Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques

So I figured since theres a sexuality forum, why not have a damn topic on my all time favorite thing to do!!!

This is for everybody to throw their own :twocents: in... Whether you partake in the activity, or the activity partakes in you lol it doesnt matter.

Ill start off with a personal favorite of mine, and its a double-whammy. Two in one:

The Standing 69

The man and woman face each other naked (obviously!) to start off with. Guys trying this for the first time and are unsure of themselves might want to have their backs near a wall, or even better a support pole or post.

The man starts by placing his right hand on the womans right hip, and his left on her left so that his arms are crossed. In one motion he picks her up, spins her around, and rests the tops of her legs upon his shoulders. Ladies that keep their legs at a 90 deg. angle are less likely to get dropped lol.

The couple then proceed to 69 for as long as the upside down female desires.

When the blood-rush to her head is too much, she taps the man on the ass or legs or whatever signal they decide.

The next step here is to sit her down on top of your shoulders, only facing the opposite direction as you, so that naturally you can proceed to eat, and there are two ways of doing it.

The more impressive way would be to flip her around, have her grab your neck, put your arms under her legs and then hoist her up to sit on your shoulders to finish the job. The other way would be to set her down real quick so she can jump up for you to grab underneath her legs. Either way its the same concept. From here, you just continue to eat until she is done :D


Feel free to post any techniques you have either tried, or have had done to you.

lol nice stuff :jointsmile::thumbsup:

The Triple Play is another one of my favorites, and more importantly, HER favorites. In fact, it quickly became the standard practice once she got over the initial shock.

Now many women might be a little iffy on it as it employs the use of a thumb up the ass, but allow me to ease a few minds: My last girlfriend was extremely against anything happening near that area. She has a complex on it due to a previous boyfriend forcefully violating her back there, so it is very very understandable. After she began trusting me enough to talk about it with me, I was able to sooth her fears and assure her my thumb wouldnt go past the first knuckle, and it wasnt for me... trust me. So she let me try it and HOLY FUCK you shoulda seen the look on my face the next time I went to eat her and she nervously asked for my thumb :D It was hot lol. But I digress:

Begin your usual way, for me it begins by generalized large-area touching and caressing, slowly or even quickly working my way to the vagina. I then proceed to tongue-fuck her for a couple seconds and really make sure the whole area gets nice and wet. Then I move to the clit. I always start by circling the clit with my tongue because as you ladies know, that little guy can be pretty sensitive at first! After about 30 seconds of going around clockwise and counterclockwise Ill lick the clitoris with about medium strength over the hood to test its sensitivity, if it looks good from here, Ill pull the hood back and lightly begin licking the clit. If its still too sensitive Ill do another round of circles, or maybe just do slower intervals between the licking until she becomes acclimated.

When the clit is primed and ready for full throttle action, I insert my index finger inside the vagina and get everything real juicy while still working on the clitoris with my tongue; making sure to maintain a steady, constant rythym with your tongue is very important. When everything is juiced up and ready to go, then I lubricate my thumb. Just the tip is all thats needed... I usually get it wet with the natural juices, then use saliva to really drench it.

Then, while Im still going with my index and tongue, I begin lighty massaging all around the asshole with my thumb, rubbing it across and whatnot. A little more saliva for lubrication, and then I sloooowwwlly slide the tip of the thumb inside. I might have to point out that the thumb and index finger being used are both on the same hand. Im right handed so I use that hand. You dont want to shove your thumb up her ass, and you arent trying to thumb fuck her. All you really need to do is lighty, just barely, move your thumb around in a circle.. not going all wild.. there are thousands upon thousands of nerve endings right on the sphincter muscle and all youre trying to do is LIGHTLY stimulate those. The index finger can either remain still, or if you have the dexterity to lightly rotate your thumb while accurately controlling the speed and depth of a thrusting index finger, all while remaining constant with your tongue... then go for it. I know I do.

If you are having trouble keeping the clitoral hood pulled back due to all the juices going around making it slippery, then try this favored technique:

Use your top lip to begin pushing the hood back, and forming a seal around the clitoris, gently(unless she tells you to suck harder lol) begin sucking constantly. While you are sucking, continue to maintain the tonguing motion. If you use this method with the Triple Play, she will cum EVEN HARDER. The first time my ex came via the Triple Play she was cumming for about 15-20 seconds. And by that I mean nearly 20 seconds of wild convulsing and screaming at the top of her lungs. I think I might have even been so turned on that I came myself... that shit was WILDLY hot.

OH-- VERY IMPORTANT!! I forgot to mention, that you need to slowly pull your thumb out right while shes coming for maximum effect. Sorta like with anal beads I guess.



Remember guys (and some girls! :D )... its all for pleasure, so just relax and enjoy it, and for Gods sake... make sure SHES relax and enjoying herself too!


Also, the tongue is very expressive... long raspy tongue licks with a flattened tongue, hard fast flicks... they all have different effects on different women. Try everything out and see what she likes the most!

HAPPY EATING!

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hehe thanks for the positive response peeps.. anybody else have any good techniques?? Any small nuance in the art that you have noticed.. any realization could potentially save another mans sex life lol. Honestly though... youd be surprised at some of the cases Ive seen and stories Ive heard.

Grazil, you certainly do seem to have a vast amount of expertise and advice for one so young. I keep finding myself wondering why you're spending so much time here instead of getting out there and bestowing your talents upon the millions and million of lucky women whose lives might be transformed as a result. . . .

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Grazil, you certainly do seem to have a vast amount of expertise and advice for one so young. I keep finding myself wondering why you're spending so much time here instead of getting out there and bestowing your talents upon the millions and million of lucky women whose lives might be transformed as a result. . . .

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ROFLMAO!!!

Grazi, i'm totally saving that shit onto my desktop

WORD BROTHA

I hate to tell you this, Lags, but every woman is different in what she likes and doesn't, as far as oral and manual technique is concerned. That's why all the detailed advice makes us girls double-over laughing (I'm taking into account the marvelously humorous comments I've gotten behind the scenes here, too). If a guy's not relying on his lady of the moment to communicate to him her own unique likes and dislikes, he's expending a lot of effort for nothing. The best lovers let their individual partners be their guides.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

I hate to tell you this, Lags, but every woman is different in what she likes and doesn't, as far as oral and manual technique is concerned. That's why all the detailed advice makes us girls double-over laughing (I'm taking into account the marvelously humorous comments I've gotten behind the scenes here, too). If a guy's not relying on his lady of the moment to communicate to him her own unique likes and dislikes, he's expending a lot of effort for nothing. The best lovers let their individual partners be their guides.

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That is most absolutely true, and Im glad you pointed that out. I was kind of hesitant to begin talking about reading body language as I often end up going way off into tangents on that subject... it truly is something that you can only get so much out of instruction. To get the full effect you have to try different things out and begin making mental notes of the different responses from your partner due to whatever youre doing at the time. That is the beauty of intimate relationships: it allows people to get to know another person in a deeper sense.. the body language, vocal inflection, tone and pitch variations... deep guttural moans are my favorite hehe...

Anywhoo like you said not everything works for everybody. But these techniques have been employed numerous times by myself and by other people always with pleasing results :D Although I would love to meet the girl that says she cant cum. Im not saying theyre not out there, I KNOW they are... Im just sayin..... I wanna meet em :p

I just wanted to point out that I love your dry humor, birdgirl. I can hear the sardonic tone through the computer lol. I hope you do realize that I started this topic very high and with a shit-eating grin on my face :D :rastasmoke:

I know Im cocky, but please, humor me during the short time I have before going off into the military wont you??? Id be much abliged ;) I might even pay ya a visit lookin all sharp in my uniform..... :p :P

Every one has seemed to like the repetitious clit pull and tongue fuck.

Every one has seemed to like the repetitious clit pull (through teeth) and tongue fuck. Maybe it's my own special way...

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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary

I just wanted to point out that I love your dry humor, birdgirl. I can hear the sardonic tone through the computer lol. I hope you do realize that I started this topic very high and with a shit-eating grin on my face :D :rastasmoke:

I know Im cocky, but please, humor me during the short time I have before going off into the military wont you??? Id be much abliged ;) I might even pay ya a visit lookin all sharp in my uniform..... :p :P

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I definitely will humor you, Grazil! I actually find you highly entertaining. You're refreshingly intelligent and wonderfully verbal and articulate. I was just giving you a hard time!

You're about to enter the military, hun? Some branch of the U.S. Armed Forces?

I dunno if I want to do gymnastics to get oral. Dont get me wrong, I love switching stuff up but I have a feeling id be thinking, "god damn I hope I dont fall" rather than enjoying the experience.

Posted by Birdgirl "You're about to enter the military, hun? Some branch of the U.S. Armed Forces?"

Yes, apparently he is joining the 7th Armoured thumbs up your ass brigade:)

Cheers
NCM

PS Mrs NCM agrees with Rebgirl, stuff the acrobatics!

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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary

sardonic

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Excellent Word...

Grazil, more men need your talents.

Buuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhh.



Oh, yeah...

that's all I have to say.

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

Grazil, more men need your talents.

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Hell I wish I had his talent lol!

I usually don't go down on women anymore because they can't reciprocate very well, at least the ones I've been with. And yeah, I tell them what to do if they aren't "getting it" and they just keep on doing their thing.

"Hey, watch the teeth please?"
"Watch your teeth, they're hurting me"
"Get out"

I bled once from a bad BJ, too bad for her, she was the sweetest tasting girl I'd ever been with. If she knew how to give head we'd probably be 69ing it forever.

... just don't always be on the clito... because if you do that she,s gonna be too excited to have and an orgasm if you know what i mean, you have to change the point you stimulate when you do cuni :twocents:
oh and the look, like when a girl blowing a guy, is very important... for me i think so:p

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

I definitely will humor you, Grazil! I actually find you highly entertaining. You're refreshingly intelligent and wonderfully verbal and articulate. I was just giving you a hard time!

You're about to enter the military, hun? Some branch of the U.S. Armed Forces?

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Why thankya kindly ma'am... :D Lol well yeah its about the only choice I have left as far as what I can allow myself to do and at least half-ass care about it. At least they can pay for my college. I took the ASVAB to get into the Air Force and I qualified for every job they offered (without having a bachelors degree. If I had one of those I would have qualified for everything) But I can go right into Nuclear Weapons if I wanted to but Id rather get my fingers into the U.S. Space Program because if things go the way I want them to then everything will work for the better. Im not sure what Im gonna do... I really have alot of choices that have been presented to me within the past half a year or more... Its alot to sort out but when the time comes to make the decisions I will make the right ones. I just kinda roll with the flow.. the undercurrent of ..... destiny??? LOL fuckifiknow.... I just watched Tenacious D and the Pick of Destiny... maybe thats where I got that word from... maybe Im just completely drunk and high and typing too much of my inner monologue because Im... well smashed and at... I think one of my friends houses typing on his computer while hes passed out... damn... Im going to bed.

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Originally Posted by rebgirl420

I dunno if I want to do gymnastics to get oral. Dont get me wrong, I love switching stuff up but I have a feeling id be thinking, "god damn I hope I dont fall" rather than enjoying the experience.

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Well yeah thats a good point youre right, these techniques arent for everybody... My ex knew I wouldnt drop her and she was a damn squirmer... thats kind of an understatement. Anyways the point is no matter how much she twisted and went crazy it didnt fuck with me... so as long as you have decent balance youre ok I guess. But then I can see it possibly being a matter of trust... hmmm.... I need more time to ponder upon everthing that has transpired.... damn......

See people??? This is why I started this thread... when a multitude of different perspectives from all ages and walks of life shed their honest opinions, everybody can have fun.

Deal lord I started this post about 6 hours ago.. I need to get some sleep lol. its nust lol.

I've done standing 69 many times but I will do it just for a very short period of time and only once in a while. The main reason why I don't like standing 69 is that you have now strangled her clit of valuble blood supply. A woman's clit will receive more blood flow when excited and this helps increase arousal and sensation. When you have her upside down her heart is now below her vagina by a good 18 inches and now the blood has to fight gravity to get to the pubic region and gravity is now causing the blood to rush to the head and upper body. Yeah some girls will like the head rush but in the end you are being counterproductive to causing her to have multiple orgasms. Besides, most girls have trouble performing oral on me to begin with much less upside down.


Also, during oral sex I like to pay attention to more than just her clit and vagina. There are some many erogenous zones on a female! With my hands busy holding her up, this becomes difficult to use them.

Good old 69--and this is true of all the women I know with whom I've discussed this subject--is not all it's cracked up to be. Sounds good in theory and seems rather exotic because it's supposedly two-way pleasure. But it's not nearly as pleasurable as taking turns and my doing him and then him doing me. With 69, you have to try and concentrate on two things at a time, my pleasure and his. And it ends up being a terrible distraction both ways. If I'm trying to provide and receive oral pleasure at the same time, I can't lie back and just enjoy the sensation and focus my mind and energy on "cresting the peak." Same with him. He's trying to enjoy what I'm doing to him and yet has to split his focus to do me. If you ask me, it's only fun in theory. One at a time with the entire focus on one partner and then another is a much more sure-fire way to have fun. For a long time I thought I was the only one who felt this way, and one night at a party after a bunch of friends and I had had too much wine, we all discovered everyone thought the same thing.

I thought what this thread needs is some advice for beginners, since there are probly quite a few on these boards.
First, forget the upside down shit. Forget it.
2. Learn where the clitoris is and master it. This doesn't mean lick it as hard and as fast as you can! Women need different stimuli than men! (read that again!) Think slow and soft and repetitious and when you think you're going as slow and soft as you can, slow down some more.
3. Let her tell you what she wants. I don't mean in words, most women won't say what they want and that's okay. Watch for signs that what you are doing feels good to her ( or doesn't) watch for thrusting, pressure against your mouth or hand. Listen for breathing changes and moans or wimpers. Is her vagina getting wetter? Is her clitoris erect?
4.Don't just go down off the start. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay! The longer you kiss and tease and caress the better you'll be in the end! Make love to her body parts before you make love to her. I've given my wife an orgasm kissing the back of her knee.
Have fun and good luck!

69 can be fun, I don't think it's meant for any intense pleasure, especially not both people at the same time, but it's still kinda nice pleasuring each other at the same time.

But yeah, teasing is something that (from what I hear) most guys miss. I think teasing a woman is even more important than anything. I like joking about it too, and saying something like "I dunno if you deserve it" all while dancing around her erogenous zones. When they finally get something, they love it :P

hehehe... I love all the different opinions, its great. As far as this thread needing beginner advice, go for it lol but the thread IS titled "Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques." :p lol I dont care either way, the more the merrier.

I think its interesting how different people have many different ideas on what 69ing should consist of, as far as how long, the end result, what it leads to, etc... I personally dont 69 to cum. Hell.. It takes long enough for me to cum just from straight oral... its all foreplay to me. Depending on how experienced the girl is, she usually forgets about my dick anyways when I get going, and I couldnt care less. To be honest, the biggest reason I love the 69 is because I love the different approach I have to the vagina. It allows me to attack from a different perspective. Plus, from that angle I can get the most of out of my tongue as far as length is concerned if you know what I mean. 69ing for me usually only lasts 3-10 minutes. Once she cums then the fucking begins. And when it starts off with a 69, its gonna lead to some good ol fuckin, not love-making. Love making starts off with lots of foreplay, teasing, touching, carressing.. and letting her lay back and relax while you start things off for her with a nice orgasm.

Oh and to the gentleman who made the very valid point about reduced blood flow to the clitoris, you are correct. Thats why I said I only usually keep em upside down for 10-30 seconds max. Its more or less geared towards raising the energy and excitement levels between the two of you, than towards actual direct stimuli. I only do it once in a while when Im horny as shit, I have hours and hours to kill and too much adrenaline pumping. Also, you should know that when you flip them right side up again and go to town quickly, that blood rush back down there will blow their mind. At least it has to the people Ive done it to.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Good old 69--and this is true of all the women I know with whom I've discussed this subject--is not all it's cracked up to be. Sounds good in theory and seems rather exotic because it's supposedly two-way pleasure. But it's not nearly as pleasurable as taking turns and my doing him and then him doing me. With 69, you have to try and concentrate on two things at a time, my pleasure and his. And it ends up being a terrible distraction both ways. If I'm trying to provide and receive oral pleasure at the same time, I can't lie back and just enjoy the sensation and focus my mind and energy on "cresting the peak." Same with him. He's trying to enjoy what I'm doing to him and yet has to split his focus to do me. If you ask me, it's only fun in theory. One at a time with the entire focus on one partner and then another is a much more sure-fire way to have fun. For a long time I thought I was the only one who felt this way, and one night at a party after a bunch of friends and I had had too much wine, we all discovered everyone thought the same thing.

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I think I understand where youre coming from. You dont want sex and sexual acts to have to be like work where you have to concentrate on a whole bunch of shit, and I feel you all the way. There have been countless times when Ive been too over-worked and stretched thin over long periods of time and instead of wild rough sex Ill be in the mood for good lovemakin. And of course we wouldnt really 69 in an instance like that... I would lay her out on the bed, give her a massage if she wants one (fuck if left to my own devices I could spend two hours giving a full-body massage, but my last girlfriend rarely let me give her a massage... I think it was because she would then feel obligated to give me one and she hated giving massages.), Id go down on her, then we would have sex.

However..... there are lots of times when I want a different sexual experience. Sometimes I just wanna FUCK! Ya know??? Like hardcore, deep thrusting, sideways upsidedown insideout everywayfromSunday fromthawindowTHROUGHthewalltillthesweatdripdownmyb allstilalldeezfemalescrawl Superman machinggun pussypounding sex. I just want to make her cum as many times as I can harder than shes ever came before and I dont want to stop til shes about to dry up and pass out with a dazed smile on her face lol. I want to strenuously work out every muscle in my body because after a few intense hours of that followed by a massive orgasm... my whole body feels incredible for days. It approaches the sexual experience with your partner from a whole nother perspective and opens up worlds for some people. Its not for everybody though, some people are just too reserved for that. Theyre missing out though. Plus there is no better way to work your muscles out than by using sex. The endorphins released during and after sex make the soreness feel AWESOME. Its soooooo good for you, as long as I keep a good pace my whole life and dont start slouching the older I get I will live forever. The martial arts doesnt hurt either, thats another thing everybody should do if they want to live like 40 years longer than what they would have originally.

aahhhhh...


Blast from the past :D :thumbsup: :rastasmoke:

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Originally Posted by rebgirl420

I dunno if I want to do gymnastics to get oral. Dont get me wrong, I love switching stuff up but I have a feeling id be thinking, "god damn I hope I dont fall" rather than enjoying the experience.

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hahahaa gym-nasti_cs, hahaha