A sad day for a stoner..

Today is a sad day in my house. My mom has finally decided that me smoking is not ok after looking at my phone and seeing text messages and voice mails of people trying to get drugs off of me. Which I have never sold a dime in my life. After that she did a bit of yelling calling me a failure and a drug addict and I explained to her weed is just a plant that if you happen to light on fire it gets you high. She isn't buying it.

My dad thinks I should not be punished for he sees weed as not a drug. I have had my phone, computer, car, and girlfriend privlages taken away from me. She threatened to make me quit my job and take me out of school and not trust me every again.

I might not even get my car back for fear I am buying drugs, she can now successful blame all my failures and distrust in me to weed which is clearly not the case. She is on my case about cleaning up my life now, and knows about me having sex with my girlfriend and I told her I didn't but she refuse to believe me.

I have finally stopped the lies and told her I have only smoked twice, which is a lie but she believes it. Now, I am not allowed to hang out with my usual friends our have any of the privages I once had. I have tried discussing it with her and trying to firgue out a system where if I preform and does as she says I can then earn priviages back and get everything back. I am unsure of my future or what is going to happen but I am in need of advice and some help.

ok im sorry thats wack, ur 18 right?...my dads not cool with it but its like if he dont see it he dont worry bout it...and at most he takes it and bitch aint no person have the right to tell a grown ass person what they can do and who and when they can fuck...im sorry thats my 2 cents...but my prayers are with u

thanks man. means a lot.

That really sucks bro. I'm sorry for ya and hope your mom chills out and/or listens to your dad some. I might lay off smoke for a while, even if she does chill somewhat.

yeah just stop smoking
tell her that you will oblige to drug testing to help her regain trust with you
(she wil probally stop after a couple of months of you being clean)

would you rather be high and not going out or having a girl friend
or still hangout with your friends and Girl friend. your car. and job without being high

You should ask your dad to talk to your mom and get her to chill out. I mean, seriously. Girlfriend...priviledges? Thinking of it like that fucking sucks. Tell your Dad about getting THAT off the hook atleast, I'm sure he'll understand ;)


Hope your situation get's better. All of that sounds like bullshit to me, overreaction...

seriously
i was reading this
how do u have girlfreind privleges?
thats beat
but im sorry man i hope ur mom chills out soon

By that I mean going to hang out with her and shit. My dad is going to talk to her and shit but damn she is pissed off.

I was allowed to keep my job but shit man, it just sucks. I still have a 60 of dro hidden in my room as well and not really feeling smoking it. I guess I need some time off weed to get things straight.

Give your weed to a friend in need
Its good karma :)

o0o

ok
i understnad now i thought u were talkin bout like bein able to go out wit her

but like i said
i hope ur moms chills out and stuff

but if i were u id prolly off that 60 sac so u aint got it if she goes through ur stuff

hey man thats gotta suck when i wasa growin up my mom just said dont get cought up in all that other drug shit just weed and we have beed smoking since

Yea man, ditch all the pot, and paraphernalia. Just let you friends hold on to it all for you if you can trust them.

My Dad tried to pull the whole your a drug addict thing once school got out and I had a week off from work. I stayed blazed, and every time I came home he would jump on my case, about my eyes lookin funny. I would just ask him why his were glazed over.


I started buying visine, and oddly enough he shut up.

I am sooooo fucking happy I am not a teenager anymore!

I got the drops, its jsut she found bad text messages of people asking me for drugs and I only gave her lighters, blunts, and papers.

Told her i had nothing else. I am not giving up my pipe and my weed. fuck that.

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Originally Posted by Justinrg

I got the drops, its jsut she found bad text messages of people asking me for drugs and I only gave her lighters, blunts, and papers.

Told her i had nothing else. I am not giving up my pipe and my weed. fuck that.

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Lol we think alike, this type of thing happend to me and I didn't stop, so I went off to rehab. Here I am 7 months after getting out, smoking up without a worry.

fly to iceland with your gf, build a underground cavern with a growroom inside of it and smoke for your whole life with no contact with society... you may turn insane but it is worth it... as living with modern society makes you even crazier...

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Originally Posted by roth89

fly to iceland with your gf, build a underground cavern with a growroom inside of it and smoke for your whole life with no contact with society... you may turn insane but it is worth it... as living with modern society makes you even crazier...

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i agree, even if it was a joke, this world can drive a person insane with all its lies, misunderstandings, racsium and judgemental people. its the little mellow things like getting high or playing a good tune that help us stay sane.
love and stuffxx

dude that blows, whats the current situation? your mum let up? i hope so cos weed is great as long as it doesn;t go over board

Your mum reads your text messages? Weak man.

Don't like it??? move out.