I seriously need your help...

Well i was in a 3 year relationship abusive in all aspects.. nothing but toxic for both of us. We have decided to take a break for a couple years and if were ment to be together we will get back together.. thats how i look at it.. but i dont think thats going to happen shes moving to texas and here i am in california.. well heres the deal we have been split for a couple weeks now.. before this we bought our yearly vacation so i go on vacation tomorrow morning with my ex.. the one im still in love with and hold dearly to my heart.. but we have such a bad past with cheating and lies.. it just can't work we need to clear our heads... I always walk right into her game.. AND were sharing the same room in mexico on a beach side. how romantic is that??? SO heres where i need your help, i had to explain sorry....

Do i just enjoy myself with her while im their then when we leave we go back to normal? Do i ignore her? just be myself? im scared of falling for her again then our relationship going bad i cant go through the pain anymore.. i am finally at a point past all the tears to accept everything.. its been hard though..

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I wouldn't do it, but that's just me. Drama galore, fuck that, and the potential since you say abusive in all aspects... the potential is good that you are going to get into it again... think how embarrassed you'd be if the hotel staff showed up to investigate a noise complaint and found you having a rumble? I'd call the hotel and find out how you can add another room to your package, or when you get there, find some schwag place to stay...

Or here's the BEST idea: Find a sexy young thing to have a fling with, and stay at HER place!!!! Ohhhhhhh I am feeling wicked today....:D Spank me...

i once had a relationship close to that we stopped talking for good about 4 days ago, but it is good to just not be together because all it does is cause pain and jealousy and you want to know stuff that the other person doesn't want you to know at least in my situation, it may be hard at first but i promise after 6 months you wont ever even think about her as long as you don't talk to her if you do then its a lot harder but there is no easy way

I WAS actually planing that already !!!!!!

i already looked up all the clubs in town and have a print out of the best ones. i am ready to mingle.. and i am ready to party..

I wont fight with her in front of her sister .. some other people are going also.. I just get overly emotional sometimes when drinking... i guess i am just going to have to be clubbin the whole time !!!.. oh yeah all inclusive resort !!

do wat stinkattic says! lmfao:thumbsup:

I vote for stinkys idea

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Originally Posted by napolitana869

I vote for stinkys idea

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Me too, Go have fun let loose and party. Find a new girl, best way to get your mind off of the old one. Have a good vacatio.

I would also try to spend as little time as possible with her. If you think you'll be tempted than you will be. If you cant get two rooms try and switch to one with two beds.

all that tension and anger leads to hot sex
get in a bad mood and fuck her hard as payback
its a win win situation
after you get yours
make her jealous by giving the cold shoulder
and by being nicer to others than you do her
make her play your game

all that tension and anger leads to hot sex
get in a bad mood and fuck her hard as payback
its a win win situation
after you get yours
make her jealous by giving the cold shoulder
and by being nicer to others than you do her
make her play your game


TEEEhhheeeeheeee

I am so with friendfowl!!!!!!It's a great idea:chainsaw:

UPDATE

So we eneded up fucking lol.. we where drunk as fuck.. never happen again. I have pictures of girls rubbing all over me... oh man. grabbing my nipples and me sucking on this chicks neck.. I had fun !!!!!!!!! i will post the pics when i get them on Friday. Awesome trip the most fun iv had in along time.. i will post a bar picture just for right now lol... my ex and i had a good time.. we just kinda didn't pay attention to each other i was out getting drunk with all the Canadians and dancing on the bar at the clubs.. no one would dance with me WTF??? girls that don't dance? they just all wanted lap dances... oh and one oof the girls at club hilo i asked her to come home with me.. absolutely amazingly beautiful my dream girl... never find another like her... hehe at least i have pictures with her.. she gaze me a kiss and said no lmao.. SHOT DOWN!!!


im in the middle obviously.. oh yea this was right before bed lol.. i think i was jsut wearing that t-shirt and everyone saying take it off... oh and that guy next to me tried to rape me the first night when he was drunk.. funnny shit i ran for my life.. then we locked him in his room..

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

oh and that guy next to me tried to rape me the first night when he was drunk.. funnny shit.

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Excuse me?

This seems to be a new use of the word 'funny' I've never heard before... if he really tried to rape you, I doubt you would be laughing about it.