I'm so going to get flamed for this..

but I need to vent damnit.

Okay.. In my opinion women are beautiful in every shape and size but WHAT is with all the bashing on skinny chicks? Ive been hearing it and seeing it all over the place. Yes I know "fluffier" girls get made fun of alot by mean spirited people but that doesn't make it okay to retaliate against skinny girls out of spite. I have heard comments from bigger women saying "Ugh shes too skinny she must be anorexic." Or things like "Fuck that I want a woman with meat on her bones." God damn, fuck me for being a naturally petite woman. Im 5'2 and 108 lbs. NO I DON'T DIET I never have and never will. I eat whatever the hell I want and I still stay this way. I may not have huge boobs or a "thick" body but I still have curves damnit.

More power to you. I never understood why people did that either.

Simple.
The media puts a ton of emphasis on being thin.
As a result, backlash from people who resent that has become more socially acceptable than bashing on fat people (which still happens anyway).
I'm sure that makes it no less irritating, but IMHO that's what up with that.

My girlfriend is 96 pounds believe it or not, and she eats like a cow :jointsmile:

Not a thing wrong with skinny girls. I personally like ladies with a little junk in the trunk

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Originally Posted by ScaryMissMary

but I need to vent damnit.

Okay.. In my opinion women are beautiful in every shape and size but WHAT is with all the bashing on skinny chicks? Ive been hearing it and seeing it all over the place. Yes I know "fluffier" girls get made fun of alot by mean spirited people but that doesn't make it okay to retaliate against skinny girls out of spite. I have heard comments from bigger women saying "Ugh shes too skinny she must be anorexic." Or things like "Fuck that I want a woman with meat on her bones." God damn, fuck me for being a naturally petite woman. Im 5'2 and 108 lbs. NO I DON'T DIET I never have and never will. I eat whatever the hell I want and I still stay this way. I may not have huge boobs or a "thick" body but I still have curves damnit.

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And youre god damn beautiful. you dont need a thick body to be gorgeous. There are men that love thick women, and there are men that love skinny women. There are men that love most women, and then there are men that love allll women. So dont fret! :)

You need to notice, that you will always get made fun of, or picked at for SOMETHING. It just happens to be your size, just blow it off. I mean, it's like this, you may hear those comments every now and then, but haven't you noticed, if it's not something, it's something else? You may have the "perfect" figure, but that doesn't mean people won't find something to pick at.

to judge a girls attraction by her body would be like judging an apple by it's shade of red...

the real greatness of both is found beyond skin, whether the skin is near perfection or not...

with that said, if i can see your ribs you need to spend a month stuffing your face at an all you can eat buffet... sorry, but tha'ts just disgusting, i don't care what the media has your mind convinced on what beauty is and isn't, bones are unnatractive, period.

I think that most "skinny" women are pretty, but I dont find most attractive to me personally.

Its all in the way you are made though. I personally prefer an ass and some breasts on my womens, so that is what I find attractive, but thats not to say women without breasts and asses arent pretty or good looking... just not my style is all.

Granted I am sure this actually has nothing to do with what you are talking about, but still. Cant worry about the haters, they exist to do nothing but hate to make themselves feel better. If people would stop worrying about, and hating on others, world would be a much better place.

Hell I judge apple by the shade of red all he time. LOL.

But seriously I LOVE skinny woman!!! I cant help it, its what im attracted to! Every one else has said dont worry about what other people say so im just going to say I LOVE SKINNY WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If your rib shows, nothing wrong with that. If you weigh less than 110 pounds, NP here. I like it to be like two sticks rubbing together during sex! LETS START A FIRE UP IN HERE!!! hahaha, no but seriously I cant think of any thing sexier than a women that is petite. Of coarse ill state the obvious, if you look like you have a eating dissorder, or your on the crack hoe diest, then that is too skinny for any one. But petite is the SHIT!!! Im talking pick you up, toss you around the room, hold you in mid air type of fucking!!!! YEEEAAHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW...

I dig skinny chicks. Infact, I prefer them.

But the REAL problem is that skinny chicks don't dig skinny guys. I'm 5'8" and 120lbs. Maybe, like you, I just haven't found the right person that digs skinny people

im with these boys i prefer skinny women.

i like the way there hips look and i like hot stomachs.

i like smaller women. im 6.2 and my perfect woman would come up to my chin

what boob u cant get in ur mouth is waste neways.

peace

hell i dont kno what all thats about...i like tiny women, not like little people or nething but between 5 and 5'5 and anywhere from skinny...i think its sexy but all people are made different and thats whats important to remember...i believe that god made us all the way we are supposed to be...so flaunt it honey, u seem to be a very attractive young women so just knock that dirt off ur shoulders and flaunt that shit :D

SMM you should care about wat other ppl think if ur happy the way u are

if ppl judge u for being slim and stunning they are as shallow as the ppl who judge large ppl for being large

brush them off and carry on doin ur own thing

damn veratyr star...u must be hella skinny then, cuz i am 5'8 135 and even though im fairly muscular i still look real skinny so i feel ur pain buddy

Haha yesssssir. It wouldn't be a problem if skinny girls liked skinny boys lol. They still go for the big muscular dudes which is understandable.

hahah tell me about it dude...

yeah i hate that! i eat a lot and im still skinny. but im always hearing people saying u need to eat more blah blah, if i fucing ate more id puke
but i dont care i fucking love my skinny self and wouldnt trade my body for anything, ehhh thoguh i wouldnt mind bigger ta-tas

^^and im 5'8 and alittle insecure about it because a lot of guys im aware dont like tall girls, i persoanlly think it makes my body look good having long legs and everything, but i guess its not what guys like? and that makes me insecure soemtimes

no no no its not about that at all...tall girls are very sexy, legs are gorgeous actually their my fav part of a female...its just most girls tend to emmasculate u if their taller or the same height...i personally have no problem dating a girl the same height as me, as long as she doesnt nitpick at it alot...see what im saying i tend to date short women because it makes me feel better about my own height...because 5'8 for a woman is tall but for a man is short...hope that made some kinda sense

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

^^and im 5'8 and alittle insecure about it because a lot of guys im aware dont like tall girls, i persoanlly think it makes my body look good having long legs and everything, but i guess its not what guys like? and that makes me insecure soemtimes

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lol. Ask any guy who's over 6' what they think. I'm sure the reception would be very positive.

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Originally Posted by ScaryMissMary

Im 5'2 and 108 lbs.

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I consider that skinny but a healthy skinny or in the ideal weight range and not anorexic skinny. If you were about 10 pounds lighter that might be unhealthy but there is nothing wrong with that height and weight. You are young so enjoy it while you can and there is more to beauty than just appearance.

I sometimes lament the fact that I don't gain weight easily. I'm just under 5' 11" and this morning weighed 126 pounds. So I don't carry much fat (except that I have a sort of round baby face). Secretly, I like this fact. I'm not bony or anorexic. I'm just slender. And even if I'm not endowed with huge breasts, the truth is my legs and butt have gotten me quite far in life. They served me well in the days when I worked for male executives in the company I worked for. And when I put on skirts or a swim suit, they still get my husband's attention, too.

I like the fact that I'm not part of the obesity epidemic. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about being slim. It's much healthier than the alternative!

I'm male, but for the longest time I was 5'10" (still am), but weighed right around 100 pounds. I tried everything to gain weight, but it just wouldn't come...until I hit my mid to late thirties, then boom, the weight came. (Up to 175-ish now, and feel much healthier!) So, I always had the same problem but in reverse: girls don't like rail-thin guys much. Probably a survival trait from ancient times - at 100 pounds (wet), how much of a protector could I be?

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Originally Posted by thcbongman

lol. Ask any guy who's over 6' what they think. I'm sure the reception would be very positive.

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yeah which is why I dont think I have ever dated anyone under that height, not that I woudl care, me and tall guys just go together for some reason lol

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

^^and im 5'8 and alittle insecure about it because a lot of guys im aware dont like tall girls, i persoanlly think it makes my body look good having long legs and everything, but i guess its not what guys like? and that makes me insecure soemtimes

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In 6'2, 6'3... and tall women are gorgeous to me, I often slouch because to stand up tall would put me way over most people, I guess I lower myself a few inches to get a wider perspective? I dunno. But Ive only had a few tall girlfriends (one that was taller than me when I was younger lol), and they make me stand straighter.. I miss it.


EDIT: I almost forgot the most important part: DONT YOU DARE be insecure about your body.. Ive only seen pictures and thats enough for me to yell at you! You had better carry yourself like you know youre sexy, or you will find yourself being attracted to people that will treat you shitty. To be blunt about it, youre hot as fuck. And so are you Miss Mary. You women, better be loving yourself no matter what, or Im gonna... umm... well... there really aint shit I can do about it, but as soon as I think of something clever Ill do it!!

Skinny chick here! 5' 5"; 110 lbs. I have never weighed more than that.Actually, I'm just thin. Everybody else calls me skinny. No, my ribs do not show. Yes, I eat very well, when I'm hungry. I'm not always hungry.Yes, I am healthy. I even have a bit of a "marshmallow belly". While most people have to count calories not to gain weight, I do need to make sure I get enough. I can lose 5 lbs in one day, but it takes me two weeks or so to gain it back. My doctor wanted me to gain 5 lbs once, and I got sick, lethargic, and bloated trying. My body was rebelling.
I have a very small bone structure. My wrist is barely 6". I'm small. A lot of people forget to take bone structure in to account. It makes a difference.
I have had to defend my weight my whole life. I still do, to this day. I will always be thin. I've accepted it. Why can't every one else?
I'll tell you what though, I can fit into cute clothes!!;)

I like women who don't bitch/complain/discuss their weight. If you don't like how the media or society depcits women, then go smoke a joint. I wrestled for 6 years and believe me I've gone through more hell then almost any female on this forum when it comes to weight. Tell me you've dropped 20 lbs in 4 days and then get back to me...

You're going to have a very hard time finding women who don't discuss their weight.

And if you've dropped 20 pounds in four days, you've got worse things to worry about than what "hell" you've been through in wrestling. Like what yo-yo hell you've put your heart through, for one thing.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

You're going to have a very hard time finding women who don't discuss their weight.

And if you've dropped 20 pounds in four days, you've got worse things to worry about than what "hell" you've been through in wrestling. Like what yo-yo hell you've put your heart through, for one thing.

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dont i know it. although most weight lost in that short amount if time was water weight from copious amounts of sweat.

im a fan of skinny girls, im 6'4, 220 pounds and well you cant go wrong with a petite girl :) tall or short

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You're going to have a very hard time finding women who don't discuss their weight.

And if you've dropped 20 pounds in four days, you've got worse things to worry about than what "hell" you've been through in wrestling. Like what yo-yo hell you've put your heart through, for one thing.

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Actually, birdgirl, you have, in fact, stumbled upon the very heart of what the hell of wrestling is.

Cause Skinny Gurls break to easy....

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Originally Posted by Quantummist

Cause Skinny Gurls break to easy....

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Wow.. aren't you tactful.

nice chucks smm...i have a few pairs myself...their never gonna go outta style

I think most of what everyone has said here is true.

As far as why people say stuff like that, yea women say it because they hate on skinny girls out of jealousy or resentment, alot of guys say it cuz they sincerely like thicker women...

But I think alot of guys say that nowadays just because they think its what girls want to hear, they say it to score brownie points. Because alot if not most women hate on skinny women, and not many women consider themselves skinny, even the skinny ones, so when a guy says he doesn't like skinny women, he likes them bigger, he's trying to slip in a backdoor compliment to the girls who don't consider themselves skinny, and make them feel at ease about their bodies. Basically they're just flirting.

The vice versa is when girls say they like geeky guys, it may or may not be true but they're mostly just flirting, to put guys at ease about acting cool. Or alot of girls who watch sports but really don't care about them, again they're just saying they like whatever they think the opposite sex wants to hear.

I will sum everything up in this thread in one response. Everybody gets made fun of, PERIOD. It doesn't matter if you are skinny, fat, ugly, good looking, beautiful, handsome, muscular etc, people make fun of other people. It happens every day, fucking deal with it and stop complaining.

haha dont let people get to you...

IM a thick girl, and am told i need to lsoe weight constantly. But i like to be thick.:thumbsup:

as long as you love yourself who cares what people think brush ur shoulders off...

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Originally Posted by Paulkishi

I will sum everything up in this thread in one response. Everybody gets made fun of, PERIOD. It doesn't matter if you are skinny, fat, ugly, good looking, beautiful, handsome, muscular etc, people make fun of other people. It happens every day, fucking deal with it and stop complaining.

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YOU

i like your avitar...

but i dont think she needed ur negativity... just needed someone to tell her different.. and she got her responses..

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

YOU

i like your avitar...

but i dont think she needed ur negativity... just needed someone to tell her different.. and she got her responses..

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I didn't mean to be so negative, but it is the truth, all the people on this site as pot smokers should know this. I guess I could have been lighter, I am just not in a good mood. I apologize.

Thanks for the comment on my avy though! :thumbsup: