did i mess up?

guys...i dont know what i just got myself into

me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 months last week and tonight we went out to eat at a resteraunt and tried to go to a movie but it was sold out...so we went back to her place...we were messin around a bit and then we stood there just holding eachother and i got that feeling...one that so many look for but i dread...

i whisperd in her ear
"baby im scared"
she replied "why"
and i told her.."i think im starting to love you"

and i am....i can feel it...and it scares the crap out of me....both of us have had our hearts shatterd once before from love...and im so fucking scared its going to happen again.....i dont want to get hurt...but i cant hide my feelings....i may have just made our relationship so much more confusing and added a nice little bonus heartbreak if/when we break up...

what i would do is go for it. if u feel that strongly about her u should just go for it and try ur best to have the best relationship u can with this girl. Dont jump to quickly though. Bottom line is if she is a sweet girl and you can trust her with ur heart GO FOR IT but wait it out just to make sure she is the one and if she is...well theres ur answer, she is. Time is the key because the feelings can get the best of u and overwhelm u so take it slow and make sure its right. Love is a great thing but you have to be careful

thanks man....i know love is great...and she is a great girl...shes so innocent though, she dosent smoke anything, she has only drank a few time, but i member once she got sloshed...lol.....

shes christian...and shes so beautiful...shes almost angelic even in my eyes

she doesnt smoke? barely drink? christian? man u better keep her

she sounds like a keeper to me thats the type that would win me over too

Aye. She sounds like quite the catch, but like OreO said, "time is key". Don't worry about breaking up or making it last longer because that will just fuck things up. Enjoy it and go with the flow, don't get to obsessed with her. Just have fun man, if its meant to be than its meant to be, and if its not...Well then its not.

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Originally Posted by koshea

thanks man....i know love is great...and she is a great girl...shes so innocent though, she dosent smoke anything, she has only drank a few time, but i member once she got sloshed...lol.....

shes christian...and shes so beautiful...shes almost angelic even in my eyes

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Hey Koshea,... This is a great girl. To me nothing is more attractive than a girl who is innocent, pure and clean (no chance of STDs or what have you).

Anyways man, try to stick with this one, cause once you get older you're gonna encounter nothing but whores. Believe me, I know. I've been to bars.

did she say she loves you back, if she didnt and i were you id feel awkward knowing she has this to use against me, but if she's a good christian girl she proberly wouldnt be vindictive.

Yeah if she didn't say it back, that's a big mozza ball hangin out

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Originally Posted by koshea

guys...i dont know what i just got myself into

me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 months last week and tonight we went out to eat at a resteraunt and tried to go to a movie but it was sold out...so we went back to her place...we were messin around a bit and then we stood there just holding eachother and i got that feeling...one that so many look for but i dread...

i whisperd in her ear
"baby im scared"
she replied "why"
and i told her.."i think im starting to love you"

and i am....i can feel it...and it scares the crap out of me....both of us have had our hearts shatterd once before from love...and im so fucking scared its going to happen again.....i dont want to get hurt...but i cant hide my feelings....i may have just made our relationship so much more confusing and added a nice little bonus heartbreak if/when we break up...

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if you have found love, cool man!
if you have not , well, thats life dude.
live & learn. good luck at whatever you choose!

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Originally Posted by RIP ODB

Yeah if she didn't say it back, that's a big mozza ball hangin out

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as best said by jerry seinfield

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Originally Posted by RIP ODB

Anyways man, try to stick with this one, cause once you get older you're gonna encounter nothing but whores. Believe me, I know. I've been to bars.

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Absolutely correct. It works both ways...there comes a time in life when all that will be left are chicks with 2 teeth and 76 kids with 37 different men, and guys with 2 teeth, no jobs, beer guts, and mullets.

Hold on to her, Koshea! :D

In my opinion, you should chill out. Sooooooooo many people think they're in love just because they like someone alot. Even 12 years olds these days are 'falling in love' once a week. I blame this for the high divorce rates and broken homes. If love is te sacred thing that most people think it to be, then the word should stop being thrown around. If you're in love, then congratulations, but I think you should wait a while and see how things go. It may be infatuation, it may be obsession, it may just be a good friendship, but don't go falling it love prematurely, because it may just split you two up. Good luck, anyway, and sorry for being so pessimistic.

if she didnt jump out of a window u didnt mess it up ;)

Sounds like a keeper.

42

im 42

NOT
YOU

i was here b4 u i got the title:

42

capiche?

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Originally Posted by GHoSToKeR

In my opinion, you should chill out. Sooooooooo many people think they're in love just because they like someone alot. Even 12 years olds these days are 'falling in love' once a week. I blame this for the high divorce rates and broken homes. If love is te sacred thing that most people think it to be, then the word should stop being thrown around. If you're in love, then congratulations, but I think you should wait a while and see how things go. It may be infatuation, it may be obsession, it may just be a good friendship, but don't go falling it love prematurely, because it may just split you two up. Good luck, anyway, and sorry for being so pessimistic.

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that is why im scared dude, when we first started getting close like back in last november, we discussed love and we both agreed that it was thrown around too loosely...we both know that and i think what im starting to feel is love...not just admaration or lust

and also, i know she dosent have any diseases or anything becuase shes never dont practicaly anything with anyone before....and she didnt say it back because i didnt say straight up "i love you" i said "i think im starting to love you" and she kinda looked at me and smiled

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Originally Posted by koshea

....and she didnt say it back because i didnt say straight up "i love you" i said "i think im starting to love you" and she kinda looked at me and smiled

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You are just the cutest thing ;) :) :cool:

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Originally Posted by Lulu

You are just the cutest thing ;) :) :cool:

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i once told my girlfriend i loved her but as i reached to kiss her my Zip popped her and she deflated :(

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Originally Posted by robert42

i once told my girlfriend i loved her but as i reached to kiss her my Zip popped her and she deflated :(

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:D luaghs
i had to read that twice to get it
but it finally sunk in thru the fog of my buzz

as for the young lovers
its scary shit to need somebodies effection and feel you cant be you without it,AS IF THEY ARE A PART of your self
only time and a strong committment to your feelings will make it work
good luck and GO SLOW
great things await your lives if you just be patient
peace

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Originally Posted by NowhereMan

great things await your lives if you just be patient

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My new favorite quote :)

>>>and i told her.."i think im starting to love you"


is that why you just spent the last hour flirting with all the ladies in the chat room? getting in a little practice?
lol...

that was just me and ammie havin some fun

:D Love can be tough, but until you put your heart on the line you will never find it again! Go for it, if you care that much already you have more to gain than not!

Good luck :)

fuck love

fuck relationships...fuck anything and everything until ur penis shrivles up, turns green and falls off

and have a joint

later

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Originally Posted by Not Enough Herb

fuck love

fuck relationships...fuck anything and everything until ur penis shrivles up, turns green and falls off

and have a joint

later

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No offense, man, but I don't see how you can think like that. I was exposed to Casablanca at a young age, and I've been a sucker for that shit ever since.

Maybe you got burned at some point, but that just makes the subsequent relationship all the more satisfying.

or its called sarcasim.....

but does it really matter?

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NOPE!

later

"i once told my girlfriend i loved her but as i reached to kiss her my Zip popped her and she deflated"

lol

Hi Robert42

I'm 4252, and you're Robert42. Like if you were Thomas Moore and I was Thomas Bavarowitz, our friends would call us both Tom. I just used 42 as a kind of nickname. Hope you're not mad at me.

Now, as to this matter of your insulting my enormous nose, en garde, sir!

42

Yeah, it's just like how all my friends say, "Hey you Dick!"

:) Awwww thats so adorable. Look, your starting to feel these strong feelings for your gf and your scared that everything could go wrong and the relationship will end. But you are only human, its absolutlly normal to go through these feelings and one should not try to run away from them. It takes time and hard work to keep a couple together and if you love this girl that should be what your gunna try to do together. Dont fear your feelings, and remmember honesty is the key to a wonderful relationship. ;)

"great things await your lives if you just be patient"

I liked that :D