

lol, my bad. i was asking if you had a male booty call, you know someone you would have no interest leaving her for, what would her feelings be on this? that's all. no worries.

-shake

No of course i dont.. and if i did i think she would f**kin flip out..

Yell at me and then leave me..

Id probably break her heart..

it would be bad news that much i kno..

And if i were to have a booty call it would be a lady friend..;)

i dont think cheating is right.. I mean your with someone because you love and care about them why would you cheat on them to hurt them?

is this coming out right

i duno

no cheating !! find a new hobbie !!:stoned:

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