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Do you find yourself constantly in fear of losing your partner to another when he or she is just having conversation with someone? When do you define being jealous? having the thoughts or actually acting upon them? Where do you draw the line of cheating? Kissing, or having sex?
Tell me relationshippers!
In the early stages of our relationship i would have been the jealous type,,but as time went on i reliesed that it was a wasted emotion,,pointless,really,,because if with your with someone and they are not going to be true to you,or you to them there is no point being with that person..
my parents were married 48years,befor my dad died,,befor he died i had loads of time to talk to him,and i asked him about his relationship with my mother,and how the stayed faithfull to one another throughout there life,,he told communication was the key,,even if you dont like what your saying/hearing,,it is important to listen,and keep talking to each other,,
i,m 38 almost 39,and i am with the same woman 19years now,i love and trust her deeply..:) :hippy:
I can be, but then I think exactly like da dubs here.
If that person wants to be with you, why ruin it with something you assume from your own insecurity?
I guess I sort of am, not jealous, no guy makes me jealous, just cause I dont care, but if Im with my girlfriend, I dont want her running around talking to all kinds of other guys when Im with her. I do like when guys will stare at the girls Im with, that always makes me feel good!
As for cheating if I know its like a friend of hers for a long time and she kisses him on the cheek, thats okay. But more than that I consider cheating, I could maybe handle a lil making out, but more than that is too much, I have never cheated and never will, If I dont want to be with a girl, then Im going to be straight up and honest, not let her find out later and get hurt.
no... of course i feel the emotion, but it means nothing to me, wasted energy, completely...
"if you catch my girl's legs open, better smash that"
women love to make a guy jealous, and vice versa... i rise completely above, that's petty shit, and besides, like it has been said... what is gonna happen is gonna happen... i don't force my hand, cuz you can't make a ho a housewife ;)
stay cool man, that's pimpin
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Originally Posted by HighTillIDie
HELL YA! Don't let them see you sweat. LOL
That is how we dooz it.
Nope. Fuck jealousy. The only time I ever accused a girlfriend of cheating was when she was actually cheating.
Yep...Jealousy is not a feeling that I succumb to...there is so much power in not being jealous.Quote:
Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
Absofuckinlutely!Quote:
Originally Posted by geonagual
lol it truely is power... i can't tell you how much freeing myself from jealousy has helpped me...
i learned my lesson when i was dating one skank... i was real young at the time, just outta high school. and this girl always loved goin to bars, or clubs and dancing... i would dance for a long time, but i would want to sit down after a bit or get a drink... well she would of course follow, but i knew she wanted to dance... so i sent her ass back out there, and she loved it... she knew who was the man, a certain song would play, and she would push the suckers away to come get me... now, should she of never came back to get me... so what? i don't care if i sleep, or am with anyone.(another key point to the pimp game) i would of learned she was a skank... which by the way, when you aren't jealous, or all up in someone's buisness, it allows you a better view of them, plus it shows your confidence, or non-chalant additude...
I've lost a relationship with someone because I apparently wasn't jealous enough.