HELP... got a man problem..

Okay well let me introduce myself.. im new to this site and i have seen nothing but good positive things here.. im lovin it here already... well heres my problem... i work with this guy lets just call him Steve for now lol.. And omg.. i think he is super sexy.. and would love to just have him anytime.. BUT obviously im not that type of person.. i have flirted with him.. everyone around me can tell i am crushen on him.. and i know he knows.. he also does some flirtatious movements back at me...BUT i will not make the first move:( .. do i just wait until he is comfortable making the first step or what do i do?? i dont want to wait forever.. i mean i can hardly be around him without wanting him...


BLAZE IT MY STONER friends

Hey, mayby he's shy. New at the 'game'

I wouldnt ever mind a chick makin a first move. But she cant ask me out though. Thats my job. If your in a comftorable area make your move.

It's like that fight club part when tyler durden goes, "cut the foreplay and just ask." Its good advice.

Yeah just ask. Thats what I usually do. Im very black and white and games are not tolerated in my relatiosnhips.

The first move doesnt have to be a big one.
Go get some coffee :)

okkk.... i guess coffee sounds good... still wish he would man up and stop teasing me though lol...

If it wasn't for the teasing you probably would not have made this thread. He has you worked up I see. Just think of it as extended foreplay, cause everyone knows the easier things come, the easier they go.

Just walk up to him and grab his sack. That'll let him know you're interested.

Why do girls think they can't make the first move???

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Just walk up to him and grab his sack. That'll let him know you're interested.

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i agree

okay well i see what i have to do.. NOT grabbing the sack... thnx but no thnx i think i will pass on that one... but i think now instead of waiting.. how about i just call him out and ask his ass WTF yes or no.. cuz i hate bein teased.... bein teased is the worst especially when u know ur not bringing the booty home. okay well.. maybe im jus stoned.. watch i will still act the same.. has this damn hold on me.. u know i always poke him or thow sumthin at him just tog et his attention.. loveeee the way he looks at me.. newayzz... i,maa smokee another bowl.. lata:stoned:

Yeah, just ask him. I always loved when girls were confident enough in themselves to ask me out.

He will love you if you cutely ask him what he's waiting for

you cant be in a relationship without taking chances and making yourself vulnerible. it doesnt feel great especially for a shy person (like myself) but you will never know what might have been if you're too scared to be aggressive.

good luck

:thumbsup: i got him hahahahaha... im fuckin good.. lol...BUT he did finally make the first move... man who has had someone bust out the old wanna wrestle on the bed question? hahaha.. hey it worked for me ...:D

good job. Its always exciting when what you've been waiting for finally happens

Nothing like a good wrestling match to kick off a relationship! :D

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

:thumbsup: i got him hahahahaha... im fuckin good.. lol...BUT he did finally make the first move... man who has had someone bust out the old wanna wrestle on the bed question? hahaha.. hey it worked for me ...:D

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Hey, wrestling is fun!:)
mostly with girls. LOL
Not too many girls are up for that.
Good job:pimp:

do you and him smoke bud? if so ...here's a whole convo for you... since it's two scenarios possible, exclude as needed.... a willl be based on there's a band/singer you both like, b will be what he likes, but you don't really know...




just outta the no where ask him his fav band/singer....?

a. oh many i love them, what's your fav song? (he should ask you yours, if not finish by telling him that's one of your top favs and you can make up your mind beteen his or ----------------)
b. so what kinda music do they do?

a. wha'ts your fav album by 'em? (ansewr is same as song question
b. so what kinda music do they play? ~insert what you listen to here~

a. hey tonight after work you think you wanna come back to my apartment/house/w/e put some (insert band yal both like) maybe smoke a bowl/joint and relax.... (you could also add in pickin up a 6 back of some beer
b. well you think maybe tonight we could go back to your place and maybe smoke a bowl (can also insert a 6 pack)

**either 6 pack may be substitued for any alcohol**

Ask him out. It sounds like your young, meaning not from my time. I'm not really that old but it didn't happen in my time. I would love for a woman to ask me out. I mean ouch what a turn on.

Or, in the words of Ike Turner. Maybe girls are not his flavour.
Sorry girlfriend. Only one way to find out.

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

:thumbsup: i got him hahahahaha... im fuckin good.. lol...BUT he did finally make the first move... man who has had someone bust out the old wanna wrestle on the bed question? hahaha.. hey it worked for me ...:D

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He could have licked his own foot and it would have "worked" for you.


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Opps, too late.

shit. i posted before i read.

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

okkk.... i guess coffee sounds good... still wish he would man up and stop teasing me though lol...

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I hope you realize this post is boosting the ego of most of the guys here because we now assume all girls are thinking this about us, or at least I assume they think that way of me lol

j/k of course, but the guy sounds a lot like me, a tad bit timid, not so good with the first moves, but once I'm comfortable enough I'll take the lead and go for it! I think some guys are also a little nervous about asking girls out in the work place, with the crazy sexual harassment laws we could loose our job just for telling a girl she looks good.

There is a girl at my work I'd like to ask out, but I see her a lot so I kinda don't want to in case things don't work out. She came in a few weeks ago with a shirt that let her boobs hang out and from what I could see, didn't look to be held back by a bra. Maybe that was her way of telling me to speak up, or maybe she just likes the attention, I don't know but I wouldn't want to loose my job while trying to find out, so I recommend all girls take the lead and if you want a dude just tell him!

wellll.... see what happen is that.. yeah he did make the final move but not only did he make the final move ihad to encourage him.. he kinda froze in the middle of it... lol... i was kinda mean about it to.. but he liked it lol.. i was all " So what you just gonna pin me up on the wall form behind and thats it, just walk away???" hahaha thats what got him... but newayz yeah ur prouably right about the licking of the own foot.. i dont think i would of turned me on but it sure would of been funny... :thumbsup: :rasta:

Tap that shit!

i think girls who make the first move or whatever you wanna call it are hot! i always put it off to see if they ever will haha. they end up going for it after a bit.

haha BlazinIt you are one of my favourite people here already!! glad you got your man :D :D

now wish me luck this week - i'm out to bag me my chick...the girl of my dreams and she is nearly mine :D

good luck lagstronaut .... . and your not gonna bag her okay lol.. ur goona get whats comin to you.. baging someone sounds so bad lol...;) :) oh and by the way im glad iv made an impression on someone here already.. makes me think i will go far on this site lmao.. okay sorry.. goodnight all