worst feeling

i am about 90% sure my man is cheating on me :( he got a call from another girl who he ditched me to go see last night and tryed to tell me it wasnt another girl on the phone. but deleted the call record, as if im that stupid. then turned the situation around on me and made me feel like i was doing something wrong. he even got me to say sorry!! then once i got home crying to my roommate he knocked some sence into me and i realized he is a liar and a cheater.
its such a horrible feeling, as far as i kno ive never been cheated on, but wow i had no clue how horrible it is. i never thought it would make me this upset. but its making me feel like i did something wrong. like im not good enough for him. it makes me feel ugly and pathetic. im done with him now. its wierd how im more upset with myself in some ways.

my heart goes out to everyone else whos been cheated on. it sucks and makes u feel worthless. right?

Gosh, I am so sad for you.:(

No one should have to go through that.

Rest assured you are not worthless. But please stand your ground. If they cheat once they will do it again. You do not have to tolerate this.

Wish I could make it go away. But know the right person is out there. Someone who treats you with respect.

I know you will make it through this.

look at this situation as a test
the powers tha be are trying to make you doubt yourself
are you that person they are making you out to be
or are you special and deserve better
dont let them twist you up
take a good look at your life and your choices

ones man trash is another mans treasure
dont give up homegirl
his loss

Babe, you have got to start finding better men to date. Every guy you have dated since you joined this site has been pretty much a big piece of shit. If you don't break this cycle of dating shitheads soon, you are never going to break it because we are creatures of habit. You are young and if you keep dating shitheads that is the only thing you will know and it will become normal for you to date shitheads. Find a good man soon and stop dating losers. It is already turning into a cycle. You are feeling badly right now because of this guy and soon you will latch onto the first guy that comes along so that you can feel good about yourself and he's going to take advantage of you because he can. Then it will just start the cycle all over again.

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

but its making me feel like i did something wrong. like im not good enough for him.

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^^^See, this is part of the cycle. It has already started. Find someone worthy of you or don't date.

I was gunna say something like that^ but I held back..

:thumbsup:you know what to do misshightimes.

cheating is red flag for me.. Time to move on.. Good luck.

Innocent until proven guilty in my opinion.

You gotta start feeling confident about yourself.

Otherwise the same mistakes will be repeated. You do not need a man to make you feel worthy. Only you can.

I feel for ya--my last relationship ended because he cheated on me, and I have been gun-shy ever since. But, it's been long enough now that I know there ARE good men out there, they just seem to be few and far between, esp. in this area.

Always remember: It's better to be alone than to be mistreated :thumbsup:

I do feel for you in so many ways Miss, I have been there and actually caught my ex in the act while she was prego with our kid....Stand your ground and apologize no more! Dont let him turn things around on you at all. In the end he is going to slip up if its true. If it is true and when your over him, You are going to realize that he wasnt good enough for you anyway, and there are way far more better men out there, Who in their eyes..."You Are The Only Woman. He yearns for." Believe Me it will get better and you will find that "ONE" for you.....Best of luck to you in your need of time...:)

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Originally Posted by ReUp

Innocent until proven guilty in my opinion.

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No, I'm pretty sure she's right.
Im very sorry dear...
It's happened to me, to you, and to almost everyone, so don't feel too too bad. But I can empathize with your situation.
The thing that usually seals the deal is that when you have something solid(I mean like, you couldn't be wrong. So for example, you heard a girls voice) - that can't be disputed...anyways, when you have something solid and he gets mad at you and freaks out...9 times out of 10 you're right.
Im so sorry, but keep your chin up. Fuck that loser! Smoke a blunt!:D

I least your dealing with it really well. Dump him, take a brake from everything, then find someone else . Theres a million fish in the sea and 55,733 are right here in this wonderful community:D Im sorry you had to find one of the rotten ones. ;)

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I can empathize completely, i was suspcious of my fiance of 5 years (found some really bad text messages on her cell phone) and then i caught her in our bed with another guy. I actually thanked her for giving me a reason to finally leave her at the time, but afterwards it hurt alot. Best thing you can do is drop his ass, take some time to yourself and id say get to know the next guy you become involved with fairly well before coming too involved. (not saying you did that this time, i just think its always good to get a good feel for someone before you dive head long into emotional attachment).

im with fakeboobs....quit dating d-bags.

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

i am about 90% sure my man is cheating on me :( he got a call from another girl who he ditched me to go see last night and tryed to tell me it wasnt another girl on the phone. but deleted the call record, as if im that stupid. then turned the situation around on me and made me feel like i was doing something wrong. he even got me to say sorry!! then once i got home crying to my roommate he knocked some sence into me and i realized he is a liar and a cheater.
its such a horrible feeling, as far as i kno ive never been cheated on, but wow i had no clue how horrible it is. i never thought it would make me this upset. but its making me feel like i did something wrong. like im not good enough for him. it makes me feel ugly and pathetic. im done with him now. its wierd how im more upset with myself in some ways.

my heart goes out to everyone else whos been cheated on. it sucks and makes u feel worthless. right?

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I've been cheated on by two different girls, and yeah, it's pretty much as bad as you're describing. You get alot of crazy thoughts running through your head when you get cheated on, and it's anything but fun.

Time heals all. End it asap, because if it drags on, it can only get worse.

hey, it not that your worthless! You should be thinking about whats wrong with him, rather than why he doesnt want to be with you.

just look at it this way... he did you a big favor because youd never wanna be with an asshole like that anyway! i think its pathetic how he tried to twist it around as if you dont trust him and shit cause that doesnt have anything to do with it. Dump him dont put up with that shit.

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Originally Posted by FakeBoobsRule

Babe, you have got to start finding better men to date. Every guy you have dated since you joined this site has been pretty much a big piece of shit. If you don't break this cycle of dating shitheads soon, you are never going to break it because we are creatures of habit. You are young and if you keep dating shitheads that is the only thing you will know and it will become normal for you to date shitheads. Find a good man soon and stop dating losers. It is already turning into a cycle. You are feeling badly right now because of this guy and soon you will latch onto the first guy that comes along so that you can feel good about yourself and he's going to take advantage of you because he can. Then it will just start the cycle all over again.



^^^See, this is part of the cycle. It has already started. Find someone worthy of you or don't date.

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That's some real good advice.

I need to take you on a long steep hike...sit you atop a nice high rock overlooking the valley and smoke a nice fat bowl of some good ass weed with you and then walk back in the darkness...I guarantee you will feel better.

Hot stoner girl = deserves better than these pathetic excuses for men.

Really can't get more simple than that folks.

ur all right n made me feel better, as always.
im done with him. im proud of myself because i will normally stick with a guy through this kind of shit. but for the first time in my life im going to actually be single and im not even going to work on finding a new guy. i need to get my head straight before i can be in a relationship agian. it will be wierd and im scarred but it will be better.
fbr your so right n thanks for your honest answer. thanks everyone.
i cant wait to get off work and smoke a j watch some tv n have some me time, instead of spending time making sure i look perfect for him, and what i can do to make him happy, bc it clearly wasnt enough.
thanks AGAIN guys :hippy:

Go on the Maury show and get a lie detector test.

^^^^ i would love to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i need one of those

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

^^^^ i would love to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i need one of those

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Hey is this guy local? Let me know and ill knock some sense into him for cheating on such a cool cute chick, what an idiot!!! Keep your head up and know your worth a lot more then that!

lol he might actually be ur thing says ur from pa, philly any chance? although i wouldnt want anyone to hurt anyone lol. cept i have been thinking of hurting his precious car tee hee

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Originally Posted by FreshNugz

No, I'm pretty sure she's right.

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And I'm pretty sure she's jumping to conclusions. Have fun at the pity party!

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

i am about 90% sure my man is cheating on me :( he got a call from another girl who he ditched me to go see last night and tryed to tell me it wasnt another girl on the phone. but deleted the call record, as if im that stupid. then turned the situation around on me and made me feel like i was doing something wrong. he even got me to say sorry!! then once i got home crying to my roommate he knocked some sence into me and i realized he is a liar and a cheater.
its such a horrible feeling, as far as i kno ive never been cheated on, but wow i had no clue how horrible it is. i never thought it would make me this upset. but its making me feel like i did something wrong. like im not good enough for him. it makes me feel ugly and pathetic. im done with him now. its wierd how im more upset with myself in some ways.

my heart goes out to everyone else whos been cheated on. it sucks and makes u feel worthless. right?

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Im sorry you had to see how painful it is to be cheated on. Thats why I cant personally do it.. I know how insulting and painful it is.

I wouldnt recommend feeling bad about it, though, but dont forget how much it hurt, or you could end up doing it to somebody else, or making the same mistake again.

As much as cheating hurts, and as much of a slap in the face it is, it is really the easiest way to end something. Like I didnt want to end the last one, but apparantly she did. And she ceased to exist to me after like a week and a half. Simply because she cheated. She wasnt worth it, it wasnt meant to be, I clearly deserve better, and how do I know all this? Because she cheated.. it answers any and all questions I need to know about the subject.

Smoke some weed and feel better babe, youre a smart, sexy woman. Spend some thought on how you can go about NOT making the same mistake you did. Maybe you need to change your taste in guys completely? Maybe not.. I may just be talking out my ass. It happens. :p

But anyways, sorry to hear that happened to you shorty, dont let it gitcha down! Roll with the flow.. trust your gut.. your female intuition.

Grazi out.

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lol he might actually be ur thing says ur from pa, philly any chance? although i wouldnt want anyone to hurt anyone lol. cept i have been thinking of hurting his precious car tee hee

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hehehe yep! Grew up in the burbs moved to the northeast when i went out on my own :)

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Originally Posted by ReUp

Innocent until proven guilty in my opinion.

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haha you give the worse realtionship advice. i'm starting to wonder how succesful any relationship you have ever been in was. if you have been in a serious on at all. not that its a bad thing if you haven't.

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haha you give the worse realtionship advice. i'm starting to wonder how succesful any relationship you have ever been in was. if you have been in a serious on at all. not that its a bad thing if you haven't.

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I do not agree with how you reacted to your girlfriend dancing with some guy therefore I have never had a successful relationship.

-Logic 101

yup, definately time to dump that prick in the gutter and get you a REAL man...

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yup, definately time to dump that prick in the gutter and get you a REAL man...

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

lol he might actually be ur thing says ur from pa, philly any chance? although i wouldnt want anyone to hurt anyone lol. cept i have been thinking of hurting his precious car tee hee

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lol, want to catch a movie sometime?! We deff have somthing in common, our significant others fucked us over in the last year! dont worry im not some wierd stalker, but if you ever wanna catch a movie or a show, let me know! I remember you asking about concerts in the local area commin up soon, what kinda music you into?? I goto concerts all the time!

- Rob

i love all sorts of music the most recent show i saw was ratdog it was sickkkk

but idk about meeting someone off the net even though u sound cool as shit that would be wierdddd never done it and dont htink i ever will lol but idk maybe i should have more of a open mind?

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i love all sorts of music the most recent show i saw was ratdog it was sickkkk

but idk about meeting someone off the net even though u sound cool as shit that would be wierdddd never done it and dont htink i ever will lol but idk maybe i should have more of a open mind?

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at least hear of all places..you can research someones posts and get a better feel about who someone is internally and not just externally. Cant really be no worse..

^^ wow thats a really great point
in the real world i would NEVER tell ANYONE about posting on here
bc woah do i share A LOT this is my venting place, its really good for my head lol nice ot get things out

if someone would wana be with me or even be frineds with me after knowing all of the stupid things i do that would be pretty cool

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

^^ wow thats a really great point
in the real world i would NEVER tell ANYONE about posting on here
bc woah do i share A LOT this is my venting place, its really good for my head lol nice ot get things out

if someone would wana be with me or even be frineds with me after knowing all of the stupid things i do that would be pretty cool

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Why wouldnt we?!??? Youre cool as shit in my book. I would hang out with anybody on this website, and you are definitely in my top ten.

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

^^ wow thats a really great point
in the real world i would NEVER tell ANYONE about posting on here
bc woah do i share A LOT this is my venting place, its really good for my head lol nice ot get things out

if someone would wana be with me or even be frineds with me after knowing all of the stupid things i do that would be pretty cool

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Heyy yeah i deff think you seem really cool. We have crossed a few threads here and there. could always start out with email right???? lol, actually I have gotten banned on here before giving out my email address, so i guess AIM works??? Heck its a first for me to, never met a female off the internet, but i have met 2 people from this site, and they were both good people (werent females though heh)... I guess you could say im kinda shy! :rastasmoke:

^^ i didnt wana put my info on blast so i gave u a rep with my aim

:D

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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary

Why wouldnt we?!??? Youre cool as shit in my book. I would hang out with anybody on this website, and you are definitely in my top ten.

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:D

Get even by cheating on him. In fact, for every time he cheated on you, cheat on him 5 times, using me, haha.:D