Imo, gossip is horrible...
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Imo, gossip is horrible...
Well, I mean, it is a sin, so yeaaaaah....
It's one of the main reasons I stay away from church. Most I've been to is nothing but a gossip gathering once a week.
People that do gossip naturally piss me off, but hey, I guess if they're talking about me I'm either doing something right, or something horribly wrong haha. ~
Fuck Gossip!
It is a vile hateful thing that destroys friendships, relationships, and lives. It seriously just grows and has a life of its own. This is why I don't get along with girls my age. Cause of this bullshit. Agh.
ya that shit pisses me off. i mean i dont really care either way cause i know people will do that shit regardless what i think i just tend to avoid people who do it to much or at all if possible. so ya i voted second option dont care
Well, I heard that someone on this forum thinks you're gossipy, but I don't remember who. I don't think that, of course, but I thought you'd like to know.
I like talking about whats going on with friends and stuff but its never like, hateful and malicious usually. Its usually just stuff like, "hey guess who got a new girlfriend? Yeah shes cool, not that bright but still fun."
I agree, Rebgirl. There's a big difference between talking about stuff going on in peoples lives( friends,family), and malicious, mean gossip. Society is based on knowing whats going on around you. It helps keep our culture going and growing.
It's what separates us from the hermits!
To me it's a bore to talk about really anything anyone's doing. Jobs, kids, activities; my eyes glaze over when someone talks about it. A common situation for me is not even knowing what my friends' jobs are even though they talk to me about it. I'd rather discuss ideas and collective truths in an outwardly-focused manner. it's the only thing worth my time
i dont really care about gossip. it depends on what is being talked about. if it is a girl one of us scored with hell yes i want to hear about it.
if it is drama at work or a bunch of bullshit keep it to yourself...gossip is okay as long as it isnt malicious. im a dude and i cant stand it when girls gossip about everything.
i talk about what is going on, parties, bbqs and stuff but i also have an internal life believe it or not;)
donny
i like to know as much as i can about anything, so i like gossip if its true:thumbsup:
Gossip is a feminine trait if I may add. Women should only be allowed to gossip. When men gossip we have to endure such trajedies as Iraq. When women do it it one ups their competition and makes them totally hot!
LOVE.LIGHT.
i dont exactly see how gossip has anything to do with iraq:wtf:Quote:
Originally Posted by 4osiris
If it wasn't for gossip an awful lot of people would have nothing to say.
Abeona
when i was in high school i can't even describe the screaming i always heard coming from the girls locker room in gym, those bitches would fight about anything
I find people who gossip have too little of a life, they spend too much time talking about others and not enough time in getting a life for themselves.
I'm very thick skinned and don't give a damn about anyone talking behind my back and I always remember something my old lady said "if they're having a go at you then they're leaving some other poor bastard alone"! My old lady was a smart woman and she was right about my abilities,, a lot of folks have found I like hassle and I deal with it very effectively. I hate bullies more than gossips though, they always get special thought ..
Girls in their teens/twenties are such catty bitches. It pisses me the fuck off, fuck gossip. All they do is talk shit, even if they say its not malicious 99% of the time its backhanded compliments. Ugh
Just be fucking real.
Gossip is the worse when it comes to religious gatherings
I dont have friends that gossip alot and I dont either...its just boring lol
This is in response to wtf does gossip have to do with the Iraq War? Does speculation(gossip to me) of Weapons Of Mass Destruction ring a bell? I'm pissed about my brothers and sisters losing their lives over fucking speculations and egotistical pissants who don't know the true meaning of freedom and democracy!!
LOVE.LIGHT.
I'm a guy and I don't care about gossip.
Anybody remember The Gossip Girls from Hee Haw?
"Now, we're not ones to go 'round spreadin' rumors,
Why, really we're just not the gossipy kind,
No, you'll never hear one of us repeating gossip,
So you'd better be sure and listen close the first time!"
Have a good one!:jointsmile:
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Originally Posted by ScaryMissMary
Speak for yourself, but I'm nearing the end of my twenties and never in the past 15 years could I have been even remotely described as a 'catty bitch'. None of my friends do the gossip thing either.
We simply don't give a shit. We have interesting lives of our own, and the best gossip is "Ooooh did you hear so-and-so found a source for pine tree nooks?" THAT'S gossip I can get down with.
The worst culprits I've found have generally been dumpy middle aged office-bots of both sexes, with no lives, who have every postcard ever sent to them pinned up over their desks to make it seem they lead far more interesting lives than the miserable cubicle-bound existence to which their lack of spark has doomed them ...
Truth!!
Gossip is just for people who wanna self lift themselves up by putting others down. Its the oldest fake of ego in the world.
I know it gets my into trouble, i have learned never listen to people about things, you are your own person who needs to figure out stuff on their own. You may need help so go forth and find it.
But listening to someone else is just like gossip. There is gossip on here because "Hello my name is stephanie and I smoke pot"
hmmm but that is all just gossip now or so you think