Do skinny men turn you off?
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Do skinny men turn you off?
Do incessant rolls turn you off?
scrawny maybe. skinny is okay.. rolls. hmm not for me. im pretty shallow when it comes down to it.
if you look unhealthy its a turnoff.
Sorry, M. C. Rob, I thought you were going to discuss a lady's body weight.
It's not a turn off for me at all, I like it! I'm pretty skinny myself and so is my man, and I loveeee his body. It's better than chub or fat to me. Just my opinion though. I'm sure it is a turn off for some, but its a turn on for some. Some like chocolate some vinallia. So dont sweat it, if your face matches ur skinny boyud Id sleep with u! Hhha jp.
i dont like extremely skinny guys, but skinny is ok :) i think that a lot of muscles look gross, as well. but if i like a guy, i like him for his personality over his looks. my ex fiance was extremely skinny (he still was attractive), but his personality was the main thing that caught my eye about him. i'm really not picky about the way guys look - the only thing that really turns me off is when a guy is overweight to the point where he is unhealthy looking. otherwise, it doesnt really matter to me :) i just like guys that have great personalities and don't treat me like shit - i've been fucked over in pretty much every relationship i've ever been in, and i'm pretty damn tired of it.
And if you don't mind me asking where you the type that digged the bad boys back in the day?!?Quote:
Originally Posted by blazed_babe
lol kind of. i've also just been extremely unlucky with certain situations, and found myself in very undesirable sitatuations several times. i also have the problem of starting to like a guy that has a lot of issues, telling myself that i can fix them or handle them, when in reality, i can't. i'm a softie, and very passive, that's just how i am. and many people tend to take advantage of that.Quote:
Originally Posted by mseerob
LOL! cool cool...Quote:
Originally Posted by blazed_babe
Yeah thats how I feel too. Now me as I guy, I've had this one girl tell me that she couldnt deal with me anymore cause of the fact that Im a very nice person and she wasnt use to it. It did not hurt and felt it was for the best of me cause she wasnt a good person. I've been taken advantage of as well and it hurts.... badly and it kinda gets to you after awhile.
The whole point of this thread tho is because currently Im a skinny person and havent really had a real date and I think it half of it was because of my appearance (yes..... go ahead and laugh). I've always wanted to know if someone out there was going through this, when there friends where always getting laid and dealing with new girls all the time (not to say that I want to be a player or anything) but the fact that it would really be nice to settle in with someone that would appreciate who you are (Reflecting back to what blazed_babe said... personality) Why do good guys get the doors slammed on there face?! lol
Ill tell you why. Because women sometimes confuse their demeanor as lack of confidence. Be more confident, and even slightly cocky as long as you know how much is too much. I cant say this enough. Confidence confidence confidence. And dont tell me you are plenty confident enough because you are clearly unsure of yourself if you are coming here for reassurance.
Be more confident, my friend and you will succeed.
NICE GUYS FINISH LAST lol
That's what i've learned with women, a lot of them aren't used to nice guys and get really iffy about that.....That's why on some days im the nice guy, and on some days im the bad guy, a nice healthy balance for the ladies lol
I too have that problem, I am very nice especially to my man, and they just take full advantage of it. And it seems to happen over and over again. I also try and fix guys but you have to realize that no one will change unless they really want to. I learned that the really hard way.Quote:
Originally Posted by blazed_babe
spiff, i agree nice guys seem to finish last in the BEGINNING.....but as time goes on they are more successful in life......oh and a little womanly advise.....
Being a good man doesn't mean being a weak push-over....people seem to get these confused, hehe. Maybe that's why a lot of 'good' guys finish last....they are being pushed over..or just being a push-over, lol
You can stand your ground and still be a nice guy.....
but there are a lot of shadey women out there, lol......I myself, am a sweet, loving, stoney....that LOVES my chubby husband, hehe
personality is what matters. my mom and dad were only married for a few years when my mom got extremely ill and gained a lot of weight. when my mom was married, she weighed 125 lbs. i won't say how much she weighs now, but it's substantially more than that. she gained the weight because of her illnesses - she is unable to really exercise because of the exhaustion it causes her - sometimes she gets so exhausted from menial tasks that she will sleep for several days, and she went through hell and back, and she still has the illnesses. my dad is still with my mom because he loves her because of who she is. i really can't say that i remember when my mom was thin, because i really was only a couple of years old. but my dad staying with my mom and helping her through these extremely tough times really helped to show me just how much personality means. but weight really never has been too much of a factor for me - i've dated extremely skinny guys, chubby guys, and overweight guys. looks are always a nice bonus, but what i focus on is personality, and how i am treated in a relationship. so, to me, nice guys are what i look for :) (and i would just like to say that i have an amazingly wonderful one right now that i'm crazy about!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D )
Thats awesomeQuote:
Originally Posted by blazed_babe
I truly hope I find a girl. I kinda stopped looking for girls at clubs cause there bitches. I tried going on the yahoo personals, all I need is a great photo to get me going.
I dont have a camera so I was thinking of going to a portrait studio to get some pictures done. As anyone ever got any pictures done at wal mart before?