Stoner Swingers!

Oh, how I love two of my favorite things in the world!

My boyfriend and I are swingers and well and pretty dedicated stoners. I love weed for more reasons that I can count (one of the foremost being that it's the only thing I've ever found that help me with a lot of anxiety issues) and over this last year we're also gotten into the swinging lifestyle, which I love almost as much.

We've has some amazing bi experiences after getting stoned with some fellow swingers. I remeber being questioned extensivley by new friends of our who found out we were swingers, so I though I'd post this here for fun in case anyone was curious or anything.

Also, we'd love to meet people in our area if you're into it! :D

This isnt the right website to be searching for other swingers Im sure you are already a member of websites like that.

By the way Im not 100% sure on the proper definition of swinging does it mean basically wife swapping or just the man does it have to be both or not? Im really curious about this lol.

Well I am sure there are other swingers on this site. As for the answer to your question Cannabis, I think it is at the couples discretion on who plays with who.

My fav site on the web is;
Adult Swingers Personals Service and LifeStyle info.
My GF and I have been in the lifestyle for close to 8 years. ;)

Wow, I didnt think so many people were swingers.. :eek:

You'd be suprised at what happens behind closed doors. LOL

There are swingers in high places here, no pun intended.

If Austin Powers put the GRRR in Swinger...


I put the "uck No" in Chuck Norris.

That would be damn hard for me and my girl to become swingers. I wouldn't be able to handle the idea that she's having sex with another man sharing what should only be mine.
And I'm not in any way insecure with myself, but what if....just what if she looked like she was enjoying him more than me? That would honestly kill me inside.

Having said that, I'm curious to know how do perceive this ScaryKitty? What are the rules and boundaries? Do you actually get off to watching it or do you just let your man do it cus he lets you?

I really do wonder

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

There are swingers in high places here, no pun intended.

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lol

Hey MississippiSteve, we have been life members there for a long time now!! It's a fine site. This site has members in our area, in our age range.

Swinging is not for everyone. It will NOT fix a marriage. It's not the jelous. If you can shake off that, *he's mine, she's mine* attitude, you may have some fun.

It starts with talking and listening to each other.

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Originally Posted by PlantBoxer

Hey MississippiSteve, we have been life members there for a long time now!! It's a fine site. This site has members in our area, in our age range.

Swinging is not for everyone. It will NOT fix a marriage. It's not the jelous. If you can shake off that, *he's mine, she's mine* attitude, you may have some fun.

It starts with talking and listening to each other.

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Absolutely... FWIW, the jellousy thing is not a problem with us... no drama here. My GF has been having some medical probs that we have been dealing with for almost a year... her doc finally has it figured out and we are getting it under control.
In the mean time, even on SLS its hard to find *REAL* couples that will actually show up...most only want to chat and play e-mail tag.
I use the same nic on Yahoo as I do on SLS... give it a shot some time.
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Swinging is just a matter of trust and personal preference. I peronally really get off with watching my guy with other partners, if you did it only to benifit yourself I really don't think you'd last in the lifestyle, it would probably make your relationship fall apart.

It is hard, MississippiSteve to find actualy partners who you're compatiable with and then set up a date that works for everyone, but I'd like to believe the chase is what makes the outcome all that more enjoyable! ^,^

[In the mean time, even on SLS its hard to find *REAL* couples that will actually show up...most only want to chat and play e-mail tag.]

So true man. For us, if we start to talk to folks, we find, so many are in such a hurry, like *playtime* gets all used up or something!! We like to invite like minded folks to our house, for a noncommittal dinner, some drinks, and evaluation. If the lady isnt talking, or cant warm up, usually fear is not going to let playtime happen. We also watch how the man reacts, if he is pushy, or constantly urgeing his wife to reach out to my lady, something is wrong, something just isnt sitting well.

Most couples we meet, both are seeking fun and frolic, you just feel a nice friendly atmosphere. A lite touch to a hand, an arm, rubbing shoulders, then looking directly into a ladies eyes lets you know if she is comfortable, is ready for farther exploration...respectfully, directly, nice slow motions, carressing her largest lovemaking organ, the skin. Worship her skin man, and she will melt.

Ever show up to a MeetnGreet, and realize, the other couple...the lady, is your cousin?!! What a great laugh we got from that!! And NO, no playtime that time!!

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Originally Posted by PlantBoxer

[In the mean time, even on SLS its hard to find *REAL* couples that will actually show up...most only want to chat and play e-mail tag.]

So true man. For us, if we start to talk to folks, we find, so many are in such a hurry, like *playtime* gets all used up or something!! We like to invite like minded folks to our house, for a noncommittal dinner, some drinks, and evaluation. If the lady isnt talking, or cant warm up, usually fear is not going to let playtime happen. We also watch how the man reacts, if he is pushy, or constantly urgeing his wife to reach out to my lady, something is wrong, something just isnt sitting well.

Most couples we meet, both are seeking fun and frolic, you just feel a nice friendly atmosphere. A lite touch to a hand, an arm, rubbing shoulders, then looking directly into a ladies eyes lets you know if she is comfortable, is ready for farther exploration...respectfully, directly, nice slow motions, carressing her largest lovemaking organ, the skin. Worship her skin man, and she will melt.

Ever show up to a MeetnGreet, and realize, the other couple...the lady, is your cousin?!! What a great laugh we got from that!! And NO, no playtime that time!!

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Well put..... folks after our own hearts.
Yes our home is always open to friends we haven't met yet.

Went to a house party several years ago and ran into one of the folks I worked with at the time... that was ummmm.......interesting. We came to an agreement to go to the parties on alternate dates. That worked out well.