Seriously; GIRLS!

This is going to sound terribly melodramatic but anyway!

Basically this seems like a place where people can actually help and give advice!

I just want to know if every single woman/girl/teenage girl out there thinks the only way to get a guys attention is through some sort of sexual encounter?

It's a fucking joke, it's like you can't go out anymore and meet someone you think MAYBE you could have some sort of fun with. It's like you can't ask for the person you want to know to be your friend, they seem to think it HAS GOT TO be sexual to tie some sort of bind to you. Now I know from what I've said I SEEM GAY. Trust me I'm about as straight as a fucking ruler. I just don't see why two people who like each other can't sit the fuck down and watch some stupid sitcom and laugh at a joke without some ridiculous tension hanging over the two. Is that fucking natural or is it paranoia?

Write an emo song.

lol, jk. I don't know, I'm not a girl so I can't answer. But, maybe girls like sex, and that's why they want it in their relationships?

The media plays a huuuuuuuge roll in what girls think. You might not think it because of free will and all that bs, but honestly there have been tons of studies of what the media does to people's subconscious. Girls see other girls doing sexual stuff to get guys attention ie. girls gone wild, real world, bratz dolls etc.

My other explanation would be that its different in every state/city/town. If its popular for girls to do it in some town it might be super frowned upon in another town... has to do with how you are brought up, what your belief system is etc. I will agree with you that it is pretty f***ed up. And yes I am a guy who happens to be smoking some blueberry dro to help you answer your question :)

Is this a real life situation your in? If it is how about you just TALK TO HER about it and see what she says. How would we know what's going on between you guys?

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Originally Posted by horror business

Write an emo song.

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Lol reading over it, your probably right I should :p

But seriously I didn't mean it to rub off in such a moany way!

You poor thing! Having a bunch of girls wanting to get with you must be rough. Be glad that the problem is that u cant get a girl. Maybe you really are just a 'sexy smoker' and the ladies can't resist you.

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Originally Posted by sexy smoke

This is going to sound terribly melodramatic but anyway!

Basically this seems like a place where people can actually help and give advice!

I just want to know if every single woman/girl/teenage girl out there thinks the only way to get a guys attention is through some sort of sexual encounter?

It's a fucking joke, it's like you can't go out anymore and meet someone you think MAYBE you could have some sort of fun with. It's like you can't ask for the person you want to know to be your friend, they seem to think it HAS GOT TO be sexual to tie some sort of bind to you. Now I know from what I've said I SEEM GAY. Trust me I'm about as straight as a fucking ruler. I just don't see why two people who like each other can't sit the fuck down and watch some stupid sitcom and laugh at a joke without some ridiculous tension hanging over the two. Is that fucking natural or is it paranoia?

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Uhm yeah, you're my hero <3 I HATE IT when a guy interested in me starts to hint in THAT direction. I like a guy who shows he's interested by taking me on an awesome date, not by grabbing my boob or something...

I like watching stupid sitcoms and laughing at corny jokes with my boyfriend.
If someone cant handle an intellectual conversation with me than I wont be interested. There are things more important than sex

Its gotta be like a, as cheesy as it might sound, but a SOUL connection. By soul I mean everything just bonds, theres that intense chemistry.. and it can grow endlessly.

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

You poor thing! Having a bunch of girls wanting to get with you must be rough. Be glad that the problem is that u cant get a girl. Maybe you really are just a 'sexy smoker' and the ladies can't resist you.

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Hah, sadly its just the one :P

And I've tried talking to her but she's extremely closed. Seems like such an odd situation to be in!

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Originally Posted by napolitana869

I like watching stupid sitcoms and laughing at corny jokes with my boyfriend.
If someone cant handle an intellectual conversation with me than I wont be interested. There are things more important than sex

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I'm not saying she thinks sex is more important, I'm saying she thinks it's more important to ME (inevitably because I'm a guy..) if you know what I'm saying. Therefore there's a horrible feeling that she wants to do it just to get me to like her?!

I guess you cant be friends with people you would more than likley wanna fuck, It gets In the way. But if your chilln with your special someone why would there be a problume?

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Originally Posted by horror business

Write an emo song.

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This is classic! =D

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Originally Posted by sexy smoke

I'm not saying she thinks sex is more important, I'm saying she thinks it's more important to ME (inevitably because I'm a guy..) if you know what I'm saying. Therefore there's a horrible feeling that she wants to do it just to get me to like her?!

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Maybe she has a high sex drive? Just take her back the bedroom, show her a good time, then smoke a joint and watch some tv.

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Originally Posted by Gippie

Wow, way to generalize =\
I have a lot of guy friends, and we get stoned and watch a lot of sitcoms together.

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Yeah, friends! She wasn't a friend before!

Id just light up a fat joint, go about my buisness and let it all play out man. Unless you feel like stressing over all that, I think she thinks bs.

so whats the problem? Girls want sex, we want sex, it's human nature.............shit, dont stress, would you rather be in a world with no sex and just watchin sitcoms? Just have sex then watch a sitcom and smoke a cigarette, it's called compromise man, she wants sex, you want sitcoms lol