Friend's ex-girlfriend...sticky situation

Well, I've suspected this for awhile, but I went to a party on Saturday night and I can't deny it to myself anymore...my friend's ex-girlfriend wants me badly.

She touched me at every available opportunity, commented on how thick and soft my hair is, commented on how "sexy" the salmon-coloured '70s shirt I was wearing was, laughed at anything even mildly amusing that I said, stared at me a lot, and at the end of the night insisted that I come to another party next Saturday (and made me give her my number to confirm...)

Anyway, her ex-boyfriend is a good friend of mine, and I kinda like her but I don't know what I should do....they ended on horrible terms and they now hate each other, so it's not like we could all hang out....and I know I should just talk to my friend but he's the kind of guy who would say go for it no matter how he actually felt, so I don't know.

my advice is to just stay away from that girl. i wouldnt want my friends dating any girls i've dated, shit i dont even want my buds hooking up with booty calls.

have sex with her and then tell her you feel bad cuz your friend
apologize and get out of there
dont forget to use a rubber

Come on, guys, I'm serious....this is on my mind.

well he would always not exactly hate you but something close to that deep down inside and would probably hurt him but thats just what i think so its your decision if you can get other pussy i would recommend it if shes a last resort then once again your decision

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Originally Posted by clever421

well he would always not exactly hate you but something close to that deep down inside and would probably hurt him but thats just what i think so its your decision if you can get other pussy i would recommend it if shes a last resort then once again your decision

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Hmmm...well, I CAN, but....there's just something sexy about her....

Are you serious? Do you think a semi-hatred of me would fester in my friend's heart?

leave her alone.. if they hate each other for all you know she's just using you, to hurt him more...

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Originally Posted by clever421

well he would always not exactly hate you but something close to that deep down inside and would probably hurt him but thats just what i think so its your decision if you can get other pussy i would recommend it if shes a last resort then once again your decision

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Hmmm...well, I CAN, but....there's just something sexy about her....

Are you serious? Do you think a semi-hatred of me would fester in my friend's heart?

Fuck, I posted the same thing twice by accident. Sorry; it wasn't loading.

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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho

leave her alone.. if they hate each other for all you know she's just using you, to hurt him more...

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that is true. do you know why they broke up? because however she was with him, she'd be like with you. and how long ago did they break up?

two options. ask your buddy how cool he would be with it, or stay clear. since you said he's a good friend, keep it like that. i'd go with option two.

3 words man. bro's before ho's. its a saying dont get pissed off. your buddies will have your back for sure man but this "girl" can have other motives such as dating you to piss off your buddy and somehow get sick cruel joy out of seeing the two of you get pissed at each other. conspiracy? i think not

Would I go out with any of my friends ex girlfriends?

Probably not.

Stay away from her. Like higher4hockey said, I would not want one of my friends dating my ex's. And like clever421 said, this is something that could, and I bet would, probably really, really hurt him. And as slipknotpsycho said, she could just be using you. I mean, there can be exceptions, but in this case they hate each other, and in that case, you need to stay on your friends side. You don't need to get involved, but you need to choose who it is you're gonna continue to have in your life and your friend is much better than some pussy.

Also, did you first meet her because she was dating your friend, or was she like someone you met but the only reason you ever saw her again was because she dated your friend? If so, then you shouldn't even see her again after they broke up. Keep away.

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Originally Posted by AR15

Stay away from her. Like higher4hockey said, I would not want one of my friends dating my ex's. And like clever421 said, this is something that could, and I bet would, probably really, really hurt him. And as slipknotpsycho said, she could just be using you. I mean, there can be exceptions, but in this case they hate each other, and in that case, you need to stay on your friends side. You don't need to get involved, but you need to choose who it is you're gonna continue to have in your life and your friend is much better than some pussy.

Also, did you first meet her because she was dating your friend, or was she like someone you met but the only reason you ever saw her again was because she dated your friend? If so, then you shouldn't even see her again after they broke up. Keep away.

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Hah I have to admit, man, how I met her was through him...he introduced us when they were going out.....

But, update: he's not my friend anymore. And no, it's nothing to do with this; nothing's happened yet.

He's an ass, and I'm going to nail his ex-girlfriend.

I think you just need to ask your friend if it's cool if you go out with her, and make it clear you won't (and really, don't) do it if he's not. He can't really get mad at you for being honest and considering his feelings.

Man sounds like you arent really friends with your friend. I wouldnt have nothing sexualy to do with my friends exs anyways. Ok imagine how weird this would be, One day your chilln with your friend and somehow "she" gets mentioned. Wether it be she calls you or you say some plans you got with her or anything really, she gets mentioned imagine how weird the situation is gonna be when your with your friend.

Most guys I know are insecure, and have a problem with their friends dating their ex's. Personally I think its dumb.. if shes your ex and you dont give a fuck about her.. you are going to get mad at who she fucks? That just shows her you still care about her, and then she has you by the balls.

I personally want all my friends to fuck my ex, to confirm what she really is. If shes not my girlfriend I dont give a fuck who she has sex with. I seem to be the minority however. You say you arent friends with him anymore, make sure you mean that because Im willing to bet he would hate you for fucking her.

If you know you wont be friends with him anymore then I guess go for it. Good luck man

Just go for it mate. One of my best mates is going out with my ex and theres is no tension between us. Once the relationship is over then it's fair game. I wouldnt only make an exception if my friend was very upset about losing the girl.

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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary

Most guys I know are insecure, and have a problem with their friends dating their ex's. Personally I think its dumb.. if shes your ex and you dont give a fuck about her.. you are going to get mad at who she fucks? That just shows her you still care about her, and then she has you by the balls.

I personally want all my friends to fuck my ex, to confirm what she really is. If shes not my girlfriend I dont give a fuck who she has sex with. I seem to be the minority however. You say you arent friends with him anymore, make sure you mean that because Im willing to bet he would hate you for fucking her.

If you know you wont be friends with him anymore then I guess go for it. Good luck man

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Thanks, man....if there's one guy on these boards to ask about anything sexual, it's GrazilLovesMary.

You should write a book on eating out, by the way.

How long have they been broke up? Does your friend have another girlfriend by now?

If he does, I say: Tap that ass!!

But to fuck her while he's still hurting is cruel. It's like kicking a man in the teeth when he's already down.

Hurting? Fuck, guys, it's high school!

People enter into relationships for social status, lust, or vomit-inducing puppy love.

I avoid them as a result.

What is everyone's problem with this? It's just pussy. Obviously if they're not going out anymore that means they don't like each other anymore. I don't think a girl should be off limits forever just because your bud had a go at her first. Do what u gotta do is what i'd say. I say go for it.


P.S I'm kinda in a similar situation as far as liking a friends ex but no moves have been made yet.

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Originally Posted by TheDefiler

What is everyone's problem with this? It's just pussy. Obviously if they're not going out anymore that means they don't like each other anymore. I don't think a girl should be off limits forever just because your bud had a go at her first. Do what u gotta do is what i'd say. I say go for it.


P.S I'm kinda in a similar situation as far as liking a friends ex but no moves have been made yet.

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Right on, man. Rep for you.

Thanks for that man!

If she wants itm, let her have it!!! ..... I really dont know why people blow the whole Freinds dating EX isssue out of proportion. Hell you tried and it didnt work so shouldnt i just because we are freinds, if i was to do that i would probly be single for a very very long time.

give it her hard and fast:)
if not send her here me and my girl will do the three funky dance...

I had a situation where my friend went behind my back with my g/f I was dating for 3 years... she was piss drunk he wasn't... I also had sex with her that night which makes it even worse ...... That kid was my best friend since I can remember and it's never been the same between us since .... I forgave him but it will never be the same friendship ever again and I barely see him anymore

My advice ... don't do it unless your positive your friend will not care ... this girl is prob just trying to get a revenge fuck on your friend

BROS BEFORE HOES, THERE'S PLENTY OF GIRLS, THERE'S NO NEED FOR SLOPPY SECONDS, GET A FRESH BATCH.......lol

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Originally Posted by cannabis=freedom

Thanks, man....if there's one guy on these boards to ask about anything sexual, it's GrazilLovesMary.

You should write a book on eating out, by the way.

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Haha thanks man, and.. wait.. WHEN DID YOU GET BANNED!?? I guess you cant answer that can you...