Im back

Im sure nobody realized I was gone... but I was, and now I am back! Man, life has just been a turd! I am going through a divorce now, and moving back to Oregon.. It will be good to get out of Utah though. What a drag! So what have I missed? How the hell is everyone?

hey sweety welcome back :D hows that baby ;)

she is doing so well.. thanks for asking... I just posted some pics of her on your christmas post.. check um out!

cool im on it now :D wb again sweety

You got some cute ones! Do they live with you? I just read that you "got them back"... Congrats anyway whatever the reason! Right now I am getting ready to maybe go through a custody battle.. but I hope not.. We'll see

thats what i just had to do good luck hunny im sure it will all work out. and omg she is soooooooooo cute!!!

Thank ya sweets! I am hoping all will go well, my husband.. ex.. whatever, and I are trying real hard to stay friends in all this... but its next to impossible. I just hope our relationship good or bad, has no affect on Emelea except us both being there for her.. It'll just be hard being so far apart!
And I know, isnt she cute!?

Hiya Missy...and welcome back! :D

Sorry to hear that you are getting divorced - no matter what the reason is, it's never a nice thing to go through (especially when kids are involved). I'm going through the same.
I'm sure that the custody thing will be fine, as long as the kids aren't used as 'weapons' (you know :))...I guess that remembering not to 'bad-mouth' your ex in front of the kids is always the best policy (no matter how much you want to lol), because in the long run, it will only alienate them from you.

I hope that all goes well, and remember that we are here if you need to vent and stuff ;)

Best wishes,
Res...

Welcome back! I noticed you were gone but I figured it was personal because you left right after mentioning you were getting divorced in a post. Relationships....What can I say? Yikes. Are two ppl really supposed to stay together for the rest of their lives? Sometimes I just don't think that's a realistic situation anymore. Good luck! :)

seen the post Mis ( pics) she is cute hope it all works out, been there myself many moons ago remarried and very happy fingers crossed eh...hope you have a better New year

thanks for all your support guys! I just may use you to vent! I would never do it to my daughter, now matter what relationship I have with her father.. I wont let it affect the one she has with him! Thats just not cool!.. Only 10 more days and Ill be back in Oregon.... whoo hoo!

My condolances to everyone in your family mis, seems like everyone I know has gone through a divorce or is going through one right now...........a sad age we live in indeed. Anyway just keep a positive attitude and try not to get too stressed out....

Hey, what did I expect when I got married at 19??.... In this day, marriages don't last forever.. no matter how bad you want them too... It's my fault for not marrying someone with the same values. I just take it as learning experience... Makes me stronger, and wiser! It's just too bad I thought it was strong enought to create a family, and a slap in the face to have that only last 4 months! But my chin is up! Going back to Oregon is probably better for my and my daughter, we'll have all my family there and support! I don't think I could have lasted long in.... utah!

Welcome back misery.:D

Sorry to hear about the divorce, I hope all work's out well for you:)