Ok lets say you have a kids and you accidently find out that little mary jane or little johnny are growing MJ and smoking weed. How would you handle it?
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Ok lets say you have a kids and you accidently find out that little mary jane or little johnny are growing MJ and smoking weed. How would you handle it?
I'd be chill about it 'n make sure they knew the facts.
Some kids who smoke think its all bad 'n shit 'n makes you dumb but do it anyway. I wouldn't want my kid to be like that.
If they started becoming the lazy stoner-stereotype, thats when I'd bust a cap in their ass.
if they were fourteen i would be fucking pissed. so pissed in fact i might make them wear a sign.
seriously though if when i have littluns if they toke the reefer, i'll be ok with it until it consumes they're lives. theres nothing wrong with toking now and then, but i wouldnt want them to be full fledged pot heads.
I can tell that frivolous is a smart guy. I would give my kid, theoretically speaking, the facts. Also, only smoke at home until you move out, and avoid hard drugs. Otherwise, do good in school and have fun.
growing i might make them dismantle... unless of course i was growing or something.... unless i'm doing it too, i don't wanna go down for it <.< smoking however... well, i'd talk to them about responsibility...
First it would depend on the age of the kids to start out. Second if they are still in school they have to be doing good in school. It must not affect anything else in their life and I would want to have a talk with them. I would want to figure everything out before I started giving them the old secrets of growing. But once I found it was ok and give them all the facts, I would see it as being ok. But then again it does have to do with how mature the child is and how old they are. But overall I would be ok with it.
How young? its diffrent if their 17 or only 12
I wouldnt mind smokin but growin? Id be mad. But if it were one plant. And budding. Id take it into my own hands if I had the oppertunity to finish it.
Smoking is fine, but really, GROWING? How can you compare the two? I'd have a talk about responsibility. Hopefully I wouldn't have idiot kids.
ok since people want an age requirement lets say you caught them with in 2 years of when you started smoking MJ if you started smoking as a child.
but for those of you that started later lets say 15.
If my kid was 13 - 15 I'd whoop his ass. If he was 16 -17 I'd discourage it and limit the amount to 1 plant of which he can only use himself. 18+ I'd just tell him to play it safe.
and you started smoking when?Quote:
Originally Posted by Nation_1ne
I didnt smoke as a teen.. I started when i was 33.
But if i caught my son smoking at 14-15 i would be angry
16-17 dissapointed
18+ i would tell him to play it smart and safe and give him knowledge of this wonderful plant and how to grow the best it can be.
i started at 13... not saying it's smart to do....
but i cna't very well flip out on my son if he follows my foot steps.. atleast not over something as minimal as this (ther are other things in my past tho lol... i plan to be understanding, and as non-hypocritical i can be...)
as long as everythign is cool (school/work, law, life [i.e. not throwing it away to smoke all day] i'll be happy... i don't care so much that he smokes weed.... just that he stays safe and responsible....)
I'd kill them for growing, smoking it really depends. I can't really say about that, they could be hardcore tokers who get bad grades and make bad choices in life, but if they're smart about it, it's different, age also plays a part.
Whys everyone so up tight about growing?
Haven't you all tried to grow at some point? I thought that was part of being a stoner. Even if you didn't have a successful grow, I thought every stoner has raised a seedling once. I got a plant a foot high, thats my extent of growing. Most people I have talked to that smoke have tried growing a time or two.
I'd make them stop growing and wouldn't let them have sacks over 14g on them. Other then that I wouldn't care to much. They'd have to keep it in their room if they were to blaze in the house. Other then that it's a misdemeanor so it wouldn't stress it to much. Also I'd make sure they are at least 13-15, don't want cops freaking out to badly.
Just give them the facts...
Ideal age for my kids? Around 17-19. Younger than that, and they can make HUGELY stupid mistakes.
i got no problem growing, but like i said, if i'm not growing too, i don't want the risk of going to jail/prison for plants being grown in my house.... if the 'kid' is on his own... i'd just give him some tips to keep authorities at bay.... and telll him to stay safe...Quote:
Originally Posted by Frivolous248
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Originally Posted by Frivolous248
Growing is a bigger offense if you get caught, a little possession charge is nothing compared to a growing offense. Which could lead to investigation, depending on your state.
i wouldnt care if my kid smoked as long as he gets his shit done,
as far as growin, i'd tell him to grow in the woods, the only person growin in my house is me, im not takin the fall for somone elses plants
Growing in my own house... probably not cool. It's only not cool because its very illegal around here. It is a good hobby, though.
As for smoking, depending on age, I wouldn't mind. As long as their not being stupid about it or dealing, then it's fine.
Couldn't allow it, already got enough covert prejudice flowing my way from the local 5-0 hating on me. Shit would be bad were the police to end up at my house again for some made up reason and find plants, especially with Nazi NJ plant penalties.
if their mature enough i wouldnt really get mad i'll just tell 'em to be responsible and to do good in life and no growing hell no when he gets his own place then i wont care
stupid is a stupid does.............................................. ......
I have 11 years before he becomes a teenager,but I have allready had millions of responsibility talks with him laying in my bed at night,trying to fall asleep.
He's two years and allready I'm worried,but I guess thats what being a parent is all about.
What ever he does or says I'll love him and suport him.And if he does the same misstakes as me?? I'll have to stand by his side and hope he'll learn.
I m reallly really really nervous.......
peace:hippy:
I voted for old skool knowledge because my kid will be responsible anyway, they will have been talked to before hand.
I'd educate them on it with fact, and tell them not to listen to the Government - because it's lies. I'll let them smoke at any age - it doesnt bother me because i know it's safe - but they wont be allowed to smoke in my house untill 16. And i wont give them money for it - if they want it they'll have to be responcible and get a part time job or something. Also i'll let them into my secret of growing - and they can have a plant or 2 for themselves.
I wont say anything about growing untill they are at least 16 though, because i need to be able to trust them not to go bragging - kids are good at saying what you want to hear but not following it through.
i would never let anyone grow inside of my house...thats serious jail time for ME if THEY get caught. but i would let them smoke bud starting at 15
but i kno if they started tokin at 13 or sumthing that no matter wat i would do they would still toke so i wouldnt do much except talk to them and let them kno that once there 15 they could toke around me (when i got caught toked up on the very same day even tho my parents were pissed as hell and disapointed
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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
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Some of you are acting like if they grow pot "they're so much worse than just smoking" but honestly, when I told my dad I wanted to grow, and he asked why and I told him I didn't want to risk buying off the streets and having to transport it on the streets he completely understood.. if done correctly it can be a responsible move.
If they were growing I'd send those plants down the garbage disposal. If they were smoking and they were a teenager I wouldn't ground them if I found out or anything but I wouldn't let them do it in my house, if I was there. Because I wouldn't wanna be charged with contributing to the deliquency of a minor. Why wouldn't I let them grow? Well I'm in highschool right now (16) and everyone I know who grows is selling, and I wouldn't want it in my house. No one I know "grows recreationally".
YEP^^^^ Chances are i will be growing too tho!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
I wouldn't allow growing. I don't care how responsible my child would seem to me; children like to talk. I wouldn't trust them to keep it to themselves, and thats something that if they got caught it could ruin both mine and the kids fathers career. Also get the kid taken away and all kinds of things that I really wouldn't want. Smoking would be different. I would want them to be in their older teens when they start, but I also know that if they start young and like it there isnt much I could do or say to make them stop. I would have a talk with them about being safe and responsible, and I would tell them that I'd rather have them smoke at home. I wouldn't want them to be out with their friends stoned and driving around.
i would let them smoke at 14 and id let them grow if i was living in a house far from any other people.
It's refreshing to see a lot of responsible stoners!
I WISH my kids smoked! They are down on their ever-toking Mom. And as to the age that kids should toke, well I've known "adult" 12 year olds and "teen" 40 year olds! I all depends on the individual's level of maturity! - Granny:hippy: