Relationships

It seems to me that male / female relationships and the socialogical contexts behind them that drive social interaction are simply insane.

For instance, every single one of us has people of the opposite sex that can't wait to get all up ons you, and yet you can't stand them, or don't want anything from them, etc. In turn, there's a different set of people who adore them, and the first group won't have anything to do with that. It seems like such a crazy cycle.

Having all this casual sex has to stop. I'm 22 and getting mad pussy at the office. I'm hitting it with a married woman who works there, who's husband also works there.... believe there are tense moments in my job :) But like I said I'd rather go with a smile on my face instead of $300 in my pocket and leaukemia on the way. The problem at this point is that the frogs tend to navigate sequentially around the globe, you understand playboy.

Anyway yeah relatinoships, they suck haha.

Drifted into stonerland while typing.... posting as-is anyway :-D

watch out man that married pussy will kill u. Any guy who thinks too much with his little head might lose his big one

Wise words.

A Perfect Circle - The Hollow:
Run, desire run. Sexual being. Run it like a blade to and through the heart. No conscience, one motive. Cater to the hollow. Screamin' feed me, fill me up again. Temporarily pacify this hungering. So grow libido, throw dominoes of indiscretions down, falling all around in cycles, in circles, constantly consuming, conquer and devour. Cuz it's time to bring the fire down, bridle all this indiscretion long enough to edify and permanently fill this hollow.

:rolleyes: Sounds to me like your playing with fire... :eek:

Not all relationships suck. Sure at times they can turn nasty and at times they can feel wonderful as if your heart is leaping into the air a thousand feet above the trees above the stars and oh its such a pleasent feeling. Only if you work hard enough for those you love and loves you back. Nothing comes easy in this life. It takes money, time, talking, understanding, etc. But if doing all of that just for the feeling of bliss and getting some ass out of it then hell yeah man! Thats the way I look at it anyway.

Your situation with your married co-worker is so sneaky...haha rock on man. It wont last forever or it might...you never know (Well I sure dont know). One day you'll find a girl you'd liek to settle down with and start a family. For now your just banging at work. Good luck with that buddy!

Relationships dont suck.. I just hate all the usually that sometimes comes with relationships: jealousy, fights, etc... I've given up not relationships for the moment.. I mean, ive met some cool girls lately, and i havent given up on sex, but i dont plan to get in to another relationship until i meat someone that i can just chill with, and that wont play stupid mind games and get jealous and controlling

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Originally Posted by GHoSToKeR

...until i meat someone...

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freudian slip there...

I was in a serious relationship once, or atleast thats what I thought of it.

I'm 17 and we had been going out for a year and a half. But a bunch of bullshit happened and she broke it off with me. :(

I never thought I'd know what it was like to get your heart broken, but I certainly do now....

but back to the point at hand, relationships don't suck... maybe it's just yours.

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Originally Posted by Mello.as.Hello

freudian slip there...

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lol maybe :rolleyes:

I'm 19 and I've never had sex. Hell, I've never had a meaningful kiss. Most girls I meet these days are already in relationships and none are interested in me. I wish I knew why. :(

whats the big deal, bro? relationships dont mean anything.. our parents, friends, hollywood, the guy working at the store, everyone.. they all want you to think that getting married, having kids, blah blah blah is what lifes all about.. its all bullshit, man.. seriously.. my mum has been married twice, divorced twice.. and shes still going on about how she needs to "find a man to settle down with" because she thinks shes old and dying without a husband or partner is like THE worst thing that can happen.. yeah, right! relationships dont mean shit man.. humans are just too arrogant to accept the fact that we're animals, and we need to fuck to survive.. so we invented relationships, and the emotions that go with them, to make it seem like something more special than just 'procreation'. dammit im so stoned, and typing while stoned is confusing.. i keep hitting the keys, but then im not sure if i actually hit them or if i actually made sense, then i look at the screen and i did, but then i look at the keys again and i forget what i was saying, but i keep typing anyway, then i look at the screen and ive just typed a whole paragraph =/

:D ERMIT....m8 when the times right the time is right.... :D

Yeah I definitely feel the vibes everybody has responded with.

I was in a long term, 5 year relationship with a girl. Those were college years, mind you. We were hardcore in love, but eventually it just waned, and I broke stuff off. I regret it now, but I trust in myself that I made the right decision.

So I'm definitely looking for love again, I feel you GhostToker, but all I've been coming up with is ho's.... hos and hos and hos. And an exceptional girl I've met online, but she's long distance and the online thing isn't my thing. So I was just kinda depressed and venting. I've got no problems getting ass, and quality ass as well, but at the end of the day, one still feels alone.

Ermitonto
Well is there anything wrong with you? Objectively, are you ugly? Do you find that it's hard to engage in conversation with chicks? Are you boring? You can't just be yourself and score chicks, if you're a normal guy. You have to be awesome in their eyes. I recommend picking up a movie that recently came out called The Tao of Steve... it'll show you everything you need to know :).

Oh yeah, and step number one, get rid of the faggy french quotes, they won't dig that :-D

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Originally Posted by BigVTDave

Ermitonto
Well is there anything wrong with you? Objectively, are you ugly? Do you find that it's hard to engage in conversation with chicks? Are you boring? You can't just be yourself and score chicks, if you're a normal guy. You have to be awesome in their eyes. I recommend picking up a movie that recently came out called The Tao of Steve... it'll show you everything you need to know :).

Oh yeah, and step number one, get rid of the faggy french quotes, they won't dig that :-D

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No, I wouldn't say I'm really ugly...but I'm no Brad Pitt. I've just never had a girlfriend so I don't know what to do to get one. I've always figured I'd just stumble across someone eventually, but it ain't happening, or at least hasn't happened yet. And fuck being anyone else than myself. I don't even want to bother with someone who can't accept me for who I am. I'm smart and nice to everyone but I'm kind of an introvert and I don't talk much unless I have to. I don't attend too many social events like parties and such, and don't really get out much because I don't have a car or a driving license or even a bike. I've been pretty much stuck on this campus for a year and a half and I still don't really have any real friends, just...acquaintances. And all those female acquaintances have boyfriends. I figure it's just another couple years till I move out of here anyways, so I can't get too attached, but still it's kind of lonely.

And what's wrong with my French quote? It's not "faggy" at all, if you know what it means ("I would like, and this is the last and most ardent of my wishes, I would like to see the last king strangled with the intestines of the last priest").

Grinning from ear to ear... awesome you've got spine. You'll do just fine.

Looks like the last ingredient you need is simply exposure. Exposure in a sense of more women quantity wise, eventually you'll meet someone who clicks, it's inevitable, barring any huge personality faults. Even on campus, get involved. I moved to a college 1200 miles away from where I went to high school. I didn't know a damn person. I met some of my best long term friends and that ex I was talking about within the first two months.

Lastly, the magic trick, the silver bullet of having women really enjoy your company.... simple humor. Being able to get laughs, both with sophistication and without, is girl-nip.

I was just being an ass with the french thing. Quote away. But if a chick doesn't understand it, they might very well have the same reaction I did, the ignorant kind, haha.