Can Someone Really Be this evil? :-(

So my ex calls me today to see how im doing. Then she tells me that shes fallin in love with someone already. We have been broekn up for 3 months now. Then shes telling me her personal business saying how much they have sex and how she has hickies on her boobs. KNOWING her boobs were my prize posesions when i was with her. What hurt the most is she laughed at me when i said why are you telling me this?> Are you purposly trying to kill me inside? I tolD her shes dead to me. I can't beleieve after a 3 year relationship she jumped into this. Shes been with her for 3 months now. Don't get me wrong i dont want her back i dont even want to see or hear from her again. She showed her true colors, talking about how i play games... This to me is a game.. How can people be so evil?

i just don't get it why would she want to hurt me more then i already do? .....

I cant even cry anymore because im all dryed out. Shes disgustes me now. Then shes was threatning to come over, i said i would kick her ass out. She said well i wouldnt want you to see me in the condition im in. meaning all the hickies.. Wow.. and here i thought she cared about me...

IM glad shes now out of my life starting today forsure. No more accepting phone calls from her.

she twisted the knife inside me, and pulled out slowly.. you can never take that back... shes so dead to me...:(:(

fuck mann..thats sum heartless shit

what im thinkin is shes tryin to hurt u cuz she might have sum feelings for you [?] if shes sayin shes doin this cuz ur the one who plays games, maybe thats sumthin that hurt her alot nd shes tryin to get back at you..

either that or she just never truly loved you and was playing games all along, and sumone who fucks around like that isnt worth shit in this world...your right in forgettin her

yeah man i went through the same shit.. totally rubbing in the useless details, unnecessary details. it hurts like the knife, but you gotta yank that fuckin knife out and throw it in the flames. let the wound heal, and look ahead.

wow that is kind like killing the dead

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Originally Posted by iNHALE.xHALE.

fuck mann..thats sum heartless shit

what im thinkin is shes tryin to hurt u cuz she might have sum feelings for you [?] if shes sayin shes doin this cuz ur the one who plays games, maybe thats sumthin that hurt her alot nd shes tryin to get back at you..

either that or she just never truly loved you and was playing games all along, and sumone who fucks around like that isnt worth shit in this world...your right in forgettin her

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damn i didnt :( lmao

That really sucks Blazinit. At least you didn't waste anymore than 3 years on her. Now you can move on with your life. That chick she is with is a rebound. She needed one because she couldn't get over you on her own, and is lonely. Her relationship wont last long and by the time its over you will have moved on with someone way better. Next thing you know she will be trying to wedge her way back into your life and that's when you can rub salt into her wounds. Or you can take the high road but I would be so temped to be a bitch back.

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Originally Posted by Dro_Princess

That really sucks Blazinit. At least you didn't waste anymore than 3 years on her. Now you can move on with your life. That chick she is with is a rebound. She needed one because she couldn't get over you on her own, and is lonely. Her relationship wont last long and by the time its over you will have moved on with someone way better. Next thing you know she will be trying to wedge her way back into your life and that's when you can rub salt into her wounds. Or you can take the high road but I would be so temped to be a bitch back.

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well put, couldn't have said it better

Hey, you are to great to put up with that shit. There are people out there that need to make someone else feel bad about themselves to be good. And you, you dont deserve that shit. You are too good a person to have to put up with that shit. You are way of a better persone than her, and deserve so much more. You just need to learn to let the things you dont wanna hear go in one ear, and out the other. You need to hold your head high and say, I dont need your bullshit anymore. Go out and live your life, and love it more than anyone!

She sounds like a fucking 8 year old.

"LOL hickies on mi boobs! NONE FOR U!"

Get that shit out of your life man.

I had something similar happen to me man. My girlfriend of a year and a half dumped me for a 21 year old. Just outta nowhere man. Calls me..."I have feelings for someone else..."
She still calls and texts me from time to time telling me how much she misses me and shit...and I'm all..FUCK THAT SHIT. She is 15...and I say "Welll..things aren't going well with you and him BECAUSE...he's a god damn adult...and your A CHILD"
They say guys are the assholes and heartless jerks...yeah...girls know how to fuck up a dudes heart better than a blender...
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Originally Posted by couch-potato

She sounds like a fucking 8 year old.

"LOL hickies on mi boobs! NONE FOR U!"

Get that shit out of your life man.

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TIGHT avatar bro.
"See you next time space cowboy."

She keeps calling me alll day non stop.... I havnt answered once im getting fed up.. about to go to the club and have me some fun :) :rastasmoke:

YES, that is what you need, forgot her, she is just dust in the wind! It might be hard but you are doing the best thing you can do!

Wait, did I read that right? is your ex dating another girl?

hell yeah blazn, shes obviously trynna get ur attention, ignore it nd party hard

Dude I quit trying to figure women out a long time ago. I know you are hurting at the moment and cant believe what she has put you through but believe me when I say everything happens for a reason, everything! She is on what i like to call a temporary fix. She is with a new guy in a new relationship and its exciting and something new to her. She will eventually miss that bond that you developed in the 3 year period you were together and call you up one day out of the blue just to hear your voice. She will most likely be appoligetic to you and cry and ask you to forgive her and thats when you laugh at her and say the grass isnt always greener on the other side is it, and tell her that you have found the love of your life(wether its true or not) and that they treat you so much better than you ever could have.

Or you could just take her back and forgive her for her evil ways, its up to you man. Good luck though.

their chicks mann

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Originally Posted by iNHALE.xHALE.

their chicks mann

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hahahaha i was going to write that.. but you beat me to it :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

So my ex calls me today to see how im doing. Then she tells me that shes fallin in love with someone already. We have been broekn up for 3 months now. Then shes telling me her personal business saying how much they have sex and how she has hickies on her boobs. KNOWING her boobs were my prize posesions when i was with her. What hurt the most is she laughed at me when i said why are you telling me this?> Are you purposly trying to kill me inside? I tolD her shes dead to me. I can't beleieve after a 3 year relationship she jumped into this. Shes been with her for 3 months now. Don't get me wrong i dont want her back i dont even want to see or hear from her again. She showed her true colors, talking about how i play games... This to me is a game.. How can people be so evil?

i just don't get it why would she want to hurt me more then i already do? .....

I cant even cry anymore because im all dryed out. Shes disgustes me now. Then shes was threatning to come over, i said i would kick her ass out. She said well i wouldnt want you to see me in the condition im in. meaning all the hickies.. Wow.. and here i thought she cared about me...

IM glad shes now out of my life starting today forsure. No more accepting phone calls from her.

she twisted the knife inside me, and pulled out slowly.. you can never take that back... shes so dead to me...:(:(

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Im sorry you had to witness first hand how cruel people can be :(

Let this immature shit wash over you and cleanse you with its immaturity. Oddly enough, I have found that the weapons the other side tries to harm you with, can only make you stronger. It is that much more reassurance that you are better than her. Not only that, but by calling you to rub it in your face, she is showing that she is trying to prove something. By not giving a fuck you will win. Trust me, lol.. I have had to play these games, not by choice, but by force. Just stop caring, and allow her to see that you no longer give a fuck.

You are over her because you are exponentially that much better of a person. :D You are one beautiful ass, sexy woman! Dont let a bitch getcha down!!

Go get em baby!

so this is watchu do, next time your fuckin a girl, put your phone on, and call her, right when your into it, lay the phone next to your girls ass, and go to work........case closed......lol two can play at that game

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

So my ex calls me today to see how im doing. Then she tells me that shes fallin in love with someone already. We have been broekn up for 3 months now. Then shes telling me her personal business saying how much they have sex and how she has hickies on her boobs. KNOWING her boobs were my prize posesions when i was with her. What hurt the most is she laughed at me when i said why are you telling me this?> Are you purposly trying to kill me inside? I tolD her shes dead to me. I can't beleieve after a 3 year relationship she jumped into this. Shes been with her for 3 months now. Don't get me wrong i dont want her back i dont even want to see or hear from her again. She showed her true colors, talking about how i play games... This to me is a game.. How can people be so evil?

i just don't get it why would she want to hurt me more then i already do? .....

I cant even cry anymore because im all dryed out. Shes disgustes me now. Then shes was threatning to come over, i said i would kick her ass out. She said well i wouldnt want you to see me in the condition im in. meaning all the hickies.. Wow.. and here i thought she cared about me...

IM glad shes now out of my life starting today forsure. No more accepting phone calls from her.

she twisted the knife inside me, and pulled out slowly.. you can never take that back... shes so dead to me...:(:(

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What a BITCH!! :mad: I agree she's the one playing games.I wouldn't talk to her anymore either.That sucks,Babe!! I'm sorry.You could always change your number or if you don't want to and she keeps calling when you don't answer.... press harrassment charges against her.I hope you told her to stay the hell away from you.I think you're a very sweet person and that's not cool for someone to do that to you.You deserve better and there is someone out there you might not have met them yet,but there is.Made just for you.Don't let her get you down and lose hope.That just lets her win her little game.You are a beautiful person with alot of heart to offer someone.Keep your head up girlie!!We love you!!!;):thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by D Rock

Dude I quit trying to figure women out a long time ago. I know you are hurting at the moment and cant believe what she has put you through but believe me when I say everything happens for a reason, everything! She is on what i like to call a temporary fix. She is with a new guy in a new relationship and its exciting and something new to her. She will eventually miss that bond that you developed in the 3 year period you were together and call you up one day out of the blue just to hear your voice. She will most likely be appoligetic to you and cry and ask you to forgive her and thats when you laugh at her and say the grass isnt always greener on the other side is it, and tell her that you have found the love of your life(wether its true or not) and that they treat you so much better than you ever could have.

Or you could just take her back and forgive her for her evil ways, its up to you man. Good luck though.

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I feel the need to point out Blaze is female..... hehehe....:D

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Originally Posted by DarkHairedSativa

I feel the need to point out Blaze is female..... hehehe....:D

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oopps!! Well then everything i said still applies. Even the part on not being able to figure women out.;)

Oh so this is a lesbian relationship gone wrong. Yes us girls can be bitches. But you already know since you are a girl not all girls are bitches trying to break hearts.

Yeah well im over it.. im done with it..
She does keep calling and i will threaten with her with harrasment charges if she keeps it up.

I have met a girl, latina, so nice and beautiful...

But as the ex thing goes. Being a girl and dating a girl i still don't understand what goes through their heads. I just hope i dont meet another heart breaker.. When its over its over dont come calling me back saying shit like that.. ugh


thnx Guys/ Gurls

coldblooded

dam man what a buzz kill=\

ok little brother...i only needed to read half of the thread. captain chronic to tha rescue!!
first off u fucked up...BIG. u gave her the upper hand without knowing it. A. she was the first one to fuck someone else. B. you never admit defeat, or let her even think that she brought u down a bit on anything...even if it hurts. do a mf 180 on that bitch. act like shes a stranger. had u seemed kinda distracted & been like "....m....uh huh" and thrown in a loud yawn, YOU my bro would have possibly won. but u couldnt have sound overly bored, or she would have sensed an emotional attachement. a good woman is cunning and smart. dude, i SERIOUSLY wish i had a video camera to show the perfect balance of not caring/one uping with no one realizing that u r. the minute u shed tears for another person in that sense, u have automatically lost.

dont forget it is very possible that she wanted to see if she could be friends w/you, so she played up her situation a bit, made sure u knew they wuz bumpin uglies, =) made it a point. all to see how u would react. then she saw that u were 2 emotional to have any kind of relationship, friends or otherwise. u guys can talk all the shit u want its cool, when it comes down to it donny is actually a gentleman w/manners. but some girls take more of an interest in a guy if u ignore them, or are slightly abrasive. it is a VERY fine balance my man, it takes practice.

it sounds like shit might have been getting too heavy and she just wanted 2 have fun..u listenin? ok then....

RULE# 1 GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN
RULE# 2 GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN, PERIOD. what is 'fun' for one girl might not be fun for the next. but girls just wanna have fun and if u can make them have fun, u can do ANYTHING u want. like i said everybodys fun is different, u have to be perceptive to that person and have their charactor locked in.

RULE# 3 MORE IS LESS. this is hard to explain. it applies to conversation and company. its more than playing hard to get. its not exactly holding back either. u just always want to keep it new bro, keep it fresh and keep them wanting more. the LAST thing u want in a mild arguement is for female a to tell dude b, 'whatever, i know u like the back of my hand' ok man sometimes relationships can be too much, in more ways than one. and alot of times you wont even realize it. there comes a point for the girl where u have worn her out in a sense. and let me tell u from experience my bud, there is nothing worse than drying up the magic. its the worst feeling. the more u know about anything and everything thats going on and the less she knows, but THINKS she knows more, the better off the both of u are.

u can have the ball in your court. instead of pulling and pulling on the rope actively trying hard to get it, just let go. yeah fuckin let go then shell fall on her ass, do a double take, and all of a sudden YOU have the power. howd u get the power? by not trying to get it. by setting the pace by letting her think she is setting it. u ever seen those stickers that have the palm trees and say 'no bad days.' yeah dude its like that. never let them see u down, and u will always wil because they will see in u strength and confidence. they will see someone who is not too needy and that will bring them closer. then one day tell them u feel like shit fuckin tell them u had a bad day. this will do 2 things. it will build 'trust' and it will also catch her off guard.

RULE# 4 DONT BE PREDICTABLE now im not saying be erratic. but when u "reveal" something they will be surprised in a good way. they thought they had your charactor down, sometimes with a negative contination. but then u surprise em! i mean if your the type that is very close to your girl, and u talk ALOT (like everyday is just the begining) then dont call her for a couple of days. or answer the phone or call her and be talking to other people or doing something and be like, "right on...right on..hey i gotta jet! its good to hear from u babe." this will do 2 things. 1 it will bring u guys a little closer the next time u see each other. 2 it will develop the friendship aspect a little more. ive been in very emotionally co-dependent relationships. it might suck for her in her mind but then shell remember heather, her homegirl who she hasnt spoke to in a while. then shell have fun on her own. thats what keeps it going bro! when all the fun becomes u guys and its everything stuff gets fucked up. u know what im sayin? variety, control, timing all very important aspects.

RULE# 5 LAUGHTER IS GOLDEN!!! waiit i think thats silence lol. but on a serious note, u gotta make girls laugh. and its not neccesarily a good sense of humor that will make them laugh. its that with timing and locking in on their character, on what makes them smile and laugh. girls love to laugh and u know what i do to. they love a man whos funny. i have a pretty good sense of humor not 2 mention im a goofy fucker.

when i was in early middle school i would always wonder why some of the guys would get outrageously fine girls without trying much. i thought to myself, "damm donny yer good looking, (NOT conceited) not in bad shape, good personality, funny, sincere. whys joe blow going w/ Pamela fuckin Glover?? theres more to it. and less to it. u know? im not saying dont be yourself. its a zen state of mind. even though im 22 in a college town w/hotties, im not necessarily playing an exclusive field. or any field @ the moment, just some strange on the side. (and i do mean STRANGE bro, i work McDickards) so i hope this helps u. take it in slow, make it work for YOU, you and no one else.

:thumbsup:Donny D. Daniger:cool:

^ blazinit420 is a girl, not a bro. She just happens to like girls . ;)

HO-LY dingos bro....r u shitting me man? lol bogus

:stoned:Donny

The confusion in this thread, especially that last post made me crack up.

What a bitch! She's trying to get your attention, though.. meaning she misses you. She's just trying to get you back in the most fucked up, irrational way ever. There's a good chance there were no hickies to begin with, it's all a game of creating jealousy.

If it doesn't play with your emotions too much, I say you hook up with her one last time. Fuck her in the ass. Without lube. Then just never pick up her calls again, it will drive her even more crazy and at first she'll call you more frequently than before. The kind thing to do at that point is just to cut off communication completely, but if you wanna be a dick, you can just keep leading her on and only call her back/fuck her whenever you're drunk and horny.