if anyone knows an anti love spell tell me now before i get in too deep

well, aight, i dont know what the fuck to do,, im fallin in love with this girl, right now i like her alot, and she likes me too,,,,, i just dont want to like her anymore, ,, we were just chillin tonigght,, lookin up at the stars holding each other close, i donno if u know the feeling but its love,, but right now i feel like just fuckin cryin,, cuz i really like her, but im scared of gettin hurt, i hate fallin in love because nothing good ever comes out of it except pain and suffering,, right now its all good, ,,, shes a really amazing girl, i just cant help but cry for thinking that we might not be freinds ne more if something goes wrong, i really wanna be with her, ,, but i dont at the same time, for both of our sake, i dont know if she feels anyway like i do, but i feel like complete shit right now, i dont know why, nothings gone wrong yet, damnit yo, i feel like fuckin shit, fi should be happy, everythings gone good so far, but im not , i just feel i know whats gonna happen, and i really dont like it, the want to be with her is stronger than the other, i just am not sure what to think with myself

Try to be happy and stay in the moment, hun! Enjoy being with her and don't sabotage things by worrying about disaster before it happens. Just try and stay real and not torment yourself about bad stuff before it occurs. Try not to obsess about it, too, because you can work yourself up into a frenzy if you overthink things too much. It's always a risk when you put your heart out there and make yourself vulnerable, and sure, sometimes things come to an end and it hurts. But if you're anticipating or worrying about that before it happens, you're missing out on some of the good stuff while it occurs.

you got two choices basicly..

let yourself fall, and possibly get hurt in th eend, but know how it ended..

or

spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been..

trust me the first is better no matter what pain you may end up in......... the pain of the unknown is infinately worse no matter what subject you're talking about.

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well, aight, i dont know what the fuck to do,, im fallin in love with this girl, right now i like her alot, and she likes me too,,,,, i just dont want to like her anymore, ,, we were just chillin tonigght,, lookin up at the stars holding each other close, i donno if u know the feeling but its love,, but right now i feel like just fuckin cryin,, cuz i really like her, but im scared of gettin hurt, i hate fallin in love because nothing good ever comes out of it except pain and suffering,, right now its all good, ,,, shes a really amazing girl, i just cant help but cry for thinking that we might not be freinds ne more if something goes wrong, i really wanna be with her, ,, but i dont at the same time, for both of our sake, i dont know if she feels anyway like i do, but i feel like complete shit right now, i dont know why, nothings gone wrong yet, damnit yo, i feel like fuckin shit, fi should be happy, everythings gone good so far, but im not , i just feel i know whats gonna happen, and i really dont like it, the want to be with her is stronger than the other, i just am not sure what to think with myself

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My brother...I am right there with you right now..all the way..that is about all I can say right now..it is tough..but ife goes on..I know I dont want to be hurt right now..I am done with women for awhile..till a better day and a better way...

love is supposed to be a wonderful thing, its better to have loved than not love at all anyway i agree with slip, its better than wondering what if..

u guess u all r right,, and i know it to, but for some reason i still torment myself, maybe its cuz ...maybe cuz my bad past with relationships,, maybe i try to hard, maybe i love too much, maybe its just not for me,,,,

but im gonna try to make it work with her,, i just dont want to lose someone again

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love is supposed to be a wonderful thing, its better to have loved than not love at all anyway i agree with slip, its better than wondering what if..

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If it is so wonderful..why does it make me so crazy inside?

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If it is so wonderful..why does it make me so crazy inside?

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When they say its a fine line between love and hate, they aint just whistlin' dixie, my friend! It can be tough! Keep the faith! There are good ones out there who are just waiting to be found! :thumbsup:

well she held your hand too???

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If it is so wonderful..why does it make me so crazy inside?

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you're probably looking at the glass half empty. some people would love to be in the position you're in right now. and now its up to you to either make it a good thing or turn into a bad thing. i say take it and run with it. who knows it really blossom into something mind blowing.

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Because that is what a woman lives for...

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u guess u all r right,, and i know it to, but for some reason i still torment myself, maybe its cuz ...maybe cuz my bad past with relationships,, maybe i try to hard, maybe i love too much, maybe its just not for me,,,,

but im gonna try to make it work with her,, i just dont want to lose someone again

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dude, my life has been nothing but pain... take it from me, take hte oppurtunity when you have it.. i didn't say what i said because i read others opinions... i spent years upon years just hoping i'd get a 2nd chance, not once, but TWICE...

you take that chance while you got it, cuz you'll regret never having it again, i garuntee....

Thank you ladies (crudemood and happiestmfroutthere..geez thats long) for your insight...it helps a lot.
too bad I cant rep both of you...it wont let me cause I have repped you both repeatedly in the past. LOL

"It is better to have loved and lost, that to have never loved at all." And for that "anti-love spell", look closely at the young lady's mother. In 20 odd years, your gal will likely be her! Can you live with that?- Granny:hippy:

there are two kinds of people, those who go into relationships with reckless abandon not caring if they get hurt or not because in the end its worth it.

and those who dont think its worth it.

if you dont think its worth it, then i dunno what to tell you....except maybe buy a dog or something...

It's hard for people who have been hurt really badly to make themselves vulnerable again. Love doesnt always come at what we consider the right time, but sometimes you just have to go with it. Getting over bad relationships makes you stronger and wiser. Take what you've learned from the past to make the outcome better in the future. It's scary, but you're going to have to face your fears someday.

Another saying goes something like "You can only succeed at eternal love once, the rest are just trial runs"... something like that.

Last year my relationship with a girl who was also one of my best friends ended, and I lost a really good friend because she couldn't face me "not as her boyfriend". All I can say is if you're afraid of losing her, can you picture yourself just being friends while she tells you about the dude she's dating? If you can't put up with that, then it's obvious you want to be with her. If you can picture talking to her about her relationships and how much she loves other guys, then maybe being a friend is the best choice.

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Thank you ladies (crudemood and happiestmfroutthere..geez thats long) for your insight...it helps a lot.
too bad I cant rep both of you...it wont let me cause I have repped you both repeatedly in the past. LOL

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no problem buddy :jointsmile:

thanks,, evreone, were together now,, and im not even gonna say ne thing else, cuz all im thinkin about is good things :D