Something about someone tying me up and having their way with me turns me on, i haven't gone into full bondage with hands and feet tied, but i would love to try.. maybe some hot knives.. Damn.. who else here is kinky? Or are you just traditional..
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Something about someone tying me up and having their way with me turns me on, i haven't gone into full bondage with hands and feet tied, but i would love to try.. maybe some hot knives.. Damn.. who else here is kinky? Or are you just traditional..
BDSM anyone? LOL....just be careful! The main thing with bondage is TRUST. NEVER EVER do this with somebody that your even just a bit unsure about and NEVER with strangers!!
I've got a lil' "fun room" in the basement.....restraintment table, leather restraints, etc.......:D
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: This is a great book for starters. It gives the life style of BDSM and also goes into proper techniques. :thumbsup:
Have a good one!:jointsmile:
There's the low-key lighthearted bondage that's more about a bit of a tease.. the fuzzy handcuffs and bathrobe belt sort... Stinky Like.... :D Just a lil bit... but no fuzzy handcuffs, that's corny.
Although I have never tryed any sort of bondage before I do think I would like it. It's wierd because I am normally the domonate one with regular sex, but if I was going to try any sort of bondage I would want to be the submissive one, who's tyed up or something.
Oh and Psycho4bud, your right about the trusting the person. I would never want some crazy guy from a bar I met tye me up.
I think it's a nice switch for a person who in their daily life is in a position of authority, and just wants to shake off the responsibility of being in charge for a while... I'm pretty dominant/imposing in real life, I run the lab where I work, and own a rental property... it's nice to flip that and just be able to relax without worrying, "am I supposed to be doing something right now?"
Nah im not into that its too scary / gothic for me lol
I dont see it as a turn on
The Gothic look is a HUGE turn-off for me too.
Leather is for cowboys and motorcycle racers, not the bedroom... although if some cowboy wants to keep his chaps on, we can talk... :D
Another bit of advice. This isn't something you can just jump into being a Dom. There is a degree of training as far as technique is concerned. It's always best to find a good teacher and be the sub for a while untill you know what your doing.
Unless your into that sort of thing....there is NO NEED for bruising or scars! Start off slow and soft and gradually work your way up.......LOL..read the book and find a good Dom to teach.
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Have a good one!:jointsmile:
I have always had a fascination of running the blade of knifes up and down my body slowly. And no im not into cutting just the feeling of the blade and being under it. For some reason that turns me on so much that and candle wax..
If a girl is sexy enough, she can tie me down to anything that she wants. I would never restrain a girl, unless she asks.
am i the only one who's creeped out by P4B in this thread? no offense meant, btw, i guess i just don't like the idea of bdsm.
LMAO! It's not for everyone.....just like a swingers life style, cross dressing, etc....Quote:
Originally Posted by jdub61
Some people take this way over the edge in my opinion. I used to see this one lady who wouldn't be happy unless she had a nasty bruise the next morning...not my bag! We were good for about two sessions and that was it! I refused to give her what she actually wanted. My limits on things I guess.
Also, just because a person is "trained" in the art of BDSM doesn't mean that's the only way that they have sex or can get off; 99.9% of the time it's conventional but in those .01% occasions it's nice to have "skills".:D
Another thing with BDSM it goes far beyond the bedroom for some. It's a life style. You can have control, or Dom, from many different issues from the time you wake, food you eat, serving your master and then be the sub in regard to financial issues or as they like to say, topping from the bottom (sub in control). LOL...read the book, it's all there. :thumbsup:
Have a VERY good one!:jointsmile:
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Hell Id love a women to throw me down and go at it, damn that be hot. I wouldnt care if I got tied up cept Id hide all the belts and wax candels first lol. Aggressive women turn me on.
Getting tied up or tying a girl up and hurting each other doesn't really appeal to me much. The only pain I find sexy is when I stuff my dick into a tight pussy and hear her moan.
My ex gf had a pair of handcuffs that we would occasionally use. Otherwise the thing that really turned me on is that she would let me pull her hair towards me when I was on top of her. That's the only bondage I've ever done. I've always had a certain curiosity for knife play though, just no one to do it with yet.
i let a girl tie me up once, she friggin stole all my stuff
hahahaha sucks to be you:thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Quincyboy
i like it rough. i like to be talked to all dirty and thrown around a bit and man handled, nothin too crazy but i like feel how strong my partner is. I like him to put me where he wants me and i like to put him where i want him. I like him to hurt me a bit, pull my hair, scatch my back, bite a little, and hold me down as i pretend to fight back like i don't want it. it's hot. public places are fun too.