Brother asking weird questions

So I'm late 20's and my brother is mid 20's. We've both lived in this same area we grew up in, were our parents live, for our whole lives. He's married and I'm engaged. So I have him over last night and we get super baked.

He has a lot of debt issues and is ADHD or at least we all think so, but he won't go get evaluated. Anyway all last night he kept getting up an going into the kitchen, then would come back and ask me scary questions like:

If you were to die, how much money would you have left? Who does your money go to? How much if I die and my parent die, would he stand to get. We both have concealed weapon permits. I don't carry very often, but keep a gun in the house. He carries everywhere and brought two guns to the house just to spend the night. It was supposed to be a Brother bonding thing, just chill, talk, play video games, watch Hot Fuzz DVD, etc. And instead all we talked about was that and how fucked up he thinks he is.

I had him promise he wouldn't hurt anyone including himself and stuff. He told me how much in debt he was, and it's quite high & scary. At one point I was so fubar, that I thought there was a chance he was going to kill me. I was like ugh, do you need help? Someone to talk to? Money? What's going on.

So you think this was something I should write down and put in my safe or in with the will in a safety deposit box? In my email inbox archive? I just kinda am worried now, but aren't sure if it was just the paranoia from last night's high.

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He also said he hurts himself. I was like WTF, and pressed him on it, then he said he was just playing. I don't think that's true. He's 5'7" about 150lb and is delusioned to think he is fat.

Why don't you call his wife and ask if he's been acting odd recently? This is definitely not something to brush off.

Thats some heavy stuff there. You probably should mention it to someone, god forbid he should do something to you. I think talking to his wife about it would probably be the best route to take.

Yeah tell someone something about this. It doesnt seem like this guy is all that stable. If I were you id leave plenty of evidence around, just in case.

it sounds like you took the right course of action so far by at least asking if he needed anything so that he knew he didn't need to harm yourself or anyone else in order to get what he needs. Sometimes, that's all it takes but you never know. I think like everyone said your best bet is to go and ask his wife or maybe hint at the fact that he was being weird (when your both not stoned). BTW just out of curiosity, how much debt is he in? I have hella debt too and I want to see what some people consider "huge" debt to the point where they might cause harm to themselves / others. Just curious, you dont have to answer if you dont want to.

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Originally Posted by The Lemon

Why don't you call his wife and ask if he's been acting odd recently? This is definitely not something to brush off.

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I agree if sumthin like that happened to me I would defently talk to the person closest to him

MMM: How Strange

this some fucked up shit man
talk to his wife

Well I talked to my lady and she thinks I should just write this all down and put a copy in the safe and in a safe deposit box (don't have one yet).

He is in debit just over $150K. Sometimes he said that total included the house, and then he'd flip flop, so I'm not sure. He bought his house for $62K five years ago and keeps pulling equity out. I don't even know if he could get $150K for his house right now :( He always has to have the latest/greatest toys.

dude you better leave town lol dont do that its your brother call the cops and get him in a ward man he is gonna end up killing someone what you should do is invite him back over and get a tape recorder and turn it on before he comes in and just leave it on all night and then take it to the damn cops or atleast i would becouse that is crazy

Talk to his wife. I'm worried.- Granny

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Originally Posted by Storm Crow

Talk to his wife. I'm worried.- Granny

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You know Granny is worried when there is no :hippy: in the post lol

WOW thats alot of debt, get him therapy of some sort so he can stop buying so much shit and getting into further debt, maybe suggest another job if he has the time, and dont encourage weed sessions cause i cant see them helping his debt problem or his adhd unless he is stoned 24/7.