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OKay say your having a conversation with a gurl and shes playin around with you and calls you a boy, but in a friendly way. Cuz she calls all guys boys.. It would piss all you off huh ????.. cuzz all the guys hate everytime this gurl says it lol
just wanted to see how many men here feel the same way??
That wouldn't bother me at all. If she were trying to talk down to me, I would be pissed. But if she weren't than I don't see what the big deal is about being called a "boy."
As long as she isn't insinuating I'm immature, I could care less.
I'm a beast of a man!
It depends. If it was meant as a dig, i'd be pissed off.
If it was friendly, it wouldnt bother me.
i wouldnt care at all
that upsets me a little, but not really
Yeah I agree if she doesnt mean it as a put down I dont mind been her boy as long as she knows Im gonna get at her like a Big Boy:pimp:
WTF? I almost never use the word boy, but then again, I never call people by thier names either.
certainly not; for that to bother you there'd definitely be some insecurity going on
then what do you call them?Quote:
Originally Posted by Samwhore
take me for example...
I just say "Hey," or start having a conversation.Quote:
Originally Posted by 4gan2ja0
I got called love once, I laughed, it's so British.Quote:
Originally Posted by shaitanx
nah i couldnt care less..
unless she was like god you act like a little boy or somethin like that, pretty much what everyone else says....
why did that piss you off??
love hahah lovey dovey hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by Samwhore
Nothing wrong with being called Love - i call alot of poeple love. But im English so i supose i would lol.
At least it's not posh like
"Why good morning squire, terrible weather today. Fancy a game of squash?"
LOL posh tossers
I do the same with my girlfriend but only when were joking around.Quote:
Originally Posted by shaitanx
"she can be my babi gurl and ill be her babi boi, all night all day its all good we 2 me i got toys"
I've never been more offended in my life.
not really.. i'd probably play back (actually we've had this conversation) "a boy can't fuck you like i can...." ~wife's face turns red~
he said Squir your crazy main, LIP always got jokes haha. Cheers main:pimp:Quote:
Originally Posted by LIP
I wouldn't give two shits. The word "boy" is in no way an insult to me.
Not at all. Why? It's just a word.
i dunno about yal, but i spent all my childhood being told i'm not yet a man, and i'm stil just a kid/boy blah blah blah...Quote:
Originally Posted by thcbongman
now that i've spent the years growing up to become a man, if it's used as an insult, it is kind of aggervating/angering...
I see what you mean. I was told the same thing when I was growing up. I guess it would be a little aggravating, but in the end, I know I am a man, and that is what counts. I don't need any source of validation from people to tell me what I am and what I am not.
I've been called alot worse than "boy". Wouldn't bother me at all.
Because that would be a terrible thing wouldn't it? I have been called "little boy," for my charm and for my immaturity. Hell, I have been called "baby." Would I get angry? Not at all. If I perceive hostility in the words it is potentially bewildering to me. "Why are you upset?" I always ask that question knowing well that I am constitutionally an inconsiderate asshole but for some reason it remains incognizant until someone brings it to my attention. That is when all hell breaks loose. I lose my mind knowing that I am an asshole...it is not something I aspire to after all. I am no saint but it bothers me to receive satisfaction from putting someone down.Quote:
Originally Posted by JaggedEdge
All I got to say is
"I got your boy hanging right here"
It does depend on the context that it is used in...but to call a grown man a boy is derogitory and shows disrespect..
So, No, I fucking hate it.. Always have, always will.
that is absoultely outrageous.
For god sake boy this are aniversary (bad)
gee i love u baby boi (good)
hahahah Geo, good to know your the only one here that it bothers... so what you up to boy? doin anything tomorrow? hahahaha j/p love ya
Yeah, you pretty much suck!:thumbsup::wtf:Quote:
Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20
depends on tone of voice
o0o geo.. im jus playin.. u know how it goes...
Well my whole adolescent life was spent trying to become and be recognized as a man. Then I got there wayyyy too quick and forgot to have a childhood lol. It depends on my mood more than the context its put in to be honest. One subconscious rule of thumb that my brain seems to go by is if they are younger than me and call me boy just out of habit I will correct them once. Anything else, be it an insulting tone, or if they just call me boy again to be funny just rolls off my back and I go back to whatever it was I was doing.
I laugh when people insult me. For so many reasons. Its just funny. When people (usually testosterone-filled insecure dudes) get too persistant in trying to agitate me, I just find something theyre good at and do it better than them in front of everybody with a smile on my face and a pat on their back. Then I ask them to sit down and sometimes even follow it with a "BOY."
I refuse to let it get physical especially in front of witnesses... Im not trying to get a damn murder charge. One instance I went outside with somebody and told them they could have the first 5 shots. His first punch went towards my face so I just headbutted his fist, which shattered. Then he went inside with a very confused look on his face and had his wife/gf drive him to the hospital lol. Other times when people have swung on me without warning I just punched them square in the fist right at the peak of their punch, which of course demolished and mangled the poor unsuspecting morons hands lol.
Thats when you let her know your a grown ass man by placing your dick across her forehead.