The day has come.....

No matter how much i thought about it I thought it would never happen to me. Today I leave with my sister to the mall return to give my freind his 8th and box of blutns he left at my house the past night..and find a note on my keyboard it reads..."Kevin, we need to talk -mom-"..Automaticly i think of the anti drug add's on TV and open my desk to find the box of blunts,my 2 g's,and my freinds piece was gone...I thought to myself what the hell am i going to do my body could not think of what to do..So i let my freinds go and came back upstairs..debating if i should go downstairs and talk to my mom or not. Not really sure what to say. I just hope she doesnt talk to my dad (cop) because then i really dont know what to say. What to do...

You have to be a man and talk.

Take responsibility for it and take what comes.

Man im so glad i have my grandma who understands why i smoke weed and everything it just makes life so much better, like i never have to worry, the only thing i ever have to worry about is cops and well i usually only smoke at my house so i mean ya i make sure no one does shit to get the cops called either

How do you start a convo like this with your mom lol.

your mom has already started the conversation with the note she left you. just be respectful, you are living in her house right? be more careful next time. peace.

Yah i get the respect part of it...So should i engage in a covo with her or just see if she wants to talk about it? I think i have somthing coming from my dad tomorow when I see him. If not im not planing on asking for anything special or extra as i prob dont deserve it in my parents eyes...I guess in my eyes talking to my mom is pointless...I know she is going to tell me the same thing every parent says its illegal dont do it im just looking out for your own good blah blah blah..then she will say i cant do shit for days then she will say what the hell are you going to do with your life...then we will argue then i will run to my room or out of the house.

Everybody has troubles
And everybody's troubles are different than others
Life's a constant struggle
But keep your head high and it'll be alright.

my mom is one stubborn lady, <-- which lady is me tryin to not be biast being im the one on the wrong side always. u could tell her shes wrong, and the only time shed admit it is if its 100 percent, and then shell try to say it was misinterpreted or w/e. so i no how it is, but it is best to have the talk, avoid it as long as u can resonably do, i dont mean ignore it, but the longer u wait, then u can say i found this yesterday, and that it was the first time in a week u were in that box, so u dont toke up hardly ever, try doin it on a sunday, maybe? is she acting like nothing bad has happened? other than the note cuz play it cool, then try to find the right time, well therell never be the pefect time to do it, but where shes in a good mood, or less angry then normal. ive learned this from my mom finding out i smoked cigs, and that i drank, at a party. but ur in a far worse position then i am.

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Originally Posted by thcbongman

You have to be a man and talk.

Take responsibility for it and take what comes.

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Amen

Ive known ive had to take responisibility for my own actions, but its not a easy subject for me to bring out to my parents my dad being a cop and everything.

me quits for a month or two tell everything blows over my tolerance is getting to high anyways :p

there you go man, good attitude!!! later.

Just make a compromise with your mom if you can, say you'll smoke alot less and only on special occassions like TONIGHT! Thats what I told my mom and she says that she doesn't mind as long as im responsible and she gives me that responsible talk every time i leave the house. But she doesn't care if i come home high every once in a while on the weekedns or something.