Do you want to know the shit people say about you?

I sometimes think that there are certain things that people shouldn't have to hear. I get a good amount of shit talked on my by my friends because I am different from them. I have more of an open mind and don't hide who I am. Either that or they are just jealous of me. But anyways my best friend ALWAYS tells me the stuff people say about me even when I tell her not to. It's rude. I think she just does it because she secretly loves when people bash me. Even though she acts like she stands up for me I know she doesnt. This made me wonder who really wants to know the honest truth about what people think about you on a bad day? Would you rather just put your blinders on and think everyone loves you?


I think I would rather not hear it because I know even though people talk shit, it doesn't change who I am, so why feel bad about myself? Even though I shouldn't give those shit talkers the power to make me feel bad.


Why can't everyone just be nice? I need to get far farrrrr away from this highschool bullshit.

if they are shit talking you all the time, how can you even call them friends if you don't like hanging out with them than don't, or confront them about it and tell them it hurts your feelings and you don't need it, either way I hate people like that

everyone talks shit, I'd rather not know unless it was something serious so i could smash there face in because it just makes you paranoid lol

Yeah I knew someone like that, well not a human more like a pain leitch. Every time they'd come around they'd tell me all sorts of shit, and Id feel this person getn all aroused by my anger. What kinda soulless, sick, creep, disturbed, coniving, bitch, do you gotta be to do this? Im glad I cut off all connections to people like that in my life, not that im any innocent but Im just glad I didnt go randomly breaking peoples legs with a baseball bat you know.

Yeah, I think I'd rather not hear it unless it's a serious problem so I could either fix it or, like bong man, bash their face in. And you're right, it just makes you feel bad about yourself and your friends. It would be nice to know who talks the most $h!t so I could leave them alone. But for the most part I think it's better to not know in most people's case. Humans just might wind up turning into an antisocial species.

I could give a shit less. Like you said, it doesn't make me less of who I am. People just like to build up their ego and knock others down. I try to keep away from the super egotistical people, and stay with the more open minded ones.

Mister Ed will never speak unless he's got something to say...

I can care less about all the shit everybody says about me. Let them drag themselves down by their negative thoughts and their misdeeds. Give it time... All of the shit will come back to who ever sends it out.

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Originally Posted by Kenji1121

if they are shit talking you all the time, how can you even call them friends if you don't like hanging out with them than don't, or confront them about it and tell them it hurts your feelings and you don't need it, either way I hate people like that

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Oh yeah, just keep hating...That'll really get you places as an individual. As for me, I am pretty enlightened to the things that might make people upset at me. Most of my time is spent acknowledging my faults. I tell you, I am my own worst critic. No one can say anything bad about me that I haven't already said about myself. :)

I love hearing things like that, the things that people will say. The crazy rumors I hear about myself, I just laugh, I don't really do anything because most of them are true, but oh well, I mean, it's high school and you'll almost never see any of those kids again.

As for all that, you can say whatever you want, it's not like I care, because I'll just say the same about you, just to your face instead.

i dont really care what most people think about me because most people dont have the same outlook on the world as i do. my outlook on the world isnt as happy go lucky or optimistic as the average american. im a believer in the fact that human beings are fucking up big time. we destroy everything we get our hands on and we will probably destroy ourselves

lol well i kinda find it interesting to see how the people u spend ur time with percieve u... (good or bad)

apparently the way i go about my life is completely different from all those around me... w/e i thought it was interesting to know that even my friends are a little confused by some of the wierd shit i do/say... sometimes it can be kinda cool to hear that shit (but ya if its overwhelmingly negative it probably isnt too much fun)

The realization for me that made me absolutely not care was that 100% of people have shit said about them at some time or another, no one is immune. Even though im such a casual easy going character and couldn't imagine any beefs anyone could have with who I am regardless im sure it happens.

I dont really need to know

In high school, I cared. Some people really don't care but I find it hard to believe people wouldn't mind being called things they know they are not.

But like I did....you realize that they might say it just to piss you off, to provoke a reaction that would prove them right or maybe even make you look worse.....or just cause they are jealous of you.

either way, it really doesn't matter.
you know what/who you are and anyone else's "shit-talking" a.k.a an opinion haha(unless they are trying to help you)is useless to your daily foward progress.

in other words, fuck em.

i care about what my family thinks of me but thats about it. because they raised me i want them to be proud of me. when it comes to everybody else that i dont know i really dont care what they think or say cause thats just their opinion and opinions are like assholes. everybody has one.