I would like to know your views and experiences with a 3sum.?? And all so what do you think about having a 3sum while you are in a serious relationship?? Either Male-Female-Female or Female-Male-Male ....whats your thoughts on the subject!!
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I would like to know your views and experiences with a 3sum.?? And all so what do you think about having a 3sum while you are in a serious relationship?? Either Male-Female-Female or Female-Male-Male ....whats your thoughts on the subject!!
No, NEVER have a 3-some in a serious relationship. The chances of something GOOD coming out of that is sooooo slim. That can ruin a whole releationship. In every magazine ive read, playboy, cosmopolitain, and countless sex books I have it tells the readers not to do it. It may be hot but you'd be surprised all the things that can go wrong.
Leave the 3-somes to the porn stars.
I had a brief threesome with my boyfriend and his friend before we started dating. I didn't know he liked me so much and wanted to date, so I was down. However, like 15 minutes into it, he just left the room and left me with his friend, who was cute so we kept going, then like another 15 minutes later he came back in and started freaking out at his friend, who left. And after we started dating, every time he was mad he brought that up and called me a slut. So I don't recommend them.
Ok so basically its a no go for serious relationships. Here is my problem i've done it lots time before but not really in a serious relationship and i do think its really hot and i like doing 3sum's. My girlfreind knows that i like them so she brought it up a few weeks back and asked me what i thought about it and asked if i had anyone in mind.oh and this is a Male-female -female. Being honest i told her how i felt and mentioned someone. Ok everything was kool before she left for NY and she's gonna be there for 3 weeks. The first few days everything was good until one night she called me crying and saying the only reason i wanted to have a 3sum was because i wanted to screw some other chick. Which wasnt true but it seems like one of her co-workers hammered it in her head that, that was the reason why i wanted to. So i dont even know she was the one who asked i just answered and being honest i told her the truth. But i guess it was a trick question.
yeah, women never wanna be told the truth.. gotta get used to thta now... (and i don't care what you women say, you tel us to tell you the truth, then we do and you freak the fuck out) certain things are just better left in the dark/lied about....
I've had plenty of menage a trois (and four, five, six), married and not married (take that in all meanings). Everyone is different. For me, it's best left for the single folk.....It didn't kill any relationship I've had, but come close.
:jointsmile: Bree
i guess you people never heard of swingers.me and my wife have had 4 somes and 6 somes ,you just have to set rules thats all.i think guys have alot harder time excepting it,if another man is getting it on with their spouse.either you love it or hate it.....as for me no regrets....
Oh yah thats the other thing i'll only do me and the gf with another chick. Say i'm selfish but thats the rule no exceptions..... we desided to talk it over when she got back so we'll see how that turns out. :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by escort31
too much work
but fun if you slow it down a bit
sounds better that it actually is though
Not in a serious relationship. I have had one before I got married or even met my husband and there is no way I could let another girl do anything with him. I would be so jealous and then everything would go wrong.
^^ yup before I was with John I had 3-somes and 4-somes but just the idea of another girl even THINKING about touching him makes me wanna load a gun. BUT he sure does like it when we talk about my past...haha
If you are in a serious relationship with a girl and bring in another girl, you will want to fuck that other girl again. That will cause problems.
Then jealousy will come in the picture. Generally a pain in the ass.
Me and my girl have had a threesome with another girl before (my girl likes the ladies too lol) and we both found it to be great, hell my girl was having sex with me like a rabbit for weeks afterwards. I guess it all depends on the couple; like if its just the guy wanting to do it (or the girl) then there will be problems but if its a mutual thing it really can be great fun. Crazy people need not try this because there will be problems lol.
prefer 1 on 1.
I'd do it in a heartbeat....more because it would be an incredible experience than anything.
Im sure that Ill get flammed by some of the more imature and insecure people on the forum but here is my threesome story. Let me start by saying that I am very happily and have been for 6 year's now. My wife and I have always had a pretty good sex life trying new things and that but I have always been kind of an in the closet freak so to speak. I am totally straight and have never had any kind of experiance with another man but had always had the fantasy of sharing my wife with another man. In a way it is like watching porn live and also being able to join in. Her and I had talked about it a few times and at first she was almost totally against it. But the more we talked the more she thought she would enjoy the idea. Now dont get me wrong if the oppertunity to have two women at once came along I would NEVER turn it down but she is not into that at all. So a few weeks after we had first talked about it her and I were hanging out at a friend of mines house who she had told me she was attracted to a while before. We were all drinking and puffing and some light petting and kissing between them started to happen. I didnt object at all, as I had already talked to both of them privatly about my thought's. Nothing more happened that night, but the following weekend we had some friends over to our house and I invited him also. The night went about the same with plently of drinkin and smokin goin on and just before he was ready to leave she decided to pick up where we had left off. So the three of us went to our bed room. The rest is pretty much right out of a hard core porn movie. I have to admit that I LOVED every second of it and having sex while someone watched and then watching her take it the way she likes so much was a huge turn on. He and I work togather daily and are still very good friends, sometimes we joke about it as our inside secret;) I have no regrets and cant wait for it to happen again:pimp: Peace
I am going to have to go with the majority, while in relationship skip it, while single live it up. I just personally feel that no matter how much one thinks it's a good idea that somewhere down the line something will always be off a little because of it. I dont condeme anyone who does either. I am soo in love with my wife and get horny thinking about her(also have homemovies :thumbsup: ) that I have no desire for more.
I dont really believe there is a pat answer, as we all have differnt views and wants and desires.
My lady and I met in a swinging atmosphere. She was single for many years and not looking for a relationship. I had been single for 4-5 years and not looking also.
At one time in my life I could have not even considered letting someone I care for have sex with another person. With my lady tho, I simply adore seeing her pleasured and pleaseing, whomever she is into, a man or a woman. It's not a thing we do every day nor every month, sometimes a year or more goes by then, something will present it's self, and if we're in the mood, cool! If not, it makes for some hot talking that night....and killer good session with her.
We are older tho, our minds and bodies are not clouded up with raging hormones like the young, and I think that is most of the jelously, untrusting, and worry comes from.
nothing but problems..