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Yea...
So me and this giro have been hanging out ALOT as of Labor Day.
When I say ALOT I mean every day except every other tuesday she has to go to milsap(Bumfuk ville about 1hr away from where we live) for her work.
Well anyways we've been GREAT friends since we met....
But till saturday thats ALL we've been.
Saturday night were chilling at her friends house and im in the middle of the couch shes on the end with her legs in my lap.
So we pop in the movie and she sends me a text(we do this in public so we can have a private convo in public) saying "go roll a blunt" her friend HATES weed... not doesnt like dislikes or doesnt care but HATES! Calls it dope and all kinds of shit....
Well anyways I got a Oz in my pocket and a pack of philies with me.(I tell her friend I just smoke the tobacco.)
So I go into the bathroom and start to roll the blunt get a text from her saying "I just missed the hottest part of the movie" and im like "well shit ill watch it later" the next text simply says "I want to have sex." Concidering this being the girl who told me that she was happy with her "love" life being dead and not being involved with anyone I simply send her a text saying "Nice." and we get into a pretty hot convo about sex(Not about us doing it but just about it.) and I roll 3 blunts we say were going to the store to get some cigars and beer... so we go get the beer and cigars and smoke the 3 blunts on the way back...
We go back into the house movie where we left it we go back to the position we were in (Me in the middle of the couch her at the end and her legs in my lap.She has jeans on at this time)
She sends me a text. "Phone about to die"
I send her a text. "Gimme your phone ill go plug it in."(I do things for her ALOT because I was taught as a young boy that it is nice to do things for ladies even if your not with them)
She sends me a text back."K but i also want a blanket"
She throws the phone at mee I go plug it in and I go get the blanket.
Her friend makes the comment "Damn girl you got him trained well and yall arent even dating where can I buy me one of them?" I just kindly told her to fuck off and gave her the finger.
But then I sit back down the legs back in my lap she covers us up and Knocked up starts playing again... Were watching the movie and I just decided to see what she would do if I started to stroke her leg so I did just starting with 1 finger in a small area slowly moving back and forth and then she didnt do anything so I started full on feeling her up... This goes on for the rest of Knocked up.(10 mins or so)
Her friend puts in The Devils rejects and we start to watch that so I take my other hand put it around her waist and start to feel her ass... Nothing from her cept she puts the cover over her head.
Then I slid my hand that was on her ass up her shirt had a nice feel around there...
Well by then The Devils Rejects was half way over shes almost asleep tho so I just simply stroke her leg with my left hand right hand idle...
Then she falls asleep for about 30 mins I finish The Devils Rejects.
Her friend puts in Fight Club.
It comes on she wakes up and I start getting more aggressive with the stroking and move to her inner thighs and I slowly moved my hand to her zipper area and started to un zip her pants but she took her hand and simply sat it on top of mine and held it gently.
So obviously that was a sign not to do it.
We end up leaving to go to my work Sunday morning around 7:00AM we take her friend...
We end up dropping her friend off at her house around 9AM then we head to her house and she changed into her sleeping shorts and put lotion on her legs and made a comment on how it smelled. We both fell asleep till Noon.
At noon her grandma came over to tell her that she was buying groceries this week and that she didnt need to worry about it.
I woke up completely she woke up long enough to say "Huh, Ok..."
Then she was back out.
So I turn on the TV and I start to stroke her thighs again(Thinking she was awake) and slowly move my hand up her shorts...
Then I noticed she was asleep and started to recede my hand outta that mess.... Well anyways as I was pully my hand out she woke up and the only way I knew was cause she moved her arm and well anyways I put my hand back in there and moved her thong out of the way and started playing with her clit she clinched the covers(Her head still covered by a pillow) then I started to finger her pretty hard and she played with her clit as well then she orgasmed and I kept going but slower and she just once again lightly held my hand till she felt like getting up.
She got up didnt say a thing about it and got ready for work.
She got ready came in there and we talked for a bit about nothing really then as I was about to get up she kissed me(I was completly surprised by this because of her remarks about her "love" life in the past)
Well anyways she went to work so I went home and we talked it about on the phone for a bit today she asked my why I didn't kiss her back and I just said "Because I didn't want to look stupid" Cause yea I am a stupid guy...
Well anyways then she asked me "why I fingered her I told her that it was just a spur of the moment thing and she didnt seem to mind so I went for it" and she told me she loved it.
Well then she had to go back to work I sent her a text saying "I want to kiss her. "
She said "I wanted to kiss you to but I don't want to get involed with anyone. Thats my only problem"
I said "I went into all this knowing you didnt want a relationship so its all good"
she just sends me a frowny face.
I was like why frowny?
she says Idk.
Then I said well should I NOT have done that?
she said No I loved it.
then we got into a convo about something completly different then she told me she was curious about my dick size. So I just said "Iv'e never taken the initiative to measure it but you can find out any time you want." Then I get a text "Would you phuck me?" I not knowing what to say I just said "If you wanted to =)"
This morning rolls around we talk about it a bit more in the morning through texts and then we hang out for a bit today then she went to work and now I am at work tried texting her she hasn't responded to the text so im guessing she just didn't feel it cause shes at work.
But anyways my question to all of you is...
WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON?!?!?
Does this girl have feelings for me or not?!?!?
I am a retarded figure of the male species...
Help me...
I need things spelled out for me I dont adapt to clues from women very well.
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You gotta cut to the chase. Ask in the most direct manner possible!
Then if he keeps beating around the bush, you gotta keep prodding and prodding, not accept her answer, until you are certain ;)
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Just come out and ask "So are we more than friend or what the fuck?"
Kinda like that?
My choice of words would be a bit different but you get the point.
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Yeah, just say it showing no fear of what might happen, in a confident, but casual manner.
What else can you do? :thumbsup:
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Man, reading that was like some sort of demented trip down memory lane. First of all, you live near Bumfuk ville? Interesting. Second, she wants to fuck you, but she is afraid of getting involved. Just talk to her, you guys seem pretty open.
Let us know how it turns out, best of luck :thumbsup:
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she's probably afraid of comitment.
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Originally Posted by crudemood
she's probably afraid of comitment.
Umm... Shes probablly the most committed girl ive ever met to things she wants anyway
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Wow, that was one of the most detailed posts I have seen in a while.
Stop spending so much time writing long posts and spend more time trying to seal the deal!!!
She might not want to get involved with anyone right now but that doesn't mean her womanly needs don't need to be met. Go for it.
BTW what did she mean by Phuck? Was she trying to get around a bad word filter?
Although Fight Club is a great movie, try something more romantic next time! If she went that far after Fight Club think about what she'll do when you watch Titanic or some other mushy film. I think Good Will Hunting is a good date movie for both sexes.
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iunno man, it seems to me like shes been hinting pretty hard about wanting to have sex, but possibly no real relationship...?
considering what went on id say you should ask some straight to the point questions cause it looks to me like you both want to know exactly what the other is thinking but no one wants to put themselves out there first.
she likes you, but mabye is considering wether or not she wants to get involved with you cause it would mean some sort of commitment?
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sounds like she wants to open the package and look inside , but not keep it.
just fuck her cause thats obviously what she wants. then i better after that if everything went good she'll want the relationship.
thats what happened with me and my girl. her boy moved away she started to get lonely we started talking, BOINK... then it was like she wanted to go out with me.
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Invite her over, smoke a blunt and start rocking that funky joint.
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Fuckin do it dude! She want's the sex now. Relationship can come later if she seems like she wants to go that way.
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KK i think you have enough posts, to make a clear decision. So i would like to take this oppurtunity to say.... FUCKING 3 blunts on ONE car ride, and THREE movies in one night. I have no idea why but this shit is killing me BHAAHAHAHAHAHA. How could you of smoke 3 blunts, and not be completely FUCKED.. .TOO RICH. but if you want an answer. Keep chiling, get more aggressive, and assertive. It seems to me she wants you, so just slowly progress.... if she stops you... OH WELL.
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All I can say is "damn, how the hell did you smoke 3 blunts on the way back?" :wtf:
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Originally Posted by geonagual
All I can say is "damn, how the hell did you smoke 3 blunts on the way back?" :wtf:
BHAAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA geonagual I like your style, I'm glad you thought the same thing i did (check my post before you).
GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE
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HAHAHAHA!!! I was thinking that the whole time I read the post...3 blunts..how the hell? Is the store 80 miles away? That is funny as hell we posted the same thing..gotta give some + for that.
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HAHAHAHA!!! I was thinking that the whole time I read the post...3 blunts..how the hell? Is the store 80 miles away? That is funny as hell we posted the same thing..gotta give some + for that.
Hahahaa 80 miles away!! i was thinking more like 80.3452 but close enough. AND ONCE AGAIN DAMMIT! i go to give you rep+ even though you dont need it, and OF COURSE it states i must share the wealth before i can grace you with more.
OH WELL I Guess i will just blaze 224524 blunts on the way to the corner store.
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Hahahaa 80 miles away!! i was thinking more like 80.3452 but close enough. AND ONCE AGAIN DAMMIT! i go to give you rep+ even though you dont need it, and OF COURSE it states i must share the wealth before i can grace you with more.
OH WELL I Guess i will just blaze 224524 blunts on the way to the corner store.
Right on..I just beer bonged 6 beers with breakfast...and smoked 8 bowls on the way to the mailbox..excess is best. LOL..
just a curious question..how many points did my rep give you?
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Right on..I just beer bonged 6 beers with breakfast...and smoked 8 bowls on the way to the mailbox..excess is best. LOL..
just a curious question..how many points did my rep give you?
Well I know i HAD 421, i only remember cause..... well OBVIOUSLY. now i have 523, so you gave me a whole whopping 102 points! MUCH THANKS AND RESPECT.
Out of curiousity.. DId you throw away the 12.4 heroin needles, that i just ran to you (wherever you are in this world)? cuase i want to reuse them for my lunch break.
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No problem bro..I should have them to you in around 1 hours 28 minutes and 40 seconds..that is just an estimate though..
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Dude sounds like your being her little boy toy, You guys hang out alot and fool around, but arent going out? Why dont you just fuck her, and see what happens instead? Sounds like she dont want any serious relationship AT ALL. Sounds like you want a serious relationship and she dosnt. Figure it out.
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No problem bro..I should have them to you in around 1 hours 28 minutes and 40 seconds..that is just an estimate though..
GEO, thanks for the needles, and the 452 times we had sex!:thumbsup:
Sorry to all of those for GEO and I's disrespect getting off topic and all..... but it was TOO tempting. BUt really HIT IT, SHE WANTS IT. If you want her and you guys fuck and she bounces, its going to hurt. You'll get over it though, so why not?
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All I can say is "damn, how the hell did you smoke 3 blunts on the way back?" :wtf:
Umm... me and this girl have something crazy about blunts we can suck one down in about 5 minutes weve done 22 in 2 days before =/...
so going over there after work with a sac wish me luck =)
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So last night didnt go as well as I'd hoped we went back to her place after she got off work then we hung out for a bit smoked 4 blunts I was a bit high she was fucking blown...
Well anyways Didn't even get a good bye hug much less any pussy...
But I have noticed she plays fucking mind games... fucking crazy ones...
I dont know how to explain it but im sure everyone has seen it...
Sexual mind games....
Fuck that...
Fuck her...
Shes so fucking crazy..
Oh well ima try for the rest of this week and saturday for some fuckin but after that im done im sure theres more fish in the sea for me to fry.
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sounds like she's playing ya for your stash......
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I smoke two joints in the mornin'
I smoke two joints at night
I smoke two joints before I roll three blunts
It makes me feel alright
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I smoke two joints in the mornin'
I smoke two joints at night
I smoke two joints before I roll three blunts
It makes me feel alright
I dont smoke joints.
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You also don't have sex with your friend.
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You also don't have sex with your friend.
VERY FUCKING TRUE....
But she doesnt smoke joints either...
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Maybe she's just looking for a friend with benefits. My best girl friend in high school was like that. She had no boyfriend, but had sex with her best guy friend on occasion. Some people can easily compartmentalize sex and romance, if that's what she wants and you can handle it without expecting a committed relationship to evolve then go for it. If you can't handle it and you do mess around together someone will end up feeling hurt after its over with. On the other hand she might be trying to figure out if you want to be her man. Either way you two need to have a serious face to face discussion.
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Originally Posted by GreenLadyOfDankDowns
Maybe she's just looking for a friend with benefits. My best girl friend in high school was like that. She had no boyfriend, but had sex with her best guy friend on occasion. Some people can easily compartmentalize sex and romance, if that's what she wants and you can handle it without expecting a committed relationship to evolve then go for it. If you can't handle it and you do mess around together someone will end up feeling hurt after its over with. On the other hand she might be trying to figure out if you want to be her man. Either way you two need to have a serious face to face discussion.
Yea, I agree with that...
We need to have a serious face to face discussion but dunno really how to bring that one up without it being akward from the start...
but im perfectly fine with a "friends with benefits" situation
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man where are all these women around where i live. Seems like once your in the "friend zone" u have no shot in hell of getting sex or getting in a relationship with said woman. It's like u drop off the list of potentials.
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man where are all these women around where i live. Seems like once your in the "friend zone" u have no shot in hell of getting sex or getting in a relationship with said woman. It's like u drop off the list of potentials.
He might as well flat-out ask, rather than engaging in her games. To hell with speculation, you gotta take the risk and ask, no matter how lame it'll sound.
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Umm... Shes probablly the most committed girl ive ever met to things she wants anyway
okay.. maybe she doesnt want to make things official? its obvious she likes the way things are going now.
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Just have some self confidence. Tell her its obvious that you two have some chemistry and that you believe sexual tension has been building between the two of you for a while now, but she sends some mixed signals so you'd like to know once and for all what she really wants.
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Yea, I agree with that...
We need to have a serious face to face discussion but dunno really how to bring that one up without it being akward from the start...
but im perfectly fine with a "friends with benefits" situation
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Originally Posted by GreenLadyOfDankDowns
Just have some self confidence. Tell her its obvious that you two have some chemistry and that you believe sexual tension has been building between the two of you for a while now, but she sends some mixed signals so you'd like to know once and for all what she really wants.
Best advice ive had...
last night was great...
Mission Accomplished people
Squiggle = Laid.
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LOL Congrats! So are you an item now, or just friends with benefits?
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LOL Congrats! So are you an item now, or just friends with benefits?
Well as far as I can see were just "Friends with benefits" which is fine with me =)
Thanks for all the help GreenLady =)
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Congrats, man!! :thumbsup:
But now, it would be very kind from you to return the favour everybody did to you giving advices, and tell us how it was... ;)
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next comes love and marriage and then a baby carriage:)