girlfriend trouble

meand my girl had been going out for 7 months and we were both sure we loved each other, then the during our 8 month going out she met some girl on myspace that was 4 years older than her and a lesbian. before that i knew she was straight and the only time she had done anyrthing with a girl she was drunk off her ass. That month a lot happened the girl and her became bestfriends. she was talking to her a lot and began to actually like her. I didnt care at the time so they started doing stuff every weekend and some days in the week. she was finally at the point where she would always be talking to her no matter what. then I started thinking and found out if they kept this up at the rate they were going eventually she wouldnt appreciate anything i did or me at all but bein love with this girl. So I talked to her and she kinda just blew off the conversation then a day or 2 later i tried talking to her again and found out everything I had thought would happen did happen. Now I had asked her to stop doing stuff with her because i was jealous and knew she would eventually dump me for her. So she stopped doing stuff with her but talked to her non stop either on aim or texting. For every 4 words i said to her which were usually half ignored she would write three pages worth of texts to the girl. This continued until eventually we were on the phone and I said stop doing this and just do whatever is gonna make you happy. So she dumped me but said its onlty for a little while so I can just get over her. ill still always love you. She treats this girl like royalty now. The girl can bitch all day about herself and her problems until my xgirlfriend calls me crying but then 10 minutes later says im gonna go shes coming over and they fuck again. I know girls are experimental a lot more than guys but shes been going out with her for over a month now
I think I should just forget about her I really dont want to though

any suggestions from guys or girls on what I should do are appreciated

try to get a threesome

lmfao

Stop talking to her. At least for a while.. shes confused as shit and has no clue what she wants. She clearly wants this girl right now more than you, and you letting her cry to you right before they go fuck isnt helping the situation out. She sounds like shes telling you shit to make you keep waiting around so she can have her cake and eat it too. If you just let her go for a while maybe she will come around and yall can have another go at it, but for now... get over her as smoothly as possible. Nothing awkward or angry, just nonchalant and carefree.

By leaving you for someone else (regardless of gender) she was sending you a clear message that she doesnt love you the same way you love her. You need to try getting over her. Cheating is cheating regardless of who its with

Have her cook you dinner (the solution for many of my problems). If the meat isn't done the way you like it, then she gave up.

if she was straight and decided she wanted to become a lesbianl:
A) u werent layin the pipe right
B) shes down for anything so a threesome will require little effort

yeah she cheated on you.. if she is tempted by someone else I hate to say it then there aflame anymore. thats not worth it. good lucck.

Just move on bro and find someone who will like just you...no reason to stress your being over this chick...delelte all of her numbers..give her back all of her trash and move on. Good Luck.

There are way too many chicks in the sea. LOL

alright thanks all of you

WAIT! first try to get a threesome. I wasn't joking. You've gotta at least try to get something out of this.

You can't expect to keep a relationship going with her, except maybe as friends - and even that's doubtful because she sounds like a ballbuster.

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Originally Posted by 420marijuana420

WAIT! first try to get a threesome. I wasn't joking. You've gotta at least try to get something out of this.

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LMFAO

the girl shes with, I wouldnt touch. Shes that bad

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Originally Posted by hateyoul3itch

LMFAO

the girl shes with, I wouldnt touch. Shes that bad

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oh. what a disappointment. I forgot that all lesbians aren't like the ones in porn

I had a girlfriend for about that long and she left me for a girl. Then about three months later told me that she never stopped loving me she thought i had stopped loving her.

I was like wtf.

I didn't go back to her to say the least.

Two approaches:
tell her your feelings, and A:it works out, or B:She dumps you.
or get the threesome, then tell her you feelings and she either A: accepts it or B: she dumps you.

Hopefully whatever happens you can continue to have threesomes though. Unless the second girl is a fat chick, in that case, dump yourself.

If the other girl was bi, and looked good, a practiced player might have a chance for something special. Since she's not, you're fucked. Or rather, you're not fucked. Whatever.

Never let your girl get into another bed if she wants to play its in your(both the 2 yous bed) bed. You dont always have to be their but the jestur is the same. Belive it or not I think everyones thoughts on this are right.(that last sentance just screwed me up) I think you should be strait with here tell her your jelouse and you want the two of them now, let here know you still feel like you do but be prepared to walk main. Girls are girls and alot of time girls like to do their girly things alot of those thigs are why we like em so much but dude girls are people and lesbian or strait some people see an opertuinty where the other is lookin and they pounce on it like hunter for its prey. Its ok to let your girl play with other girls I think (if thats somthing she wants) but you always have to have rules and the rules apply to all in this type of relationship. Or elese things like this can happen:pimp::pimp::pimp:

get a threesome, or find a next girl, there's so many of them out there, and if she left you for a girl, maybe you weren't fulfilling her sexual needs properly, think about it, maybe it's somethin you did..........